it's my turn--tt scheduled for 11/21 in the bronx, NY
I am here to share my TT journey scheduled for...
I am here to share my TT journey scheduled for NOvember 21,2011 in the bronx.
I am a 46 year old with two wonderful children ages 29 and 25. I am also a grandma to a wonderful and gorgeous 4 yrs old girl. I have been married for 14 yrs to my adorable amazing husband.
In 2003, a picture of me was taken at work on administrative day. When I saw that picture it was a wake up call. I got on a scale and scored 198lbs. That really made me depressed. When I met my husband i was 160 lbs. How did I let my self go. Two wks later I joined Weight Watchers and amazingly dropped 50 lbs in 10 mths. It wasn't easy. I hit the gym 6 times a week and did hard core aerobics and cardio.
I have been struggling to keep most of it off but it has been a struggle. I am still mindful of my eating habits. Eventhough I still hit the gym to try and keep it off that hanging pouch just keeps haunting me. I hired personal trainers, did the sit ups at home, did cardio early in the morning because apparently it would help with the mid section but ladies nothing helped. That hanging stomach has to go. NOW!!!!!!!
I am embarrased to get undress in front of my hubby. I refuse for him to see me completely naked. He constantly tells me to stop that I look great but as we all know ladies it is not easy having somthing that just doesnt make you happy or cute I want to feel sexy again.
I have been dying to undergo a TT forever but something has always came up that didnt allow me to go through with it. But this is it, its finally happening god willing. My husband's cousin had her TT done like 3 yrs ago in the bronx at North Central hospital and when I saw her scar and how well she did I immediately wanted to do it at that location. Then I came across Realself and met Tasha who by coincedence also had her TT done at the sister location Jacobi. When I came across this site and saw tasha posting I immediatley said it was a sign. So I re-book my consultation in April and scheduled my surgery for NOvember 21, 2011. Yikes next Monday. Gulp.
It was comforting to know two girls having had their TT at this location.
But ladies the time is almost here and the journey begins..
Two week ago I went for my medical clearance at which point I didnt get cleared because I had a hurting tooth. My PCP said once I take care of the tooth to get her proof that the tooth issue was taken care of. Immediately, I made an appt to see the dentist and had the tooth extracted. I just finished my last pill of antiobitic and it is healing lovely. I got the letter from the dentist and immediately faxed it to my PCP.
This Thursday, November 17 I will be having preop testing and what ever else they will be giving me to prep myself for the surgery which is scheduled for next Monday, November 21,2011.
My daugther has taken vacation time to be with me and my husband as well. I know you ladies must be saying "wow she is doing it during the Thanksgiving week but its ok I had to accur time at work and when you want something really bad you will sacrifice. Thanksgiving dinner will still be at my apt but with only my immediately family- son, daugther granddaugther, brother and wife. I will see everyone else during the christmas holidays.
Right now I am freaking out because I didnt list to my daughter when she said "ma you will need a recliner. But because in 2005 i had a hysterectomy and I survived with my bed because it isnt that low its a perfect height. But i just realized I didnt have the sofas I have now. These are very low and very soft. Ughh So tomorrow after work I will be going to purchase a recliner. Hubby will be happy because he has always wanted one. ha ha ha.
My Realself sisters sorry if i wrote too much and sound like i am all over the place but I have been trying to start this journey here but i have been very busy with my grandaughter she had a adenoidectomy so i have been running back and forth to her and staying at my daugthers place. And i know this week It will be difficult for me to do this because its my last week at work and i need to leave everything done.
Oh i know the surgeon said i can return to work in 10 days because i work behind a desk but ladies I took off from November 21 and will return to work on Dec 12. I will be home for 20 days to recuperate. I want to feel somewhat comfortable when I return.
I am going to post some before pictures. please please don't get grossed out.I will try to post my before fat pictures and the nasty ones of my nasty tummy. lol.
ok ladies there is alot I would love to share but as we post I will share.
I ask that you all keep me in your prayers. I have faith in god that I will have a safe and speedy recovery. So please keep me in your prayers.
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occassionally i get aniexty but then i just ask god please help me calm down and put good thoughts in my head. this isnt easy


heck yayyyy you can. Welcome to the TT trio. whoo hooo.. I am just as scared as you are. Every time I think about it i get anxieties and when it happens i just say god help me calm down please.
We have eachother now. I will keep you in my prayers as well.

10.5 hr surgery and you are scared of a TT girl pls you got this.
You are a tough cookie. I haven't taken any healing vitamins what
Are you taking? I've stopped everything. I even stopped social drinking
Since august. Nothing not even glass of wine.lol
Hello my Realself sisters I have not posted my...
I have not posted my daily post this way because getting on my lap was uncomfortable to I was just posting and ready emails via iphone. But today I made it my business to do so...
Well ladies, today I celebrate 1 week since I did my TT. Wow who would think one week ago today,this day would finally come. I went it closed my eyes and left it to god. Thank you jesus for blessing me and my surgeon and the staff. Now its time to nip the recovery in the butt. lol..
During your first week you go through so many emotions, pains, discomfort, etc. This is why I highly suggest you have a caretaker, family member, friend, husband, kids,etc. If it wasnt for mine I would of gotten myself into trouble because I am OCD with just about everything. Thanks to my kids and husband they havent let me do anything.
I never got a recliner, because I just dont have the space and what would I do with it after and renting it was so expensive. I went in with my eyes closed as well and said if it gets really bad i will purchase it. my bed is really high getting on and off my bed isnt bad and I have been sleeping on an inclined. I alternate from sleeping flat to an inclined. During the day I am in the living on my sofas. I also walk around the apt and go to the lobby for fresh air until I am unable to stand.
I stopped my meds by day 3 and only take them at night if my back pain is really unbareable. Day 5 I finally had a BM and every morning since I have been going with no problem. Day 5 I also caught bad gas pains. That was one pain I thought I was going to end up in the ER for. I was scared and not sure it was gas. But between reading online and my daugther insisting it was gas I finally took gas x that night and have taken it 2 times a day since. I think after today I dont think I will have to. I have been eating lots of pineapples, grapes and oatmeal juice that my husband makes. I have kept away from sodium and been drinking lots of liquids.
The only issue i am having other then have these crazy backaches are my drains. One of them seem to be irritated and with every movement it hurts. I am very afraid to go for my post op tomorrow because of the fear of pain when and if they remove it and if they dont remove it they would have clean it. The stitches are dry. ugghhh. my daugther is going to put bacitricim
Everyday coughing is still hell. But thanks to someone's advise on this forum I take a cough drop and it soothes the cough out. Jesus it hurts to cough. I haven't really done much. I have been home since day of surgery only have stepped out to go to my 1st post op appt and i will step out tomorrow for my 2nd postop.
Overall, ladies it hasnt been a clean slate but it hasnt been what I thought it would be. I expected worse. I am down 7 lbs today since my surgery.
I will hopefully take pictures tomorrow and post pic of 1 wk postop.
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By day 4 I had stopped my meds I took it if I really needed it. But because I took them on the clock every 4 hrs I knew I would not have a BM so I took myself off the meds by end of day 3. Day 4 in the evening I began to get the urge of wanting to have a BM which was day of thanksgiving when I ate 2 pieces of turkey with sweet potatoes. That nite I popped a ducolax. Next day I began to get severe BM urges it wasn't easy bc I didn't want to push thought I would pop every stitch in my body. Lol so I walked around the apt to make the urges more intensed once then I just began to do the giving birth technique and did some breathing and before I knew it was over. I have been taking one ducolax everyday since and 2 x a day of gas x. Please make sure u have these two on your list to pick up for your TT prep. Which brand of vitamins do u use? Any brand is good right?
You will do just find. Im happy he supplies you with the massager. I have one who is Colombian from qns. Make sure you have your girdle for after your recuperation. I went him in a binder some ps send u home in a full body garment I don't know if I would of survived having that on with these drains and incision.



I just posted a nice post on my day yesterday. pls read. why are you saying your ps seem aggressive? Would you believe I also will be alone tonight for the first time. My husband works the night shift tonight from 3 to 12am. I told my daugther to go back home because its more comfortable for her to be at her apt with her own stuff. Plus here my granddaughter doesnt want to go to school when she is here because she wants to stay home with grandma and grandpa. lol. As for my son him and his girlfriend are staying with my daugther to help her out this week with dropping her off to school because her daddy has the over nighte shift this week.
So tammy I also will be alone tonight for the first time. I am scared. But hubby said he will leave everything in site for me. I guess I will wash my shows and maybe be online. Thank god i dont have those drains. yes tammy she removed both. yayyy me. pls read my update.
how are you feeling? I am concerned about returning on the 12th I could imagine how you feel about the 5th. but i guess if you dont have sutures its less frighting.
Hello My Dear RS sisters Today I am pleased to...
Today I am pleased to announce the separation between those horrible annoying balls that once hanged along with me wherever I went.
LOL also she informed me that she removed 5 lbs from that hanging belly. OmG how gross. wow..
Ladies, yesterday was my 2nd post op appointment and due to a delay I waited approximatley 2 hrs before I was seen leading me to get home mentally and physically drained. I got home ate and fell asleep.
The great news is that she removed both my drains. While I am holding my daugthers hand and thinking I was just about to get tortured because I thought pulling them out would hurt just especially having one irritated that I would be in tons of pain. Well as she is doing whatever she was doing there she was talking to me asking me questions about my kids,grandaugther, etc it was to keep my mind occupied. lol. while I answered her she had pull the left which I didnt feel anything. Then she did the right and I also didnt feel it. The only thing that stinged was her cleaning the area that was irritated because she had to clean it and pressed down and put bacitricum. Overall the pulling of the drains was an easy slate. she just said keep an eye on the right side for the redness and infection. As of now it looks great. thank you jesus
I am suppose to see her in 2 wks but she wants me to go back in 1 wk just to check out the drain area and the incision. She didnt remove the sutures because she said they will fall off on their own. As of today I am able to shower from head to toe. OMG can not wait. just waiting for hubby to wake up to help me out. I am going to shower do my hair and get sexii...lol
So, my ps saw me a little too straight and she advised me not to stand up too straight because I am only 1 wk postop and even though I can be feeling good at times i can bust a suture and that would not be cool. And of course my daugther told her she had been telling me but i dont listen. but dam being hunch hurts my back.
She advised me no working out, no lifting and no strenous activities for approximately 6 wks. I must wear my binder for 6 wks before I can go put on my surgical girdle. she said I had mild swelling which was good and it looked great and once i am done with swell hell I will be nicely flatter. I will need to go purchase another binder because this one needs to be washed and I do not want to spend not even one hr without it on. I am making it my business to keep the swelling down.
The only thing I am still experiencing is backache I fall asleep perfectly fine but I wake up at 4ish or 5ish with my back killing me. This morning I got up at 4am and came to the living to lay on my sofa. Ughh hate this back pain. but over all I am doing great from swell hell, incision and bellybotton. Did anyone or does any one that had the surgery on the 11/21 experiencing this backache? PS said its normal that it should subsizes.
Well ladies, now that those crazy drains are gone its time to recuperate from the wound and keep swelling down. I will still be home relaxing and doing nothing because I return to work on the 12th. I am hoping and praying the suture come off soon because I must return to work on the 12th. I think I would be perfectly comfortable and well by then.
Once I shower I will take pictures and post them.
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I understand about your back hurting. I am two weeks post op tomorrow and I promise it will get better. I went back to work yesterday with sutures and it hasn't been too bad. I get tired really easy and swelling is worse by the time I get home but everyday gets easier. Once you start standing upright your back will do better.
You look great. I haven't posted my after pics yet. Plan to tonight but the swelling bothers me.
Have a great day! Glad you are doing well!


I cant wait until that day when i can sleep on my belly.



I just had my TT last wk Monday the 21th at jacobi. Checkbout my before and after pics. I have day 2 PO pics and 8 day PO pics posted feel frees to check them out.
I use my iPhone to check my blog and it isn't as comfortable but once I get on laptop later on I will message u.
But really quick I had my consult in march 2011and on that day I booked my surgery day he was ready to put on that following week. But bc of work I told him no I had to wait until November so I chosed that week. So if the time frame u want is avAilable they work with you.
Another blogger I met here liked my incision and they work that she called and made her appt they gave her consult appt for Dec 8 which she really can't do so she moved it to January. I was surprised they had appts for next wk bc they book up fast. But they also open up additional appt days when they get really booked. I suggest u get that appt made just so u don't wait long for a consult. Check out my home page for the telephone.
If u have questions inbox me. I have to run out be back feel free to ask any questions
how are you? i am excited to know i have someone going through it same day as me. woohoo we will have alot to compare.
as for your headache do not take anymore of it. hopefully you are feeling better. since friday i have had a migraine and havent taken my imitrex or anything because of the fear. i have been drinking my coffee, putting vicks vapor rub on my forehead and drinking lots of water. the things we do for beauty. lol.
i will keep you in my prayers. hope to see you before pic soon.
god bless
you will also be in my prayers. working on before pics. Take care..5 days and counting!!
how are you? are you reading for Monday? as the count down begins its becomes more nerve wrecking. what tinme is your surgery i have to be at hosp at 9am yikes.