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Well I'm Finally Doing It...- Toledo, OH

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Okay so here's my story. :) I am 39 years old...

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AllComingOut
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Okay so here's my story. :) I am 39 years old and I decided to get implants 14 years ago because I was very insecure with my A-cup breasts and was so envious of other women with voluptuous curves. When I was 25, I decided to go forward with the surgery, much to the delight of my boyfriend at the time...he practically shouted "YEAHHHHH! GO FOR IT!" when I brought the subject up to him.

I am 5'7, weighed about 135 lbs at the time of the surgery, and had 540cc silicone implants placed under the muscle. After I got them, I loved them, but I was also pretty insecure about them. I always wondered if people could feel them when I would give hugs or if they secretly whispered, "Oh, you know THOSE aren't real!" just by seeing me walk by. I never flaunted my bigger boobs, but I was thrilled to be able to wear bras without 6 inches of padding and sport fitted tops without having to slouch to hide my non-existent figure. I didn't tell anyone about the surgery except a very select few and it's been my dirty little secret ever since.

Fast-forward 14 years, a husband (who thankfully is not the same boob-job pushing boyfriend), and 2 kids, and I now thoroughly despise my implants. Several years ago I started experiencing some health issues...constant fatigue, memory problems, trouble concentrating, joint pain in my wrists, elbows and knees, adrenal fatigue, melasma, thyroid issues...and they have slowly but progressively gotten worse. Only after reading the stories on this site did I realize my sufferings could be related to these obnoxious implants! So many other women here with symptoms almost identical to mine and who felt improvement the minute they had their implants removed. So I am beyond excited to be getting mine out too and hopeful that I will be feeling a lot better soon! :)

I hate everything about having these inside my body...not just because they are destroying my health, but also because they are so uncomfortable now. My left breast has bottomed out, causing the implant to slide down, and I am having sharp shooting pains on that side. My doctor said he suspects that my left implant has ruptured, so that really scares me! He said he is going to do a full capsulectomy on both breasts and since I'm not having a lift, I'm pretty scared of what the outcome is going to be. I went from an A-cup to a C-cup after surgery and then up to DD during pregnancy, and now back down to a full C or D. That's a lot of skin stretching! My doctor has urged me to have a lift or at least a smaller implant put in, but I've rejected both options and he has informed me with an air of annoyance that I will not be happy with my end result. So many women have had great results without opting for a lift after explant and I'm really hoping I don't end up as hideous as my surgeon expects me to be. I'm afraid of being left with zero remaining breast tissue (courtesy of the double capsulectomy) and merely flaps of hanging skin. But pressing onward and am so excited because soon I will be free of these wretched toxic implants! :) :) :)

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November 6, 2013
Thank you for sharing your story. You PS sounds like he could use a crash course in empathy. I hope he deserves your kindness in giving him the benefit of the doubt. It must be very difficult for you to hear his low expectations. I hope you can gain some confidence in him before you have it done. I am having my surgery in the morning. My PS is very straight to the point, no small talk all business. Which I admit would have felt better if she were a little more feeling . But I have to realize she isn't my support group just my surgeon. So.... AllComingout I so much admire your courage and resolve and wish you a great out come!
November 6, 2013
We are almost on the same removal schedule! Good luck you will do great!
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November 6, 2013
Yes, and you too. It is an exciting day. :-)
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November 6, 2013
Hi lilacs4me! Yes, it was pretty discouraging to hear what my PS had to say, but just keeping my fingers crossed for a more positive outcome than what he expects. Good luck with your surgery - I'll be checking your posts to see how everything is going with you. I'm so happy you are now implant-free!! :) Yea!
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November 6, 2013

I'm glad you have a supportive man now! Just a few more weeks and you'll be free and natural again. I'll be looking for your updates.

October 24, 2014
Your story is A LOT like yours. I just got mine removed without a lift 2 days ago. Just wanted to offer support and say I think your doing the right thing. My implants had infection inside of them.
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The photos didn't upload during the first post so here they are! :)

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November 6, 2013
Congrats on your decision to explant! I will tell you I was an A cup 21 years ago prior to my first set of implants. They ruptured after 15 years and I got my second set in 2007. I was a D cup with implants. I experienced the same things you did with capsular contractures, memory and thyroid issues so I decided to explant July 30 of this year. So glad I did! I did not have a capsulectomy but did have drains for 1 week. The only complication I have had is a seroma (fluid build up) which I have aspirated multiple times...not a big deal since my body is slowly re absorbing this fluid. I am a full B/C cup depending on bra. Not sure where this breast tissue came from but it's here to stay! My surgeon had told me the same thing and really pushed for me to get smaller implants in. He has since said multiple times that he was wrong in thinking I would be unhappy with my results (sagging and flat) but that didn't happen. Do what YOU want! I think you will love the feeling of being implant free! Keep me posted!
November 6, 2013
Thank you for sharing, I'm one day post op and am so glad that I did it! I'm not sure what I will look yet but I'm free of those capsuled things!
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November 6, 2013
Hello Hlp1015! Thank you so much for your encouraging words! That really helps me to know you had such great results, even when your PS was pushing smaller implants - let's hope I have a similar experience! :) Every review I have read so far says they love being implant free, just as you do...I can't wait until I can say the same. Thanks again for sharing your story with me! :)
November 6, 2013
Congratulations on making the decision to explant. Your nipples are in a great position and you don't seem to have much sagging so I bet once the weight of the implant is removed you will be fine. Please read my review.. i had very large implants and was expecting to have a lot of saggy skin after but that wasn't the case at all. Good luck on your journey.
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November 6, 2013
Wow, just read your story and you look amazing!!! For having such large implants, you look fabulous post-explant! Like you, I am worried about having a lot of sagging skin, but it's very encouraging to see someone else have such lovely results. Thanks Bailey222 for sharing! :)
November 6, 2013
I pm'd you:)
November 6, 2013
Good for you! I just got my removed yesterday and I already feel so much lighter. I am free! I was also a AAA before surgery so I don't think there will be much there,but I want to wait to see how I look. My Dr has been so supportive of my decision to remove with nothing else. Keep us posted on your progress. Best to you!
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November 6, 2013
Thank you . Is yours today too ? I will send up positive thoughts for you too this morning.
November 6, 2013
Wondering if you have a ruptured implant is a hard place to be in. I'm happy for you on your decision to explant! I pray for healing and lots of tissue ;)
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November 6, 2013
Thank you!! I wish you the same after your surgery! I can't tell you how thankful I am to have women like you to share this experience with. I'm not happy about what we have go thru, but truly grateful I am not alone in this and have so much support. :)
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Anyone with small children??

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As my surgery date draws near, I obviously have lots of uncertainty about what's going to transpire the days/hours/months that follow my explant. One of my biggest causes of anxiety is how I am going to successfully recuperate with 2 small children. I have 2 boys, 3 years and 18 months. My youngest is very clingy and only wants me when he's crying and needs comfort. How on earth I'm going to hold him with drains and bandages? My husband is taking a week off from work to help, but unfortunately my boys are Mama's boys and they don't want Daddy when they're upset. The thought of pushing my babies away when they try to crawl up on my lap or not pick up my toddler when he raises his arms up to me is torture. Has anyone out there gone thru this surgery with babies/small children? If so, would love to hear your stories or advice.

PS...Just have to say how much I love and appreciate you ladies...since posting my review, I have been so uplifted by all your support and encouragement! A huge thank you to all of you - if I could hug you I would. :)

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November 7, 2013
Having little ones at home is tough. My son is 22 months old and I absolutely can not lift him. I can barely get myself up from a sitting position. He weighs over 30lbs...a big boy. I pretty much have stayed in my room with the door shut. Luckily my husband works from home and I have older kids that I homeschool that are home and have been helping with the baby as well. I was told no lifting for 6wks... Not sure how possible that is. Good luck, it's not easy.
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November 7, 2013
Oh wow, no lifting for 6 weeks?? That's going to be next to impossible for me when my husband goes back to work. Yikes, this is going to be tricky. My 18-month old weighs over 30 lbs too (we were both blessed with big boys - ha ha!), so guess I'm going to have to get creative when I'm by myself and have to put him in his crib for naps. Good idea about staying in your room with the door shut - might have to try and do that the first few days, too. Thanks for your comments! :)
November 7, 2013
Are you having a simple explant? If so you most likely won't have much if any down time. You may be a little more tired than usual but I think you will be really surprised how great you feel after. My husband took a half day off of work the day of the explant and that's it. Of course my kids are older so that's wonderful that's your husband will be there to help because you definitely don't want to lift them up at first.
November 7, 2013
I see you're having a capsulectomy..I should have read through first..oops lol:)
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November 7, 2013
I sure wish I was having a simpler explant...I have a feeling I'm going to be pretty sore for awhile. Ouch!! I guess I'll just have to do the best I can knowing its only temporary and I'll be able to scoop my little ones up after several weeks (or more?).
November 7, 2013
With my recovery I couldn't lift, push or pull anything more than 5lbs for the first 10 days. Everyone is different though.; gentle hugs and kisses are never off limits! !
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November 8, 2013
Aw, that's a great way to make the best of a lousy situation - do lots of snuggling with them sitting beside me on the couch. :) :)
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November 8, 2013
Wishing you good luck. Don't be talked into a lift that you might not need. Give your body 6 months and then re-assess how you feel, your nipples are in a good position. It is important that you have confidence in your PS so maybe consult with another one?
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November 8, 2013
That's what I am thinking too...just wait and see how my breasts look after a full year and if I am really unhappy with my results, I can always do a lift later. I totally hear you on the importance of being happy with your PS, but I've already seen a couple others and wasn't impressed with them either. Dr. Barone has really high reviews and since he suspects a possible ruptured implant, I hate the idea of continuing to shop around for a different surgeon and postpone this explant any further. Thanks for the warning to not lift anything; it's going to be hard to not pick up my sons, but I just want my body to heal as quickly as possible and not cause a need for extended recovery.
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November 8, 2013
Also, don't lift!!! Trade with friends who will babysit your kids. The pockets need to heal!