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Cast Off- I look like a different person!! White Plains, NY
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Being a first generation American, I generously...
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Being a first generation American, I generously (sarcasm) inherited very Eastern European features. It also didn't help that I played lots of sports when I was a kid. I'm sure I've broken my nose and a few other bones at that (my family doesn't believe in going to doctors). Personally, my nose doesn't bother me to the point where I NEED this surgery - what bothers me is that people define me by my nose. I was hoping that eventually people will like me for me and all my wonderful qualities-unfortunately, in this day and age.... this will never be possible. I was made fun of severely as a child. Even as an adult, if someone needs to point me out in a crowd the description is "the girl with the big nose". So I held out on getting a rhinoplasty as long as I could. Now I'm 31 and I am ready for this change. I'm just super nervous because it's my face. I fear that I'll end up with a botched surgery and make my situation worse.
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January 4, 2013
Wow! Sometimes people are so stupid! I have had people ( complete strangers ) come up to me and say " You know, you would be really pretty if it wasn't for that! ( pointing to my nose)" Seriously people are so lame. haha I hope the best for you and pray that the outcome is better than you could imagine! ;)
January 4, 2013
I know what you mean. I've had people tell me the same thing!! I'll keep you posted on everything :)
January 4, 2013
You are only 5 days away from your dream operation! Best of luck to you. Hopefully soon in a crowd, someone will point you out by saying "the girl with the beautiful nose"!
January 4, 2013
Thank you so much. I will truly cry the day that happens. Thank you for all the support
April 12, 2017
Omg same here girl!!! I feel u..it bothered me whrn i was young then i grew into it and now as an adult people still make remarks..
Girl w big nose ect...i know its time to make a move!!
Girl w big nose ect...i know its time to make a move!!
UPDATED FROM Metee143
4 days pre
So, the surgery is getting closer. I'm excited,...
So, the surgery is getting closer. I'm excited, scared and anxious. :/ I'm not really worried about the pain. I'm more concerned about possibly making my face worse.
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January 4, 2013
I agree with Angiemcc in that you're a very pretty girl. Hopefully, getting a rhinoplasty will make you believe it too. :) I'd love to read and update from you on your surgery! Good luck, btw. You have all the information you'll ever need on here.
January 4, 2013
This website has been amazing. It is extremely helping with the anxiety. I'll keep you all posted. Thank you so much!
January 4, 2013
You are going to look amazing :) Excited to follow your journey. I wish you all the best!
January 5, 2013
Hi & welcome. Wow, you are stunning, but I understand how you feel about your nose and the concerns you have about being worse after the surgery......but that is not going to happen. These surgeons are skilled and gifted and know what they are doing. My op is on the 14th so you are week ahead of me, and probably will be getting your cast removed when I will undergo mine. A modified nose is going to be the best thing you have done for yourself. Go for it!!
January 7, 2013
I really hope so! Thank you so much for the support. I need it as I only have one day left till the surgery
January 6, 2013
I think I was in the waiting room with you.. I'm not sure though lol I'm feeling the same way! I hope surgery doesn't make it worse, I'm not even concerned with the pain!
January 7, 2013
What day did you see me in the waiting room? I'm not concerned about the pain either. When is your surgery? I have a day left with my nose. I honestly feel like I'm going to be losing a part of me. As crazy as that sounds??
January 7, 2013
i was there new years eve... im so nervous too! im soo scared of regretting this. everyone i talk to other than doctors dont think there is anything wrong with my nose. im freaking out!! im praying it doesnt look bad and changes the way i look for the worst. wish i can fast forward a year to lol
January 7, 2013
my surgery is january 10th. im really excited for you im gonna be the same way the day before my surgery.. good luck!! let me know how it goes!
January 7, 2013
Yeah that was me. I had my pre-op appointment that day. I don't remember seeing anyone because I was so anxious. I'll let you know how it goes tomorrow. I've been taking arnica tablets to prevent swelling and bruising. I'm trying to do whatever I can to make sure recovery is easy. Good luck on the 10th! Thank you so much for easing my anxiety
January 8, 2013
i've bee taking arnica and the vitamin c.. did you get the arnica gel too?
January 8, 2013
I have been taking Vit C and arnica tablets. I have the gel too and I've been putting it on my face where I think I might swell (it probably won't do anything till after my surgery). Oh boy, getting scared now!
UPDATED FROM Metee143
1 day pre
So tomorrow morning is the surgery. I feel like...
So tomorrow morning is the surgery. I feel like I'm going to lose a part of me which sounds absolutely crazy- almost like losing a best friend or a pet. This is all I know. I'm super anxious. I haven't really been sleeping well these last few nights :/ My friends have been super supportive and are telling me how wonderful I'm going to look. I just don't know. :( What if I don't like it?
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January 7, 2013
Feeling anxious about the result is normal when not knowing for sure what it will look like, and how looking slightly different will affect you emotionally. We tend to write about our new noses here, but the truth is it is still our nose and it's not going anywhere, it's just been sculpted to reveal the beauty. You will be fine. I've decided to tell myself & my nose how beautiful I (it!) is going to look and not worry. Take care and all the best. We are here to encourage & support you, and will be waiting on the other side of your surgery. You are going to look gorgeous!!
January 8, 2013
Thank you so much! I seriously feel like the website has been tremendously helpful in calming me down. It helps to know others have felt the same way as me.
January 7, 2013
You are very pretty! Good luck tomorrow, sending positive thoughts your way for your surgery :) I have a week till my surgery and I have woken up with the same feeling about not "being me" or questioning my decision. Everyone says its normal... just think about how happy you'll be in a month.
January 8, 2013
Thank you so so much! I'll be sure to return the support when it is your turn. Good luck to you and I'll keep you posted.
January 8, 2013
Best of luck to you tomorrow!! Your in good hands Dr. C does some of the most naturally beautiful noses around :) your nose will look stunning :)
January 9, 2013
Thank You so much! So far, so good! :) I think since my nose needed a lot done and I feel the changes will be pretty obvious. However it comes out looking will be better than before :)
January 8, 2013
Hey there beautiful!! I think I have a very similar nose to yours... I wish I was getting surgery tomorrow like you! Lucky!!!! I have to wait until April, Grr!!! Best of luck... I know everything will go very well and you will be so happy with your new nose. Post soon!!!
January 9, 2013
So I read you review. Your story sounds just like mine in everyway. So, I'm post-op and I'm actually feeling pretty good. No issues. I can't really tell if there are any changes since the cast is covering everything. My tip is definitely more up. I think the emotional impact is going to show when the cast is removed. I felt EXTREMELY groggy a few hours after surgery and I was in pain- also I kept going in and out of consciousness because I guess the anesthesia didn't wear out completely. I popped the pain killers and felt 100% better. Now I'm just relaxing. :) Things are good as of now. We'll see tomorrow (apparently that is when the swelling is worse). Will keep you posted!
Gonzo! You're so silly. You're beautiful, but I hope this makes you love your face even more.
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