Mommy Makeover: Mini Tummy Tuck w/Muscle Repair, Lollipop Lift w/365 Full Profile, Smooth Soft Touch Gummy Implants

My daughter is 9. Pre-baby I was 5'7", 128lbs with B cup breasts. I worked out, ate healthy and was very confidant and loved my body. After having one baby naturally and breast feeding I kept waiting and working to get my pre-pregnancy body back. Reading about celebrities "bouncing back" and metabolism slowing as we get older, I felt I just needed to work out more, cut out cheese(ha ha), not drink etc, etc. I had never been worried about those things before, but now I figured I had to be. I finally realize what pregnancy did to my body. Diastasis recti, filling my breasts up to bowling balls and then shrinking back. No amount of a healthy life style is going to get me what I want.

I am now 140 lbs with VS 34 D cup. I mention VS because my surgeon told me their sizing is inaccurate, but I don't have bras from anywhere else. In a bra, I am happy with the size, but out of a bra, they are lower than preferred. And of course I have the requisite right boob a bit bigger. Not sure if it was pre-baby, but definitely noticed when I was breast feeding and they were bigger than my head!

I am now scheduled for Abdominoplasty that includes fixing the Diastasis Recti and pulling the skin down without cutting the belly button. My surgeon explained it was between a mini and a full tummy tuck. I am also scheduled for a breast lift with anchor scar and augmentation.

I have been researching like crazy and have been brainwashed with boob pics. I started out wanting my breasts to look natural, but obviously higher. I've even considered a lift only. But looking at all the great cleavage in bikinis has me considering high profile (I believe boob greed is the term). I feel it is much easier to manipulate the outcome with a flat chest. Because I do have some breast tissue, will that create a slightly more natural shape even with high profile? The problem with high profile, is I'm not excited about all the extra cc's needed for my breast diameter. Can the breast diameter be made smaller during the lift?

It's really difficult to find pictures of a breast I like, when the girl was my size before surgery. I guess I still picture myself as being 24. Any suggestions would be helpful. Of course I will be talking to my surgeon as well. Just want to make the correct decisions and my husband is supportive, but unhelpful in these decisions. I need a body stylist!

I've talked to my plastic surgeon and in order to fill the breast after the lift and get me the nice shape I like, I'll have to use a low profile or slightly higher. I believe the low profile would be 265 and if I go one step higher it jumps to about 315. The implants will be around 12 centimeters in diameter. I have breast tissue that will cover and create a natural shape. The implant will create some upper pole fullness. Unfortunately I do not have quite enough breast tissue to create the fullness with just a lift. I'm glad they will look natural, and hoping they will be perky with these procedures. I want to be able to wear a bikini and feel confident.

Here are my before pics. I am very excited for my more than a mini tummy tuck and muscle repair. PS told me scar will be very low. In addition to not feeling comfortable with the way my tummy looks, I can't hold my pee if I say, try to do 100 jumping jacks. PS cannot guarantee a fix for this, however I have read that repairing the muscles can have a positive result on incontinence especially if you went through natural child birth. I did. I look better when I have worked out, but get discouraged because my tummy doesn't get flat. I have also read that doing certain abdominal exercises makes the diastatsis recti worse.
My right breast is uncomfortable and gets in the way. The skin in both feels loose because of size change and back again during pregnancy. To be honest, if both my breasts looked like my left, I would not get anything done. That being said, since I'm going to fix the right breast, I want them both lifted and skin tightened using an anchor lift. Tissue and a bit more skin removed from the right to even them out.
So my question is, small implants or just a lift?
Just a lift Pros: Don't have to have a life time of dealing with MRI's, more surgeries when they need replacing, and possible sped up sagging caused by more weight. Faster/easier recovery. All the possible risks that go along with silicone implants.
Cons: Will they still be flat? Will they sag again?
Silicone Implant Low Profile 265-315 Pros: Would give better proportion to my body as I'm not 24 anymore. Would look great in a bikini. Would be fun and sexy.
Cons: I cannot get a higher profile because I'd have to go up to the 400's. I am not interested in basketballs and hated my breasts when I was breast feeding. They were cute when I was pregnant had a belly to match and a beautiful daughter growing inside me!
I have read some posts where women with a bit more breast tissue than mine got implants with their lift and the whole thing sagged within a year! I'd rather have small breasts than big saggy ones. Plastic Surgeon said the small implants will provide lift in that they will lift the breast away from the body. Every breast is different and reacts differently and I don't know what is best for mine.
I change my mind daily. Would love some comparisons of similar sized ladies and opinions! Thank you!