59 with Neck Waggle and Under Eye Circles

My background is that I had gastric bypass 14 years ago, and lost 110 lbs, a tummy tuck 12 years ago, regained 50 lbs and lost the 50 by changing my diet using Ideal Protein (it was a fantastic diet that truly changed the way I eat). Whether a result of the lost weight or hereditary, I have always wanted to have my under eye bags removed. My mom had the same issues and had a full face lift, neck lift and the fat pads removed from under her eyes...so a strong case for these issues running in the family. After 26 years with a company, I was laid off. I was ok with it and honestly excited about new possibilities. I got a good package and with my husband's support, made the decision to get the mini face lift and lower bleph done while I had time off from work. I'm actively looking for a job and was hopeful that the surgery wouldn't slow down my search dramatically and would improve my odds of competing with younger workers.
I initially met with Dr Arch Miller (who did my tummy tuck and did a fantastic job!) to find out about fat graphs in tear troughs. I had tried injectables and it worked great but was $1,500 and only lasted a year. And as the injectable went away, I had loose skin and more wrinkles. Really?! I quickly discovered it was cheaper to do a lower bleph. And while I was there asked him about my waggle. So after much discussion with my husband and looking at all the options, I signed up for the mini face lift and the lower bleph.
I was excited about the 2 week recovery time. I am writing this several days out so will break it down by day.

I don't remember a lot about the day. Surgery lasted 6 hours and then a couple of hours in recovery. I was there 9 1/2 hours all together. Swelling didn't really set in until the day after.

Had the drains removed and was in considerable pain. I wasn't aware of how much my ears would hurt. Pretty swollen and didn't really recognize myself. I slept a lot.