Amazing, Amazing, Amazing!!!

Holy cow I can’t even believe that I’m writing this. I had read some reviews that women were saying that it goes back to how it was before, I think it’s safe to say after three years and a lot of usage LOL I feel better than ever and it has not loosened up like others had said. I must’ve had a good recovery, a good surgeon and I have followed a good maintenance regimen with exercise and the Apex. Whatever it was, literally saved my marriage, my sanity and my self-confidence. I would do it again in a heartbeat, no regrets.

A quick update for all you looking at getting this procedure. It is by far the best thing that I could have done for myself! It has saved my marriage and my sanity. I got to a point where I was embarrassed to have intercourse with my husband, even though he thinks I’m crazy. Now it doesn’t matter what position I’m in he feels me 100% and so do I. Still added bonus of no bladder leaking! I use to have extreme pain during sex where I had my episiotomy scar but my surgeon took care of that and it’s like if it never happened, no more pain at all. I didn’t have a labiaplasty but she looks prettier ever since she got smaller LOL. Definitely make it a point to use the Kegel exerciser machine they give you because you don’t want to lose the tightness, even though you will loosen up it’s nowhere near what you once had. It was worth every penny and more! If you are having any hesitations, DON’T! If you aren’t satisfied with you sex life after babies this will be life changing. Now I think back at all the pain and 100% agree it was totally worth it!

I haven’t updated much but wanted to tell you how it has going these past few weeks. The first week it was hard to pee because I wasn’t used to such a tight space, even passing gas was sooo painful! FYI: do not stop taking stool softeners and drink enough fiber/prune juice. The second week I went back to work and standing/seating too long felt like a lot. I took Arnica tablets for swelling, bruising and muscle stiffness and sprayed Dermablast every night for the itching/pain these are lifesavers!!! Buy a donut to sit if having a perineoplasty that would be the only way you can sit. Listen to your body and lay down and rest the most you can. Third week I started walking better and moving around with more ease, I still didn’t wear pants or cheeky underwear so it wouldn’t irritate my sutures. Now in my 4th week, I have been feeling great. (TMI moment) Had to figure out what all the hype was about with clitoral stimulation and now I’m hooked!! Orgasms were so amazing, intense and long!!! My perineum is still sore but sutures have absorbed from down there from what I can see and everything is healing great. I’m counting down the day to try her out :)