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Super Nervous - Tampa, FL
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I'm going for a lower face-lift to take care of my...
tally01October 18, 2013
$8,000
I'm going for a lower face-lift to take care of my jowls and banding on my neck. I had a full face lift 21 years ago and this is way overdue. I'm super nervous because I'm alone for this. I've hired a nurse to take me home from surgery and stay with me over the first night. After that I'm on my own. I have a neighbor who has volunteered but I don't feel comfortable with him seeing me lying in bed.... I also have 2 little dogs that I'm worried about. I know I'll get thru this but at my age, 73, it might be a bit tough. I'm in great health so hopefully I'll heal ok. This surgery is what I want so I pray everything will go ok. Please bear with me and be my cyber buddies. Thanks.
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4 days pre
I think this is hopeless.
tally01October 23, 2013
I cannot believe how awful my jaws and neck look. My face has few wrinkles but this picture shows the terrible truth. The doctor did say that he thought the banding on my neck was "unusual" but he felt he could correct it. The nurse was here today to meet me and the dogs and that went ok. Surgery is Monday the 28th. I'll keep you posted.
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October 24, 2013
Dear tally, I'm sending some cyber encouragement your way. I'm 61 and had five procedures three weeks ago yesterday (October 2), including a chin implant and neck "sculpting." The first three or four days were uncomfortable with a lot of swelling and soreness, but nothing that the prescribed pain meds couldn't handle. I really felt like I turned a corner on the fourth day and it's been smooth sailing every since. I think you're very wise to have hired the nurse to take care of you. I stayed two nights in an after-care facility and the help was indispensable. I couldn't have made it on my own, even with my husband there. You might want to check to see if the nurse would be available for a little while longer in case when the time comes you feel you need her. I know firsthand how nervous you are, but I honestly believe that--the anxiety and anticipation--far outweighed the reality of the whole thing. Sure, it's a big deal, but if you have confidence in your surgeon and you're in good health, as you said, and you've got some post-op help lined up, I don't think you have anything to worry about. Sounds like you're handling everything just fine. Once it's over with, you'll be so relieved and so happy. Good luck!
October 25, 2013
Hey Tally! Get yourself some help for a few days, not just one. You will need it. I am 5 days out and doing everything on my on today, but the first AT LEAST 3 days you need HELP!
October 26, 2013
I've been reading some very scary things about neck lifts not turning out well at all. Lots of scarring under the chin and on the neck. having a neck lift had Does anyone know if there is much swelling around the eyes or black eyes? I didn't think there would be as much since that area isn't really involved.
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Day of treatment
Surgery went well.
tally01October 29, 2013
Well the surgery went well today. The anesthetist said my doctor works very slow but he's very good. Made me feel better. It's been around 10 hours and all I have is a horrible headache. I was really dopey when I got home but I'm feeling better now. Tomorrow he takes out the drains. Yippee? So far no swelling or bruising but wait until tomorrow when it really kicks in. My person who is staying the night went to bed. I guess I really didn't need anyone. I'm in good condition. I help care for 42 horses and that's work. It's a horse rescue and we get most of our horses from the race tracks. I love it and can't wait to get back. I'll check in tomorrow with pics. Thanks for your support and concern.
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October 29, 2013
Tally!!!! You go girl! Back online after TEN hours of anesthesia! I am glad it is behind you and I know you are going to LOVE your results!!! :-))))
October 30, 2013
Had the drains taken out this morning. I starting to get some swelling in my neck but that's to be expected. The headache is what's getting me down. I can't take pain killers because they make me jittery so all I can take is Tylenol. Doctor said the anesthetic can give headaches. Wow does it hurt. Has anyone else had bad, bad headaches after surgery?
October 30, 2013
I didn't Tally, but be patient and REST!!! I bet it will calm down! Drink lots of fluids and help flush it out! Keep in touch! Kathy
October 30, 2013
I did something to my camera and now it won't work. Probably just as well because I don't want to scare anyone. I took a shower this morning and tried to get out some of the [RS bleep] around my ears. Didn't get it all but I'll try again tomorrow. I'm taking it real easy today. Bed then computer chair only today. My headache is still there but the Tylenol helps. Boy is my neck tight but that's a good thing. The only thing besides my head that hurts is my right side because that's where the scar tissue was from a first lift 20 years ago. Doctor said he really had to work around the scar tissue so I suppose that's why it's so sore. I bet I need a battery for my camera but I'm sure not going to the store looking like this.
October 30, 2013
Tally you don't have a Mac computer do you? Glad you are doing well. You are right tight is good! Take it easy and enjoy being lazy! I have! :-)))
October 30, 2013
No Mac, just this roaring headache. Thanks iamkathy01 for being here. I appreciate it more than you know.
October 30, 2013
Oh Tally you can also email me ANYTIME! Computer this week is all I've had the patience for! Are you drinking tons of water????
November 2, 2013
Today was day 5 since surgery. I have almost no bruising but my ears are quite swollen and my face just doesn't look right...you know what I mean. My headache is still giving me a problem but not as much. Did anyone else loose their appetite? I'm not hungry at all but I know I have to eat. I also tire very easily. Up and hour and in bed an hour. Maybe I'm still recovering from the anesthetic. Anyway my neck and jaw looks amazing. I've got to get out and get a battery for my camera.
November 2, 2013
Tally01!! I was worrying about you today! I had no appetite for 5 or 6 days either, but not to worry it will come back. Tiring easily is normal too. Just be kind to yourself and ENJOY being lazy! Your face is swollen and will be for quite a while! Hang in there! Kathy
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We will definitely "virtually" hold your hand through this. You sound like a go-getter and I'm glad you can get this done for yourself. I wonder how this recovery will compare to your full facelift...please keep us posted.