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47 yrs young! 5 Kids, Long Awaited Tummy Tuck + Muscle Repair + Lipo. Scheduled for Jan 6th 17

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Ok ladies, so hoping joining this group will help...

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SunshineGirl47
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Ok ladies, so hoping joining this group will help me with my journey. I have been considering, thinking, debating, mulling over having a tummy tuck for over 9 years and seriously over the last 4 1/2 years so I think its fair to say i've considered this fully! I have had all sorts of doubts as to whether to have this done or not - am I too old, am I risking fate, do I deserve it, does it seem right to do this when there are so many people ill out there and this is just for cosmetic reasons? All these questions have played on my mind but after great deliberation I have decided to go for it as I don't want to spend the rest of my life having my body rule my clothes choices and my confidence levels. Life is too short. Don't get me wrong I am absolutely bricking the idea of the pain and agony I will most likely experience after the op but I know this will be temporary and hope that having had 5 kids I can do this, right? I have 2 surgeons to visit in the next few weeks which I have researched as much as possible. They are both members of the GMC, BAAPS & BAPRAS and have lots of great reviews, as a plus they are both work local to where I live. Will let you all know how I get on. Is there anything in particular that I should ask?

In regards to pain can anyone help - Wondering how everyone else has found the pain management, I might have had lots of kids but I don't have a high pain tolerance. I had a hernia op around 12 years ago with a small femoral incision in my pubic area and i regarded that as painful enough. Worried at the thought of only being given OTC medicines and left in agony. Can I request/pay for better pain meds from the surgeons? I've heard of a pain pump does anyone else have experience of this?

I also have a weak back and was wondering if there was anything anyone suggested to help with preventing or helping me if I get a bad back after the op, which so many have commented on?

Any help would be appreciated.

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Charles Durrant, MA, MBBS, FRCS(plast)

Charles Durrant, MA, MBBS, FRCS(plast)

Specialist Registered Plastic Surgeon

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October 30, 2016
I booked mine for January as well! My surgeon swears by an injectable pain killer called Exparel. So I would ask if your doctors can use that. Best of luck!!!
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October 30, 2016
Thanks thats great to know, will ask. Good luck too!
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October 30, 2016
Hi, well you sound a lot like me, I've mauled over this for ten years and three years ago I had my first consult in hopes of going through with this. Guess I wasn't fully convicted and backed out. October 21st I had my second consult with the same surgeon that I had three years earlier. What a difference emotionally this time around. I booked my surgery date in March 2017, but asked if I could go on the January 2017 cancellation list, which they did. Couple of days ago I got a call from their office asking if I wanted a cancellation in Novemeber 2016! So just over a little of a month away I will be have my TT with lipo of the Flanks, just when I least expected it. But boy did I grab at this opportunity . I had asked about a pain pump also and he didn't recommend it, don't understand that as it seems to work well with lots of woman. He explains that there is to many tubes coming out then another one added, so ok I thought. As far as most things here, I've read what most find easier for them, I've gotten a walker, a toilet seat riser, a shower seat and a travel pillow and of course I was lucky enough to have an electric recliner. Anyways if you want this just do it, I've spent way to many years like you wasted. If you have a good surgeon then go for it.
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October 30, 2016
Hi Susieqtt. Glad you are doing it. We deserve it after looking after kids all these years, now is our time. Go for it. I shall be keeping up with your posts to see how you are doing. Thanks for the advice and all the best to you. X
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November 3, 2016
Thanks SunshineGirl147, It's defiantly our time, I'm very excited for us, and yes this site is amazing giving me so much confidence , tomorrow I'm off to pick up a shower seat and maybe look at another recliner, I have one but it's not as stable as I'd like. Also going to pick up an artificial tree for Christmas, never had one of them before, but this has to be done soon, preparing myself ,my shopping will be bought and wrapped. After November 29 I'll be recovering from surgery. I can't seem to grasp that this is actually going to happen.
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November 6, 2016
Wow, you're lucky you got an earlier date. I will following your journey closely. I have bought a raised toilet seat, recliner that tips me out lol, a zimmer frame lol and the usual arnica etc! My old man is taking the p all the time calling me an old woman and I havn't even got them yet, still anything that helps has to be good right. I was told I couldnt' have any alcohol for 2 weeks before which means I can't have my transitional beverage on christmas day :-(. At least yours will be over by then and you will be on recovery road and on the Flat side! Keep in touch. I love these forums they have been so helpful to speak to other people going through the same thing and having the same issues and feelings as me! X
January 18, 2017
Hi
I just got mine last week so far so good !! No much pain ... with the pain pup medicine and pain pills you don't feel nothing but u need a lot of help and a lot of patience ... they said that taking a shower help u well for me nope taking a sower is a challenge a have a chair in there and I always feel like I'm going to faint so my husband does it really quick he helps me a lot just rest rest rest .... i have two drain on my sides one already gone but licking the hole a little bit they said is normal... your abdomen s numb and i read that sometimes is forever or partial like 12 month to wake up but to me s like my nerves are waking up because I feel like little pinchs and D.C. Said your nerves are waking up so is normal... then my back hurts bc I'm laying down most of the time. Your stomach swelling a lot but will go down mine still swelling ... i just imagine my body at the end ... I think is worth it to pass all these inconvinient ... most of the tummy tuck I think just discomfort bc you can stand straight and sleep on your bed and regular shower then is no pain .... but like D.C. Said everybody s different !! So good luck and go for it!!
UPDATED FROM SunshineGirl47
2 months pre

Pre-surgery pictures

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SunshineGirl47
OK, so here goes, these are my pre-op photos. Got to say this was really difficult for me to do as I have learned how to keep my body hidden for so long that getting it out and taking a picture of it was hard. Looking forward to being able to show some after pictures following my op on either 3rd, 4th or 5th Jan - don't know for certain the date yet as this has still to be confirmed by all 3 are reserved so will be one of them! Will keep you all updated!
Ps Thanks for everyone's input so far, this forum is proving to be my lifeline!

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December 5, 2016
Wathing with interest - I'm booked into Spire aswell (Edinburgh) for lipoabdomnioplasty on Jan 27th...by the time I'm heading in you should be through the worst of it! Good luck! Hope all goes well
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December 5, 2016
Ah thanks. They are a really good hospital i'm told and we will be well taken care of! Btw, are you getting a pain pump or anything with yours? I asked about Exparel but was told its not licensed in the UK yet so they can't use it but my surgeon did say that I might be able to have a pain tap? Or possibly a pain pump but he was worried about the latter as he said I might not move around so quickly. Would be good to compare notes as there don't seem to be so many uk women on here and USA is so different in terms of the way this procedure and the recovery is done here!
UPDATED FROM SunshineGirl47
2 months pre

Updated date! January 6th 2017!

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So today I have decided after seeeing consultant number 3 that Mr Charles Durrant at Spire Portsmouth will be my chosen surgeon/hospital for my procedure. I was very impressed with him, his attitude, his knowledge and what he can do for me. I am now feeling uber excited although still anxious as you would expect. So, Jan 6th it is!

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November 14, 2016
Yay! So excited for you!!
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November 16, 2016
Thank you. So so nervous though, think i will be a bag of nervous on the day itself but cant wait to get to the flat side! Good luck with yours. X
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November 16, 2016
Thank you. I get nervous about it too and my surgery won't be till April. Can't wait to be on the healing side. Going under is scary. Just think positive and keep your head up. You will do great.
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November 17, 2016
Thanks.
December 3, 2016
I've found you ! Good luck Hun , I'll be watching you and cheering you on xx
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December 6, 2016
Thanks. X
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December 12, 2016
Hi SunshineGirl47, glad you got you date, it's really just around the corner. My previous date was November 29 but it's now December 20 th...I bought my first little black yesterday...wow tight as hell ha, can't wait to get that baby on and feel sexy again...we are all in the same boat, scared, nervous, doubting, all I can say is stay busy keep your mind off of negative things, meaning try not to read the negative stories on hear, did all that and found it scared the crap out of me, now I read all the positives, I know it'll be painful, but each and every story has a light at the end of the tunnel...so mine is a week away, we can do this and I'm excited.
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December 12, 2016
Thanks. I will try and you are right, I must focus on the positives of which there are so many on here. I will be following your progress. Good luck. X
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December 13, 2016
Thanks. I am going to buy a dress also so I can compare. You must be so excited though as not long now! X