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Hi I have wanted this procedure since I was very...
SetsterJanuary 17, 2016
$4,100
Hi
I have wanted this procedure since I was very young (am now 21). I am now in the financial position to be able to do this so am currently exploring my options and having consultations! I have had one consultation so far but wasn't pleased with the surgeon he rushed me in and out and it seems that the company are more about commission/getting your commitment than about results. Got another consultation on Friday with a very well renowned surgeon who is highly sought after for this procedure - fairly sure that I'm going to go ahead and book the treatment on Friday, all being well - exciting!!! Will keep people updated on here :). I am not intending on telling my mum that I'll be having this treatment, only my boyfriend. However she is going to be very confused and interested as to why I am using a week of annual leave and not doing anything, she will also be highly suspicious of me being in bed and in obvious pain. Does anyone have any recommendations regarding this or ideas of other medical procedures I could say I'd had done that would yield similar results on my behaviour?? Thanks in advance!
I have wanted this procedure since I was very young (am now 21). I am now in the financial position to be able to do this so am currently exploring my options and having consultations! I have had one consultation so far but wasn't pleased with the surgeon he rushed me in and out and it seems that the company are more about commission/getting your commitment than about results. Got another consultation on Friday with a very well renowned surgeon who is highly sought after for this procedure - fairly sure that I'm going to go ahead and book the treatment on Friday, all being well - exciting!!! Will keep people updated on here :). I am not intending on telling my mum that I'll be having this treatment, only my boyfriend. However she is going to be very confused and interested as to why I am using a week of annual leave and not doing anything, she will also be highly suspicious of me being in bed and in obvious pain. Does anyone have any recommendations regarding this or ideas of other medical procedures I could say I'd had done that would yield similar results on my behaviour?? Thanks in advance!
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January 20, 2016
If I am being very honest, I wish I had my mom here with me for support and help. Ofcourse I don't know you mother or your situation, but most moms want to care for their children and might become upset if they find out later that they couldn't be there for you. It will be difficult to hide what you are doing since you'll have to put things between your legs from time to time, need certain supplies right next to your bed, and waddling to the toilet will raise some questionmarks. If you do decide not to tell her (which I can understand, it's a tough subject to bring up), I think you could play it of as a "groin" operation (I had to translate that from my language so not sure how that sounds to you). I am aiming for the piece between your upper leg and your belly/lady parts. The part were the rim of most panties are. Theres all sorts of tendons and glands in that area, and you can also have bursitis there (where the tissue between your hipbone and your thighbone becomes infected, so walking is difficult/painfull and you need bedrest).
Lots of luck!
Lots of luck!
January 24, 2016
Thanks so much! I think I am going to tell her because it will be too hard to hide. Really dreading having the conversation but I think it's the right thing to do. She would hate not knowing I just hope she doesn't tell any of my siblings because they will tease me so much :(
January 24, 2016
Best of luck, you will be fine! I think if you open up and show how much this means to you, she will keep it a secret. You can always voice your concerns with her and tell her you are afraid that they will tease you. I did the same thing, and my mother didn't tell my brother and father either for that same reason.
January 21, 2016
You're unlikely to be in much pain, I wasn't. But wearing baggy clothes and lounging around for several days is harder to disguise! (especially if you suddenly start sitting on a donut cushion - which I highly recommend BTW) I certainly couldn't have kept it a secret from my mum if I lived with her... Perhaps you could stay with someone else for a few days? Failing that, just tell her you're having a minor procedure that you don't feel comfortable talking about. People are more likely to respect your privacy when you tell them a little something, rather than nothing at all.
January 24, 2016
Thank you! After speaking with my surgeon I've decided it's best to tell her so am working up the nerve to have a conversation with her. Fortunately I'm not booked in until a few months away so there's time to figure out what to say...
UPDATED FROM Setster
Booked in!
SetsterFebruary 14, 2016
So I am finally booked in for my surgery on the 17th March! I'm really excited but also fairly nervous - I've never had an operation before and I feel faint even from a flu jab. The desire for having this procedure however, far outweighs the nerves so I'm hoping I won't be too much of a state on the day. I also plucked up the courage to tell my Mum. I sent her a long text and she said she loves and respects me no matter what and that she was chuffed I'd told her. We've also had a deep chat in person now and I've answered all of her questions, she is a bit worried that I still won't be satisfied and is horrified at the cost but hasn't tried to talk me out of it, in fact she's hugely supportive! She was also really upset that I've felt this way for so long and haven't ever been able to discuss it with her. I've had all my letters through now and feel a bit daunted by the contract to sign - did anybody else feel this way? I feel like it's a bit business-like now, rather than caring, for example having to sign to say we've discussed our expectation of results etc. What do I do if I'm not happy afterwards now?! Not sure if it's just me being silly because I'm the type of person to worry about everything, I suppose this is standard procedure for any private surgery! Anyway, counting down the days :)
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March 1, 2016
If there are complications or undesired outcomes that aren't your fault your practice should be liable for this. I think this just means if you don't like the outcome in aesthetic terms you would have to pay more. Make sure you ask your patient coordinator any questions so you feel completely ready for when your surgery comes around [RS bleep]
February 14, 2017
Hi,
I had Labiaplasty done in London 2 days ago. I'm 22 and didn't tell my mum...I knew she would get really upset with me. I took one annual week off and told I'm just getting headaches at work and need a break. I asked for the procedure to take place at 11, it started at 12 and I was out the door on my feet by 5pm. I took a Uber home and went to sleep straight away. I was able to walk and move as normal. I had little pain, was given painkillers and antibiotics. I had Labiaplasty with Hoodectomy under general anaesthesia. Any help or info let me know!. x
I had Labiaplasty done in London 2 days ago. I'm 22 and didn't tell my mum...I knew she would get really upset with me. I took one annual week off and told I'm just getting headaches at work and need a break. I asked for the procedure to take place at 11, it started at 12 and I was out the door on my feet by 5pm. I took a Uber home and went to sleep straight away. I was able to walk and move as normal. I had little pain, was given painkillers and antibiotics. I had Labiaplasty with Hoodectomy under general anaesthesia. Any help or info let me know!. x
UPDATED FROM Setster
Had my labiaplasty yesterday
SetsterMarch 18, 2016
I had the procedure about 30 hours ago now! I was so so so scared but all the staff were amazing and really put me at ease. It was painful yesterday, but I haven't had any painkillers today - just iced ALL day and I can't believe how much the swelling has reduced! Photo is from last night so about 12 hours after the procedure, sorry for all the blood it was way too sore to clean though! The sorest part is at the front where the clitoral hood was hugely reduced :) very happy so far.
Welcome to the community, I am certain you will get lots of support here. Be sure to also check-in here to connect with others preparing for their procedure — you may be the first, so I hope you decide to kick off the conversation.
Here is some information that you may find helpful as you prepare for your journey:
What Do You Wish You Knew Before Having Surgery?
Trim Versus Wedge Approach
Questions You Should Ask Before Your Surgery and The Ones You Shouldn't Forget!
Good luck, and keep us posted.