Terrible Results

I went to him because he was listed as Plastic/Cosmetic Surgeon and sold a less invasive Tummy Tuck/Lipo, he sold me. I had 2 children and lost a significant amount of weight that I had kept off for 6 yrs. I exercise at least 5 days a week and I'm fit but I could not exercise the loose skin and Diastasis away. I had been told during previous consultations by plastic surgeons that I had Diastasis, he told me it was only in my lower abdomen. I trusted him. I knew almost immediately something wasn't right. I never felt any tightness in my abdomen. In fact I was up walking perfectly fine within days. I noticed a LOT of excess skin which I didn't have before above my belly button. As the swelling went down I realized my belly button is high and off center. More excess skin than before due to the Lipo. I have since gone and had consultations with Plastic Surgeons and will need a full Major Abdominoplasty, my belly button removed and reconstructed at a later date. According to them, the Diastasis was not corrected and the lipo is uneven so I will need to get that fixed as well. When I went for the surgery I was 136.2 lbs. My 6 month post op I am 133 lbs. My physical and mental health are ruined!! This is not a matter of personal opinion or looking for perfection which he told me was my issue. He offered to redo it but there is no way. I have found a Board Certified Plastic surgeon who will do it, he doesn't even have words to explain this. All after photos are 6 months post op

I’m 2 weeks post op today. I’ve been crying for days now. I’ve never been so depressed in my life. Yes I know it’s too soon to look at the final results but my skin is getting more lax and crepey by the day. I’m 5’3 130 lbs I still had an extra 5 from the winter. I exercise 5-6 days a week and eat clean. I lost 75lbs 6 yrs ago and I’ve kept it off. I’ll be 58 next week I had 3 kids. I’m literally sick to my stomach thinking I’ll either have to live with this or do this all over again. Is this part of the healing process?