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7 weeks and 3 days - South Africa, ZA

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Hi all, may I use your wisdom? I am going under...

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Hi all, may I use your wisdom? I am going under and through next Monday, it's part of a holiday (I know I know, stop rolling your eyes)... It's the only way the timing works. I'm doing it in south Africa, will be away from home for best part of 3weeks. What do I wear post op?I am packing stretchy gym pants, leggings etc, have the front button nightie... What about tops?
All advice gratefully received. I have taken notes from the lists on here but wanted other input.
Many thanks

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October 1, 2012
What is temps there? I was clueless as to what to wear too. Now that I've gone through it, I would highly recommend sweats that tie at waist one size too big for you. If it's hot there cut them to shorts, you really won't care if you're pretty those first couple days, trust me! On a shirt I wore a zip up hoodie, but it that's too hot maybe a mans short sleeve button up shirt? Buy big, buy big! The first 3-4 days I wasn't raising my arms up, so, I wanted to wear something that opened in front, but after that a big t-shirt has been working great for me. It has to be big to cover 4 drains remember. Also, this compression garment on your waist makes you pretty warm...I'm always cold and I am hot every day wearing this thing. Good luck on your upcoming day!!!
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October 1, 2012
Thanks for this - am now glancing at partner's wardrobe... I wonder if he'll miss anything... he has some items I could do with disposing of, this could be the perfect solution!
October 1, 2012
You are very welcome :) Are you getting a pain pump?
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October 2, 2012

Ooh, I'm excited for you! I hope you'll keep us updated as you get closer.

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October 3, 2012
I wore very loose fitting clothing, some button ups and loose pants, nothing that sits on the panty line. As long as you have your pressure garment/ binder initially you will be fine. What you have said you are pickings sounds perfet, best of luck, enjoy the journey :-)
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4 days pre

Ok, I see my surgeon tomorrow (Friday)- then in on...

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Ok, I see my surgeon tomorrow (Friday)- then in on Monday - this has come along so quickly now.
Had a nice night tonight - I am now in South Africa - I went out to a local market night, met some nice ladies who are all fascinated that I am going under the knife shortly - funny that I have told only a few people back home, but I told 5 women who are unknown to me within minutes of meeting them. But it feels nice to talk, to be open and honest and funny about it.
So I am nervous for tomorrow - wondering what I will be told - hoping I get some encouragement (like, 'this is going to be so easy' 'I can fix you - no problem'... etc etc)... I know, I have an active imagination.
Pondering asking for a pre-med to calm my nerves but one of the ladies tonight suggested not to as it can make you nauseous when you come round, and nausea / sickness with a tight tummy and boobs is maybe not the way to go...
Wonder how I will be doing this time next week...
Also thinking about taking a load of Before pics tomorrow / over the weekend so I can record the difference and remind myself of what I am doing / why I am doing it... I don't have any nice underwear for in a few weeks time -so many people on here take pics shortly after the op - and look great - how do they know what size they are - or manage to go out with drains and buy stuff - ladies, I salute you!!!

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October 4, 2012
Yes, absolutely take lots of before pics! You will regret if you don't. Even if you keep a few private just for you, like you said, 'as a reminder'. I bought my undies 2 sizes too big, but also bought just 1 size too big just in case....so I had options. You will need lots of extra space with the compression garment and drains both combined, plus swelling. I bought the boy cuts for the extra space. I'm still wearing them :)
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October 5, 2012
Appt this morning - will know more about pain pump etc: bought some big shirts yesterday.... cooked a heap of soup.... feels like I am planning for armageddon!
October 5, 2012
Well, be well prepared so you can be sure to relax afterwards. You have several, several weeks of relaxation ahead of you.....unfortunately it's not always comfortable relaxation.
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October 5, 2012
Okay so here's the update: all good. The Dr went over both procedures - not yet clear if I will have unders or overs for the small implants I am having on the boobs, to be decided on the day depending on what he finds. He will use the Madame LeJour / lollipop approach I think - seems to suit the state of my boobs. Implant size around 180-200cc - may need different sizes in each as they are very asymmetrical. As for the tummy, he wants to cut low - below me C-section scar, bit in to the pubic area: long cut probably up to hips - thinks there's enough skin though I may have the little upward scar from the old belly button site being re-positioned - again it will be clearer on the day. He was upbeat - seemed delighted with my tummy - there's me seeing the downside of it, but he sees it as a good one to work on, to get a good result - lot of skin, not so much fat (ha! wait until he gets in there). I feel optimistic - still nervous - but hoping for a good result. Will have Muscle Repair (MR) - he thinks there's a few centimetres seperation. Should be able to shower quickly after surgery - he puts water proof dressings on. He uses dissolvable stitches - below the surface - and a dissolving running stitch on the outside. He has a reputation for excellent, neat needle work. I feel very confident in his skills and knowledge. He drew his lines to measure the breast and took photos. Had a good feel about and play with options. I have to be at the hospital for 6.30am - in to theatre by 8am; then all day Monday and Monday night, all day Tuesday and Tuesday night - away Wednesday. This is my preference. Back on Friday and the following week for dressing changes - drain removal - stitch tweaking etc as required. He thinks I will be upright in a week or so; have garment on 3-4 weeks. Did the registration with the hospital - chap behind the counter enthused about my Surgeon, how good he is, what a nice chap he is - completely unsolicited. And yesterday a lady who worked with him 10 years ago on 1 operation raved about what a nice man he is - so that all seems very comforting. I collect my sexy garments tomorrow - nice zips up the sides... lace panel - not to be foxy I think, but because the lace doesn't have any elastic in it. I went for a beige and a white... lovely ! All in all it looks good, appt on Sunday evening to have my lines drawn on me; then in early. Gulp!!!
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2 days pre

Ok, the update today is I now have my garments -...

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Ok, the update today is I now have my garments - they zip up the sides - you part zip them up first, step in lie down, then start to work them up... I think they are going to be very reassuring, though they are not the foxiest outfits ever. The garment lady - Kirsty - is an ex theatre nurse who did dress making as a hobby, moved in to lingerie and was then asked to do some garments for surgery (men, women, post breast cancer etc)... And she has given me an adapted plastic milk bottle to pee in... I think this may be a useful thing - you can pee standing up; I won't have to worry about bending down and up to the seat.... though doing a pooh may be another matter.
My birthday tomorrow, and appt to have the permanent marker drawings put on me, then up at 5am to prep for getting to hospital at 6.30am. If nothing else I should sleep next week.. I understand I get prescription sleeping tablets - hopefully they will help too.
The garment lady also raved about the Surgeon - he worked on her son when he had a bad accident with a chain saw (neck and face)... she was so happy it was him working on her son.

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October 6, 2012
Good luck and be calm on Monday! Post as soon as you can how you are! It sounds like you are in good hands :)
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October 6, 2012
Sorry about the orientation - hope it's not too painful to look at - looks better than it is I think... I was standing up straighter than normal - and straighter than I will be for a while come Monday :-)
July 13, 2016
Hi, I saw your compression garments, any idea where I can get those. I'm planning to have my tummy tuck and augmentation in September in SA. You look great, if I wasn't in Josy I would definitely see your doctor. I may be going with DR Braun.
tHANKS,