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40 Yr Old, Weight Loss 13st.. Having Breast Lift, Arm Lift, and Fleur De Lys Tummy Tuck - Southampton, GB

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Having lost alot of weight, approx 13stone, I have...

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RSMember5482
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Having lost alot of weight, approx 13stone, I have been left with alot of lose saggy skin, after losing all that weight it's a fact that I hate my slimmer reflection possibly a little more than my old larger one! Does that make sense? I have made the decision to start my 40's by saying goodbye to the unsightly reminder of my previous obese self, by having an arm lift, breast lift and fleur de lys tummy tuck. I am having these three procdures done in one go, hopefully I wont regret this!? If anyone has any experience of any of these ops, or helpful recovery advice pls let me know, I'm terrified!!

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Nigel Horlock, MBBS

Nigel Horlock, MBBS

Specialist Registered Plastic Surgeon

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October 7, 2015
I am so excited for you and glad I found you! I am scheduled for October 21st for an abdominoplasty with butt lift, brachioplasty and mastopexy! So excited and scared at the same time! I have lost over 75lbs and can't believe all the skin! We can cheer each other up after surgery!
October 7, 2015
Hello, My name is Cheryll. I had the same procedures after losing nearly 90 lbs. I had a belt lipectomy done in May, and the brachioplasty and mastoplexy in Sept. I'm happy I did not have these all at once. These are major surgeries. You will need someone there to help you with day to day living with just one of these. I actually had more pain and swelling with the upper body lift. I also had breast augmentation done because the appearance of my breasts would not have been pleasing without. Of course, everyone is different. Age has a lot to do with it i think. I'm 59, and I was still healing from the abdominoplasty when the second procedure was done. This was 4 wks. ago. I'm still quite sore and tender, with swelling mainly under my arm pit area. Like I said, major surgery. I could not even pull my pants up or down. This is why you need to have assistance for at least a week. I also hope you guys have a recliner to sleep in, for me , it was a life saver. I hope I'm not scaring you. This is not my intention, just my experience. I am quite pleased with my appearance, and, yes, I would do it again. I would have had help for a longer period though. I hope you all have a caring surgeon and team like mine. Pray you like the "new you"!
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October 7, 2015
Thanks for finding me! I'm getting really anxious now, Pre op appointment on saturday..it's all getting very close! Cant believe its happening next friday! My emotions are all over the place, happy/ excited/ terrified..its pretty daunting. My surgeon has estimated that I may be in surgery 8 hours and he's guestimating 5 metres of stitches!!! I cant really get my head round it. I'm also going to have a thigh/butt lift, but possibly in the New year? So glad we're now in touch, sounds like we'll be going through similar, not looking forward to the recovery process. I'll post some pics before I go in for surgery, and post lots of after shots. Too exciting!
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October 7, 2015
Hi Cheryl, my biggest fear is the 'after care', not worried about the surgery but more what happens when I'm discharged. My husband is very on board and is keeping his diary clear for 2 weeks at least (he works from home). We have 2 children under 4yrs so thats probably my biggest worry, grandparents are offering to take them initially for a few days, and then I've also pulled in some friend favours for childcare. Do you think a recliner is a must have? Any other suggestions welcome!
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October 11, 2015
I am having all the same feelings!!! I feel like I'm on a big roller coaster ride!! I just went for my pre-op Friday (oct. 9th) . Met with the doctor's PA. She was very nice and she is going to be in the operating room assisting the doctor. Made me feel a bit better. They said my surgery will also be 8 hours. My husband has taken my first week home off. I bought this beautiful wedge pillow system from amazon because I am that person that loves to sleep in bed! I am thinking of thigh lift too but want to see how this goes and just a thigh lift would be out patient here in the states. Good luck we both are going to do great!! When its done we will wonder why we worried so much!
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October 11, 2015
My surgeon mentioned a wedge pillow, might try to get one? At the moment I'm thinking of sleeping in the recliner, but we'll see.
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October 12, 2015
I'll try and send you a picture of mine! I'm thinking it is going to be great for me since I just love my bed and will feel better being next to my husband!
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October 12, 2015
IMG_5960.PNG Hope it opens for you! I'm thinking it will be perfect!
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October 7, 2015

I'm super excited for you.  I'm sure your provider has gone over what to bring but here's a checklist that might be helpful.

 http://www.realself.com/forum/checklist-for-before-your-surgery

I'm sure you'll find lots of support in the community so ask any and all questions.  Please keep us updated.

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October 8, 2015
Thanks Gina thats brilliant
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October 8, 2015

My pleasure!

October 8, 2015
Good Luck! When you get some time could you please post before and after pictures please?
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October 8, 2015
Will do! Will get my husband to take photos before i go in. Probably headless!
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October 15, 2015
Before photos now up.
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4 days pre

5 days to go..

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So yesterday I saw my surgeon again, and had my pre op meeting with the nurse who took blood samples and swabs for MRSA etc, and asked me a million questions! All fun. My surgeon explained the procedures again, and answered a whole host of questions! I went armed with an extensive list which I have been compiling. I've organised childcare - my parents are having my 2 toddlers for a week when I return from hospital so no worries about being jumped on etc. Tomorrow I'm picking up a reclining chair ( electric) which luckily my brother in law was getting rid of. Today I went shopping and purchased a Shockabsorber sports bra, as recommended by my surgeon, I will be wearing it when I leave theatre. My admission is 7:30am Friday, so its an early start! Nothing to eat after midnight, and absolutely nothing to drink after 5am. Getting close, but I'm feeling alot more relaxed after seeing Dr Horlock yesterday. Will post before shots probably Saturday, my husband is going to take pictures before I go in to theatre. Wish me luck!

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October 11, 2015
so excited! I will be thinking of you and can't wait to see your results!
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October 11, 2015
Thanks so much! Getting excited now too! Will post updates as and when
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October 19, 2015
Can't wait to hear how well you did!!
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1 day pre

Pre op photos!

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October 15, 2015
Good luck.
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October 16, 2015
Best of luck! I can't wait to see how wonderful you will look!!
October 18, 2015
Good luck x
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September 16, 2016
Do you have photos of your results? Good luck for your thigh lift, I'm having this done next year and would love to see your results. X