3 1/2 weeks post-op
Hi, I am a 42 yr old mother of 2 children( aged 7...
Hi, I am a 42 yr old mother of 2 children( aged 7 and 5). I have been overweight all my life but became morbidly obese in the last few years. Crunch time came in August last year when I went camping with my family. I didn't want to go swimming with my girls as I didn't want the embarrassment of being seen in a swimsuit. I worried about sitting in the camping chairs because I thought I would break them. Also, I managed to rip 3 pairs of trousers in one week when I bent over. Finally, I decided enough was enough!!
So, on September 5th last year, I started a diet which involved eating foodpacks only. I managed to lose 10 and a half stone ( 147llbs) since then and have reached a healthy weight for my height and build. I am 5ft 7'' and currently weigh about 11 stone (about 150llbs). As I lost weight so quickly and lost so much weight, I have been left with excess skin which I know will never go, no matter how much exercise I do.
I went to see a PS a couple of months ago and got prices etc but was unable to book the date that I wanted. I looked elsewhere and managed to find a PS just down the road from my house. He discussed a TT and breat lift with me but did say that I would also need implants as my breasts are now really empty on the top after the weight loss. I didnt think I would ever need implants as I have always had large boobs but realise that he was right- my boobs are really empty now and even with a lift they would still be flat on top. He is all for me having it done together to cut down on hospital costs and only have to do one lot of recuperation. However, I am worried about how much extra pain it is going to be having 2 procedures done at the same time!
I will get the courage to take some pics and get them posted soon- tbh the thought of posting such awful pics of myself is really embarrassing!!
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Only 5 days to go!! This week I have paid the fees...
I asked my PS to show me where the scar would be in relation to my knickers. I wanted to double check that the scar would be hidden. He made me laugh when he asked if they were my usual style of knickers like they were granny pants-which they weren't I hasten to add! In my embarrassment, I joked that they were perfect for tucking my tummy into. Then he said that I will probably change my style after surgery. Humph, he made feel quite a frump but I dont think he really meant it like that as he is a lovely man with a nice manner!
I am excited now and cant wait for it all to be over. It has been great reading other people's experiences in this site. What is really scaring me at the moment is just how painful is this going to be when I wake up after surgery?? Also, I am wooried about how I will react when I wake up. I have only had 2 minor ops in my life but both times I have been verbally aggressive when I woke up. The first time I shouted at another patient telling her to shut up because she was making lots of noise and I had a headache. The second time I thought I was in my own home and was aware of a man waking me up (the anaesthetist) so I kept telling him to get out! As this is major surgery, god knows what I will end up doing or who I will end up offending! Oh well, at least I wont have to see them again I suppose!!
I have bought my first bikini and taken before photos on my phone- will try to put them on here tomorrow!!
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Yuk! Before photos added!
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Take care x
Congrats on the weight loss! That's very impressive! Have you gotten all your supplies? Your day is coming up so soon! Are you excited?
No I havent got my supplies. All I have is some Dulcoease to help with the dreaded BM and I have been given some antibacterial wash which I have been told to start using from today. I already have a recliner sofa but I bought 4 extra pillows today to help try sleeping in a bed. I am going to get some extra strong pain relief. What else should I get? I have been told not to take arnica. Any tips on what else I may need?
I am getting really excited now cos I have been waiting for so long. I am off to Center Parcs tomorrow so I am packing for that but also packing my hospital bag too as I wont come back til Sunday night then I am off to hospital for 6.30am on the Monday.
http://realself.com/forum/10-before-mommy-makeover
Thats nice your surgery is early! I have heard you are supposed to take arnica- I would do whatever your PS tells you to do. I am excited for you! How long is your surgery going to be?
http://realself.com/forum/checklist-for-before-your-surgery
Thought this may help!
Congratulations so much on all that weight you lost! What are food packs?
From what I've read, most ladies are so focused on the tummy tuck discomfort that the breasts are nothing but a distraction. :) Not sure if that makes you feel any better or not.
The implant thing is totally up to you. It depends on how much upper pole fullness you feel you need.
I'm really happy for you that you're getting this done. Please keep us posted!