Very Disappointed

This is the hardest review I've had to write because the worst feeling is giving a low review for a place you like, I'm giving two stars because I would give the dr/staff themselves and the cleanliness of the office a 5 star, but the operation experience, recovery, and scaring a 1 star, I have to be honest so here's why.... First off Dr. Kadz is great made e feel at ease, super sweet, good bedside manner,but was much shorter time with him than I expected, the staff is so friendly and sweet especially Monique. The anesthesiologist had great bedside manner and was absolutely wonderful, especially when I started to getting scared from anxiety about doing it... so why a low review then, well I booked this appointment and explained I had travel to Mexico for a very special family trip, planned for 2 1/2 months after the date of surgery and asked if I'd be healed in time, they assured me it'd take about 2 weeks to heal, I thought great, I can exercise for about 2 months after I recover and be ready for tulum. Unfortunately I had severe complications despite staying completely on bed rest for the two weeks solid only getting up to go the the restroom n shower. I developed would separation aka dehiscence at around 2-3 weeks post op. They foot so bad, when I called he was very calm about it just told me to shower , hot compresses, which I did relentlessly - I'd never heard of this or that it was a possibility. I know many people that had tummy tucks and they went amazing, my sister was up and around after three days, my cousin a week. But not me... my wounds separated in some spots over 2" wide. I talked with other doctors and they did say it doesn't happen a lot but it does happen and is getting more common, but the reasons are usually underlying illnesses/diseases (which I have none) poor diet (N/A- I eat all organic & healthy) or not enough or improper sutures or pulling the skin too tight . They said most cases of dehiscence are found in places with non board certified doctors, or very cheap rates/places (like miami) or out of the country, none of which were the case so I was baffled! But I leave for Mexico in 16 days and I'm still not even healed. It's been over 2 months, and I still have open wounds!!! Plus where it has closed/healed, it's SO UGLY! It's bunched up skin (because it opened in big holes) the line is not even (possible from the separation) it's just awful. On top of that I had lipo on my hips and thighs, because I've barely been able to move much in 2 months, it's created a dip above my butt, and my thighs there is NO difference, the before and after of others looked great and for an additional $2k I thought that's what I'd get !! but I see no difference except where the tube was shoved in, there is weird dips, but no where else, thighs still rub together, nothing like the before and after a I had seen (maybe it'll keep loosing ??) but as of right now, I don't see any difference, and what's worse is I planned two weeks off work, I lost my job because it was so painful to move , and get around and I couldn't even lift anything this whole time and I was unable to return, so I lost out on now going on OVER two months of income, and as a single mom this is something I COULD NOT DO... I'm sorry to say it was a very awful experience and has ruined my summer and family trip coming up. I was trying to wait to leave a review so I could add as horrible as the complications were it all worked out, but it hasn't. And if this happened to someone else I'd want to know, before making a decision.