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Aged 55, 32H - 32 D. Full Review Pre Surgery to One Year Post Surgery. Surgeon : Ben Chew Scotland

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I loved my boobs as a young woman, they were...

Scottish Person
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I loved my boobs as a young woman, they were large but always quite perky and full and it was only after pregnancy and then menopause that they seemed to droop drastically and double in size to an H cup! I also have quite a narrow back - I'm a 32 band. I remember the first time I was measured properly by a real expert only a few years ago- I couldn't believe it - 32 H and I had been wrongly wearing M&S 36DD bras for years. No wonder they rode up my back! I am now 50 and sick of the matronly look, the bra strap marks and the fact I can never wear nice clothes. My clothes seem to hang from my bust making me look fatter than I am. I have surgery scheduled for next Friday 19th May, and for some reason woke up this morning absolutely terrified and almost regretting my decision. I think if I hadn't already paid the full cost I would cancel. Is this just normal nerves? I don't know what I am scared of. I think a few things are worrying me; That I will look out of proportion after a life time of having large breasts, and that the scarring will be something that reminds me of my 'mistake' every time I look in the mirror. Once this is done, I can never go back. Did anyone else have these fears?

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Ben Chew, MPhil, FRCS(Plast), FRCSEd(Hon)

Ben Chew, MPhil, FRCS(Plast), FRCSEd(Hon)

Specialist Registered Plastic Surgeon

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Replies (5)

May 12, 2017
Yes! The fear is normal. I am 46 and finally did it last week. I actually did drop out in December and lost a big deposit. When I rescheduled, they made me pay on full. Had I not, I know I would have cancelled again. The fear is literally nauseating, just so stressful. If you are sure you want it and are ready, I would suggest just powering through. The preop paper work is horrifying with all the risks. That is what made me cancel the first time. This time, I just shut my brain down and signed and signed and didn't think. Same on surgery day, just go in and power through. The surgery day was so fast and efficient I wondered what I feared. If you picked a good surgeon, they do 100's of these. Just a days work. I went to sleep a G and woke up about a B. I was scheduled for 9:30 and home by noon. Took oxy for about a day and switched to Tylenol. Pain was never bad, just achy. I am 9 days out and each day is much better. I obsessed over this for a year. Had 2 earlier dates that I cancelled even prior to the December one. Like so many others I just wish I had done it years ago. Tip..I found breasthealthonline.com it is great and has so much info. I followed the preop diet to a t. Added lemon water and went super high protein. I have had no bleeding, very little swelling and bruising and didn't have the itching. I would highly recommend that sight. Be brave, you will be so happy. Good luck.
May 13, 2017
So happy you finally did it! I also followed breasthealthonline, they had some good advice! . Wish you speedy healing.
May 12, 2017
I feel the same as you as I am having this surgery on Saturday May 20th! Very nervous but excited. I measure an E cup but also have a narrow frame so look ridiculous in for instance swimwear and suffer from neck and upper back pain. I dream of buying a C cup bra and wearing strappy tops and that is what keeps me going. We must think positive and know how happy we will be. I dread the anaesthetic, feeling ill after, the scars - which will fade, getting an infection. all these things are normal fears, but it will be worth it. I stand in the changing rooms and could cry when I'm trying a swimsuit on. I wear a size 10 but can't get the boobs in! If I go for a cup size swimsuit it's too big round my back, so I'm going through with this and you will too. We will be fine. I wish you all the luck as I know how you feel.
May 13, 2017
Hi, your fear is completely understandable, it is a big decision but i am now 8 months post op & reaping the reward particularly buying summer clothes, swimwear and underwear! I went from an e cup to a c and i feel so much more comfortable & confident in my clothes. I can now wear things i would never have dreamt of wearing before. After a few months... give yourself time to heal and your breasts will become much softer and natural looking. Good luck
May 13, 2017
Summerlug....thank you so much for replying. We sound very similar! I have been dreaming of wearing small strappy feminine tops in the summer...I've been blessed with quite good shoulders (apart from the bra marks) and good arms, but never been able to wear the tops I want due to the shelf in front! Hubbie and I are nearly retired with loads of lovely holidays on the horizon and I want to be able to wear nice things. I veer between being terrified - usually in the mornings when I wake and remember what I am doing - and excitement. I have a wonderful surgeon who did another lady on here, she described him as an artist and a perfectionist. I know I am in good hands. But I am utterly, utterly terrified. Never had a big op before. Scared of the scars. Looked at too many awful photos of things going wrong. But you are right...I AM going through with this, and so are you. We will go through it together...I'm the day before so I will try to update from my hospital bed :) Good luck! X
May 13, 2017
Madeleine...thank you so much for your encouragement! If I get half the result you did I will be happy
May 14, 2017
Oh my goodness we are so similar Maisie-Brit! I am more
or less retired, the last holiday we went on I was so unhappy in my swim wear. I too have good shoulders and arms, I try and do some exercise, I like Zumba, but squashing these boobs into a sports bra is not easy especially as a lot of my friends seem to have perfect little boobs! Today I went and bought a post op sports bra in a C cup all ready to wear after my op from M&S! Not long now and we will be wearing our strappy tops and cute little swimsuits! Look forward to hearing from you after your op :) x
May 17, 2017
I am 54 and 2weeks PO ..really didn't have much pain afterwords and the pain in my back and neck gone the first day ! No regrets except ,wish I would have done sooner ! Good luck! Dont take the heavy duty drugs with codein too long ,they are constipating.
May 13, 2017
MayMobeley...thank you so much for taking the time to reply and for your encouragement. I'm glad I'm not the only one who has hovered over the 'cancel button'. I actually almost phoned to cancel the morning I came on here the first time, but thought about the £££ loss (husband would have gone mad! ) thank you SO much for the breast health online tip! I eat high protein anyway but cant wait to go look and see what they recommend. Thank you
May 13, 2017
I just want to say thank you for all the lovely encouraging comments here and by PM....you really are the most wonderful bunch of caring ladies on this site. It's made such a HUGE difference to know I'm not alone in my fears, and to see and hear about your fantastic results has made me less scared and more exited for my future. Thank you x
May 14, 2017
Hi, I am 3 weeks post op and it's the best thing I have ever done, wish I had done it years ago. Your nerves are normal but I'm sure you did your research and have every faith in your surgeon. I now have the right size boobs for my shape and a bloody love em!! My only advice is to ensure you have allowed the time to rest and recover, it's a big op and taking care of yourself afterwards above anything else is of paramount importance. Please try not to worry and embrace what lies ahead, just think of all the lovely clothes you can wear especially with summer around the corner. Take care Lovely and enjoy doing something just for you. xx
May 14, 2017
Thank you SO much! With all the encouragement I am getting here I am actually starting to lose my nerves a little. You are such a lovely bunch. Countdown starts now....protein meals, lemon tea and no booze! Xx
UPDATED FROM Scottish Person

More before photos.

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Note the grooves in the shoulders.

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May 17, 2017
I'm really looking forward to following your journey, our stories are so similar, I have been looking into this surgery for a couple of years and promised myself that I would have new boobs for my 50th (which is 19th May 2018!) Good luck for this Friday and thank you for sharing xx
May 17, 2017
Lee...thank you for commenting! I'm going to update as often as I can with photos and how things are going. I can't actually believe I'm doing this. So, SO nervous, but I know I will go through with it. x
May 17, 2017
Hi
I am also a 32G my shoulders also look like yours. I promised myself I would do this before I was 50. Didn't quite. I was 50 January.
My surgery is also the 19th of may. I am trying so hard to remain calm and positive but I am going through all the usual panic worries.
I wish you luck. Keep us posted.
May 17, 2017
Good luck jcb! Please keep us posted too x
May 17, 2017
I will be thinking of both you ladies on Friday!! I actually feel a little envious that it's not me....but I am even more determined now to book consultations with the 3 surgeons I have narrowed it done to!
May 25, 2017
I also had these, along with lower and upper back pain, but never made the connection - duh! Can't wait til I can buy pretty bras!
May 28, 2017
I am considering getting a breast reduction; however I am a little apprehensive....how was your experience?
May 29, 2017
Hello! I was very, very nervous before my reduction and it took me a very long time to actually go ahead and book and pay, because I knew there would be no going back. I have no idea why I was so nervous and apprehensive, it was something I had wanted to do for years so it seemed strange that I was so scared. I had been watching this site for a long time and reading the reviews, seeing the good and the bad results, and sadly some of the not so great results do stick in your mind. But then I found Mr Chew my surgeon and I saw quite a few examples of his work. He really is amazing. There are two other surgeons in Scotland I would definitely have also consulted. I a, not completely through it yet, dressings off tomorrow - but so far, to answer your question I have had the best experience I could wish for...and better. I sailed through surgery, and the results are of course immediate, so am delighted with my new shape and size. It's taken years off me. Good luck if decide to go ahead!
July 20, 2017
Ha ha, I have the same bra as you, in a couple colours, size 36J. For a while now I've been thinking of breast reduction when I'm sure I won't have any more kids, looking forward to seeing your results
UPDATED FROM Scottish Person

Off I go.

Scottish Person
....I'm off to Glasgow today in preparation for surgery early tomorrow. I've got the worst butterflies and nervous stomach I've ever had. I'm finding myself scrutinising all the other reviews on here, (sometimes a mistake) and occasionally I look down at my chest and think, ach, they're not THAT bad. But they are, they're huge and droopy and I am doing this.
Internet was not good in the hospital when i was down for my pre op, so hoping they give you a password or something when you are a patient so I can update!

Terrified terrified but exited too.

So grateful for all the support on here, you're a lovely bunch.

Off I go. Eeek!
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May 18, 2017
Good luck. Keep us posted.xx
May 18, 2017
I have to get marked up at 5.00 tonight and find out what time my slot is. Then it really will be real.
We can do this Maisie.xx
May 18, 2017
We can!
Keep in touch when you can.
Xx
May 18, 2017
And the same to you.
Xx
May 18, 2017
Good luck Maisie, I hope all goes well for you. I am on the train heading to Glasgow to see Ben Chew for consultation.

I will be following your updates x
May 18, 2017
Hi nabs. I'm here now, all settled in my room and trying to take my mind off things. Hope your consultation was good....one thing I haven't mentioned is just how lovely Ben Chew is. He is just the nicest man on earth! All the staff here think he is the No.1 surgeon too. I'm in good hands. Will post as soon as able!
May 19, 2017
I feel SO fortunate to be in the same area as Ben so he could do my surgery. Honestly, I can't praise him highly enough. Even without looking at my new boobs properly yet, I can tell they are a success. Ben is the nicest man in earth. So professional yet funny, friendly and I just felt so confident in his hands. In fact, can I marry him?
May 20, 2017
Hi Maisie, I am so glad your surgery went well, I hope the journey continues to be a smooth one.
My consultation with Ben went a lot longer than I anticipated. We went through so much that I wish I took notes. Ben's only concern for me is scarring because I am a black woman. He said black people have higher risk of developing keloid scars and the treatment can be very distressing. Other than that, he said I am a good candidate and will be benefit from the surgery. I am going to spend a week to think about it and get back to him. He said the earliest he can have me is October as he has a long waiting list.
May 20, 2017
Hi nabs. I do hope you go through with it. I feel so happy. I haven't seen my scars yet, but to be honest...perhaps this is naive....I'm just so glad to get rid of these huge lumps that have bothered me for years that if the scarring is bad I will take it as something that simply had to be to get me where I want to be. The only people seeing the scars will be me, and my husband, and I have enough faith in him that he will see past them. But we are all different, and I understand your skin type might preclude you to worse scarring. Rest assured if you do go ahead, Ben Chew is THE best person to trust.
May 18, 2017
Best of luck x I will get a phone call tomorrow to let me know what time I'm in on Saturday. Hope it's early so I can get it over with! Don't want to hang around all day! So scared now but we will all go through with this and we will all be fine. Was nearly sick just having a blood test! I'm so squeamish! Crazy really! Will be thinking of you please let us know how you are xx
May 19, 2017
Good luck for tomorrow x
May 20, 2017
Hope all went well!!
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May 18, 2017
Good luck! I'll be doing the same next week. I'm both terrified and eager!
May 22, 2017
Please let us know how you get on. Good luck, and try not to be too nervous. Think positively! No negatives! Easier said than done...but I'm sure you will be fine and it will be the best thing you ever did. X
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May 23, 2017
Thanks for the good vibes! Tomorrow is the big day, although I am coming off a cold. I hope they still do it.