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Mom of 3, Tummy Tuck W Muscle Repair and Lipo of Belly & Flanks

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Well I'm four days out from my procedure. I have...

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rsnc099
WORTH IT$14,000
Well I'm four days out from my procedure. I have wanted to have this done since the birth of my first child. My life has been crazy hectic, so I haven't had much time to be nervous. Well now that I am 4 days out, the anxiety is kicking in. I go back and forth in my mind- 1)Do I really "need" this. 2)Don't I have enough to take care of (my children are still young and need picked up)- now isn't a good time. 3) Do I "deserve" it, I see other moms out there not bothered by their pooch belly and wear it as a badge of honor. On the flip side of the guilt of vanity and cost, I also am scared about the outcome. Will I be happy with the final result 4-7 months out? Will my body look worse if it doesn't turn out as planned- trying to keep an Edward Scissorhands creation out of my head. I'm trying to stay positive, as I'm happy to think of the final result, but realistically this is what is going on in my head right now.

I get a big cheesy grin thinking of running without my belly flopping uncomfortably. I exercise fairly regularly where every body part tightens and tones up, but my tummy. I also look forward to starting my life post pregnancies and being a happy confident mom raising happy confident children- they are what they see. I have a good support system and I am so grateful for it!!!

I do plan to post before and after photos, doctor info etc. Right now I'm just trying to get my head to calm down before the surgery. I welcome positive comments and thoughts, thanks!!!

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Adam C. Augenstein, MD

Adam C. Augenstein, MD

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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April 9, 2014
Good luck to you!! I see you are tmw!! I'm still 5 weeks yet. I think the same thoughts but I do NOT want to wear my belly as a badge of honor. I can love my kids looking good too :D
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April 9, 2014
Good luck! Everything will be fine and you do deserve it! Xoxo
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April 9, 2014
Best wishes to you! If you are confident that you have chosen the best doctor for you then put your trust in him that he will do the best possible for you. The vast majority of people who undergo this surgery say they only wish they had done it sooner! It sounds like your timing is perfect. Maybe you could keep a "pros" list with you so when the cons pop into your head, you can acknowledge it, put it away on your mind's shelf and refer to the positives you have listed. Looking forward to hearing/seeing more- thanks for sharing!
April 10, 2014
I am 5 days post-op and I had SERIOUS second thoughts the week before my surgery. It's definitely not easy. The first few days are hard and I did have the feelings of "what did I do to myself" and "is this really worth it?" But I think it's going to be and every day gets better. I would not be able to do this without my husband being so good and helpful. Good luck to you - you'll do great.
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April 10, 2014
As I pack my bag the nerves are in full force. These messages are lovely to read right now! Positive thinking is going to get me through I know it. I will be commenting tomorrow most likely, I am staying at the facility overnight and my husband isn't allowed to stay. So I will be alone after 6. Thanks guys. 71 beach- keep your head up you're already on your way : ). Adding 2 before photos.
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1 day pre

Adding photos of the before belly

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April 10, 2014
i personally think chica,,it is a psychological thing,mental going back and forth like this. i do nt think it is going to affect ya!(many here for years,go back n forth,i.e. do i or should i do this etc. so just think positive,your not even fat!(we had similar built)so many told me i was not even fat,but,also i lost alot of weight,see pix(just go to my profile pg.)i had to for a while now put it on hold.no regrets,still eating healthy,better,and when i am able too i hope the summer,i will be more than focus,and just do it,life too short not to.researh the dr. i am sure your done doing that,and triple-research,and get your new cuerpo chica the "body"your wanting,and needing to feel healthier,be healthier,around the waist belly area.life too short NOT to look how us good women feel on the inside,keep us posted,when your entering,waking up on the flat side,your goin to look great,friend of mine did hers. no regrets for now just over 2 years,or so.yep.(in miami)we live in ny though area,nj. keep us posted,god speed. adios ~certified-flat sexi stomach~
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April 10, 2014
That anxiety is normal I think. We are so conditioned to do for others, we sometimes forget to take care of ourselves. If it is important to you, then this is the right choice. Good luck and happy healing.
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April 10, 2014
Hey there, Check out my profile, we have similar shapes. I had my TT/MR 10 weeks ago, and am SOOO glad I did. I'm almost 52, and proof positive that it's never too late :-D. This is definitely worth the recovery. Once you get about 5-8 days PO, it really does start feeling normal and each day gets better and better. Just prepare yourself for swelling and don't let it get to you, cause it's all part of the healing process. Drink lots of water, rest and eat protein and veggies. Best wishes, YOU CAN DO THIS! Feel free to ask anything, I'll help any way I can. :-DSuzy
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2 days post

My first day at home after TT

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It's over. I think I'm happy but I am so looped up on meds. I'm not going to type a a lot I have blurry vision. I'm almost positive its the muscle relaxers - because they made my sight messed up before when i pulled my shoulder out, Not going to take them anymore.
Here are my day post op photos. I'm reallllllly sore but can waddle.

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April 13, 2014
What a difference!! Happy healing!