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Hi, I am 29 yr old SAHM mom of a 4yr old and...

Hi, I am 29 yr old SAHM mom of a 4yr old and 16month old. I have severe muscle separation from childbirth (10 1/2 pound and 9.14 pound babies) and I gained 60 pounds with both pregnancies quickly (5'3" started at 110 pounds Pre pregnancy, lost the weight after both kids) and now I'm at 120 (I'm trying to lose last little bit). I'm training for a half marathon and want to be in great shape for my surgery (so my saggy skin will be stretched and not get loose if I lose weight after surgery). I have three weeks until surgery and I am not telling most of my family and friends. (I don't think they would understand unless they saw how saggy my skin is and how I bloat out like I'm pregnant if I don't wear a binder every night...ugh! My D.R. Separation is from my boobs to my csection scar and I can fit my hand inbetween it's crazy! I've tried everything tupler technique, different exercises it won't go back!) I wear lose shirts and spanks so I don't think it is too noticeable but I'm tired of wearing spanks under my swim suit and feeling embarrassed in front of my husband!
I am getting ready for surgery and I wanted to know how long recovery takes and how much help will I need? My husband can only take two days off of work and I'm worried bc I stay home with kiddos and I don't know how much I should ask for people to come help watch them? (Plus since I'm not telling most people I won't have much help.) I recovered really fast from both c-sections and was off meds early. Just wondering if this is similar or worse?
Thank you.

Getting excited!

I have my Pre op on Monday! Yay! I know I should bring a swim bottom and they will tell me to get a blood test. Is there anything else I should know or ask before I go? Thanks ladies I appreciate all the advise! And reading all your stories and seeing your pics. Hope you're all recovering well!

Dr appointment today! Yay!

I met with my dr today! I'm so excited! We went over the risks and what's going to happen. He did say he's going to wait to see if my D.R. is bad enough when he's doing surgery then he will sew it up if he needs to (which scares me because that is the main reason I am doing this my muscles are not together and I look prego) my husband reassured me that he thinks the dr will do it. But there is no guarantee until day of...pray that he does! He says he does two different types of stitches and he sounds like he's very concerned about how I will look and feel after. My husband met him and approved (he has a good sense of people after first meeting them)so I trust his judgement. They didn't have me do my before pics or mark me (I guess they do that day of) I do need to go get blood drawn but other than that I'm ready! I am going to make freezer meals and I have my half marathon coming up then I'm ready actually. He also said he didn't think my recovery would take very long (drains out 5 days or so) up and walking day after and I just have to wear my garment forever j/k! He even said I could pick up my kids just to be careful. I'm excited!

Ran half marathon today!

I feel like I'm one step closer to my tummy! I ran my second ever half marathon today (2 hrs 5mins) so I have one thing off my list. Now I just need to make freezer meals, get blood drawn and get scripts. I can't believe it's about a week until my surgery! (I wish I had dropped my last few pounds but I don't think a week will change that) I'm sure it will just motivate me after surgery to keep exercising and staying healthy. Hope everyone posting on RS are enjoying their flat tummies I can't wait till I can start enjoying mine!

Ran half marathon today! (Another one!)

I was feeling fat so I decided to do one last run before my surgery...I figure it will be a while till I can run again so I might as well go for it! Any believe I'm going to have surgery Tuesday!! I never thought I'd actually get to have a nice tummy again I should have wore a bikini more when I was young!

Night before surgery...yay!

Looking forward to tomorrow! I have to take an antibiotic and put nausea patch behind my ear and use the wash the office gave me on my surgical area. I better drink some water since I can't after midnight and my surgery check in is 10:45. I have to get my closed toed shoes, sweats and zip up shirt ready...and maybe do a few sit ups since I won't be able to for a long time! But at least ill be able to see I have some abs after this...I hope! Hope to post some pics after (pray that my swelling isn't too bad and drains come out soon please and that my kids are okay without me picking them up). Thanks for all the support and prayers!

Had surgery

Hi Ladies,
I had surgery today. I peed in my cup, forgot to put an my neasua patch (luckily my husband reminded me to take my pills with me and I was able to out it on before works after three hours and I defiantly think it helped) I went home around 4. I am now on my meds and hobbling around the house hiding from te kids lol so I won't get jumped on. Heeheee. I feel bad my daughter keeps asking for mama but I can't pick her up so I try to be in another room so she doesn't see my but I swear she can sense me.
I have a follow up at 2. (It's 5am woke up in pain and need pills and change tampon yuck! Luckily it's the end of my period.) the dr stitched me brim breast none to pubic and it feels like a really strong core workout and I'm all hunched over like an 90 year old. Even though I'm all girdled and hunched I'm so happy I did this. I hope I'm happy tomorrow when I go to dr and see my results a little. I've been trying to ice but my garment is so thick it's hard to even feel the coldness. Hope everyone is recovering well! I'm hoping I can be okay by Halloween to take kids trick or treating and pass out candy we are in a very busy Halloween neighborhood! I think that's because my neighbor passes out full size candy bars! She's awesome! Is anyone else dressing up? I will have to wear my garment under not sure how I'm going to hide it?!

My new look! What do you think?

Just showing you all my beautiful CG haha my husband says I look skinnier but I feel swollen and I know the CG is making me smaller. Can't wait to see my results! I'm still hunched over but not as bad as I thought! My two drains are not too bad either I just have to hide from kids so they don't pull them :)

Got drains out after only one day PO!

Yay! Just went to dr and he said I could have both drains out (good thing I took pain pills right before)! But it didn't hurt it was just a long tug. I didn't take my dressings off bc the girl did such a nice job and I didn't want to ruin it. I did have a small blood clot and bleeding a little but it looks good. I'm still sooooo surprised dr took my drains out! He said I have to wear my CG for a month and try to drink lots of water and stand up straight. He also said not to wear tight jeans or anything that will crease my new tummy. I also bought arnica pills to help with swelling. So happy! Still in shock that I actually did this!

Gained five that normal?

So it's midnight, I had my drains removed around 2:30 and I haven't pooped yet. Is it water weight (I'm extremely poofy) or is it bc I haven't pooped??? I looked much better when dr took out tubes; I had my husband change my pads on stitches and he got to see the cut for the first time (I think he thought it was smaller than hip to hip and was a little shocked!). I had a bunch of dry blood and now when I pulled dressings off they are bleeding again. I wish I had him take a pic I'm poofy on top of incision and wish I could get someone's opinion if that's normal. I also just had surgery Tuesday so I know it's not long and I should expect swelling...right?! :) I'm kind of a worry wart and I've heard a lot of people on RS talk about sanoma (sorry however you spell that) and I'm worried I might get it? Is it when the fluid builds up in you? I hope it gets better I feel like I got punched in both rib cages and my V is all bruised. Ill try to post a pic later when I'm up for the challenge re doing my pads. To top it off my period is still lingering and I haven't wanted to wear a pad with my giant pee poop hole outfit bc I'd have to put underwear on top so I don't have to take off dressings every time I go to the bathroom lol! Sorry I'm babbling I'm super tired but My brain keeps thinking about how much more I'm going to swell and how much longer I need to be on oxy (bc I want to drive to the store) ugh I don't like being stuck at home! Tomorrow I have a friend coming to help with the kids I hope it goes well I like my husband helping me (bc of him I had big babies and if I should go through this he should have to in a way too) and I don't want to be an all day burden on my friend and I know my kids are going a little stir crazy in the house too. Even though I had my husband take them to jump and bounce to get wiggles out they were still grumpy and cranky.maybe it's all in my head but my 18 mo does so well when I hold her so I think she's just fussing bc she knows I can't and my son needs a playdate and more individual attention. Anyway... Anyone have any good PS jokes I could really use something funny right now :)

Ahhh..getting tired of sitting around!

You'd think I'd like to relax and not do anything but I just feel drowsy and tired but bored and awake at the same time! Grrr!! I just wish I could wake up from my next narcolepsy attack (I don't actually have narcolepsy it just feels like I do) anyway I wish of wake up all healed, can drive, be off meds an walk around in a bikini haha! And pick up my kids I just don't want to busy open but I hate hearing my daughter say mama and cry because I'm not picking her up :( does anyone have any burning heat under their CG? It's not constant just once and a while. Also, what is everyone eating? Blah! Blah! Blah! Sorry I'm rambling... Help someone tell me something interesting I'm soooo bored! Also I'm itchy is that from antibiotics?

Pics of my shark attack j/k!!

Not my best look and I weighed myself and I'm up 6 pounds now...I'm starting to freak out. Do you think it's just 6 pounds of poop? My husband said he "knew I was full of sh!t" haha but honestly should I be concerned?

Um kind of freaking out!

So I felt pretty good all day. I walked around, went up and down the stairs didn't push myself. Even took a 2hr nap and my friend watched my kids. Then my husband gets home I show him my belly (just trying to change the dressings) but we notice that I'm super swollen above my belly button! I left message at dr office (30 mins prior to close) and called again with no answer. The dr will be out of the office fri-mon. I hope I'm okay bc my husband is freaking me out saying I'm going to ruin everything by getting stretched out and said he wished I still had drains in bc he thinks its fluid build up with no where to go. I called my mom she said I have a very good dr and he wouldn't put me in danger (although she hasn't seen what I look like now) I need my husband to take a pic so someone can tell me I'm fine it's just water?! Any ideas of what to do to get rid of water weight (hoping that's all it is). Also has anyone else had drains taken out the day after surgery like me??

Pain pain go away and take my bloating away!

I'm not sure if this is just water retention but I'm in pain. I just took another oxy, I've been taking everything dr told me and now two stool softeners. (No poo yet...sorry TMI.) I just feel like someone is blowing up a beach ball and strangling me from the inside! My incision site burns but maybe I didn't do meds close enough? I'm trying to remember but I forget things easily lately! It was like I could finally breathe taking off my CG then quickly following encrusting pain after. No one from my dr office called me back. I don't want to call emergency line (I don't have a fever) but I am starting to think this is more than just water retention. I just hated being bugged when I was not working so if it isn't Sonoma I don't want to call. I just wished the office had called me back real quick. I know my dr won't be in the office till tues maybe it's all mental and I'm just freaking myself out! I just wish some one could drain this because I feel like I'm short of breath. Could this be caused by walking stairs/house too much? Should I be icing? Help?!

Seriously is this what I'm going to look like?!

I can't believe this what I look/feel like! I was so excited about my TT right after but ever since I got my drains out I've been swelling...I think I'm in the sad stage. My husband and two kiddos left with in laws to go pumpkin picking (which is cheesy but I love it every year) and I'm stuck at home (bc I'm sure if they saw me hunched over and could barely walk they would know something's up and put the pieces together)! Totally bummed that I'm not going to see the kids picking them out ugh! And ill prob be bloated for Halloween (which I want to dress family up) and I feel lonely and bored and swollen! Sorry for the rant I just wish I was the way I looked the first day...smooth not huge and black and blue! Well I guess the good news is I can rest for a little bit. Although honestly I just want to clean the house it's driving me crazy! But every time I bend down I feel like I'm causing damage and getting more swollen...I haven't even read a book or watched tv (besides one movie w my husband) but I just don't feel interested in anything I just want to take a nap wake up and be normal looking! Maybe God is laughing at me testing my strength. Maybe he's telling me to rest bc being a sahm I'm always doing everything for kids/husband and don't really stop 24/7. Hmmm...did I mention that my daughter threw a hard toy at my stomach twice (she has a strong arm; she's a little fussy and pouts with fits but that's a whole other story) and my son tried to jump on my tummy twice and then it felt like something tore so I took another pain pill (I think my last one was 3am) so I was doing pretty good. I still have had a BM and my husband hasn't went to the store to get MoM yet or food for me an the kids he's been busy working. I understand he needs to work but this hasn't been a recovery break. Life's been about the same the only thing different is that I can't pick up my daughter so I send her to my husband (which he gives her tons of attention). Anyway, hope you all are having a better time recovering! Everyone's pics I've seen are awesome can't wait till I heal up and am able to appreciate this journey a little more. Thanks to everyone who posts pics after the hard part so I have hope that I won't look/feel like this forever! (Plus my bday is next week and I would like to enjoy maybe leave the house lol.)

Silly iPhone

I was trying to fix my post but not sure why it wouldn't let me; anyway I'm sure you all figured it out but I haven't had BM or else why would I want my husband to buy me some MoM. Silly phone prob my fault I didn't hit the correct edit button...sorry!

Called Dr. And text pics...

Called Dr. And sent him pics he thinks I have Sonoma. (Sorry i dont know how to spell that!) He is out of town he is going to call us tomorrow and discuss if we should put the needle in and get the fluid out Sunday or just wait till Monday. It's hard to show from pics but it is very big and I hope it doesn't ruin how flat I was in the beginning. I wish I had just said yes and kept my drains I think I would have not had this fluid build up. My tummy is now bruised (which is okay and normal) but I feel like each day I am getting worse.
Good news, I finally pooped! I also went down in weight (121.5 now was 119.5 dr office) so at least that is good.
My incision hurts mostly on right side and under rib cage. I feel like I'm burning up but my husband took my temp said I was normal. I practically slept all day.
If my dr gives me a choice should I go in Sunday when he flys back into town(I feel bad bc it's the weekend) or go Monday (I have repair man for dishwasher and sprinkler blow out I will need to change schedule) plus ill need to find someone to watch the kids and someone to drive me.
Thank you RS ladies! Looking forward to feeling better soon!

No seroma but feeling down...

So its been a while since i posted so heres an update. I was worried i had seroma luckily my doctor flew back into town and he and an assistant met me and my husband on SUNDAY (still amazed that he met me on a weekend he could have blew me off but he didnt and he took his time; i am so glad i picked him as my doctor). He told me i was normal just swollen (a tiny bit of seroma near scar on bottom but soooo small). So after i was relived and felt stupid (for making them both come in to work for me). I just didnt realize i would look good then swell up all lumpy and feel like crap! Nothing like csection swelling not even close!

So my swelling is decreasing but now i feel like i cant stop eating i dont know if its halloween candy everywhere or wearing this annoying CG with a pee hole or feeling fat because my swelling is sticking around or not running but i feel like crap! I think i need to get jucing again but i cant go to the store bc i would need to lift my daughter and son into the cart and i dont want to take any chances. On top of it my daughter is teething and is sooooo fussy and also HATES that i cant pick her up. I try to have her sit on my lap and cuddle but she doesnt like it i guess its just not the same. I miss picking her up :(

Anyway just feeling down today. I was hoping to be looking better by now. I was thinkin id call my dr office asking if i can tun but i can barely walk the house with out getting huntched over. Ugh! Anyway hope you all are doing better than all look fablous!

Also can anyone see that big hard spot by my bb in the pic? Does anyone know if that goes away? It hurts when u press on it. Im pretending its not there bc i wear my cg so often i forget till i take it off and see it.
Also i got so itchy i pulled all my tape off my dr said to leave it in till it came off on its own but i couldnt take it anymore and everyone on RS seems to have theres off so hope it was okay?!

Bright side :)

Well yesterday was hard but the good news is things are starting to look up! Ive decided to go gluten free again (my dr thinks i might be celiac and i always feel better limiting my gluten and dairy). I cleaned a bunch of my house (until one am) then took a shower and im starting to feel less helpless (its hard when you are limited in the things you can do).
Ive decided to take kids for a walk and store (we will see how that goes but im looking forward to getting out if the house).
Im still swollen, itchy (where i tore off my tape) and wearing fancy pee hole spanks but im going to make the best of this and ive realized im going to look much better soon.
Lovin everyones before and after pics it gives me hope that ill look as cute as all of you! Hope youre all having a great day :)
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