30 year old, 325cc moderate plus 32A - 32D then cancer

No not a fool! I have no answer why these things happen. Though we can learn so much when things go wrong I find that there is very little benefit in second guessing the past. I know your story has put many of us on the lookout for changes we should seek medical attention for. I pray your regret is short lived and that you immerse yourself in the beauty of today.

I don't agree with you at all about being an idiot. Please don't think so. I feel that since we are able to make the decision of the size, type, profile, cc's etc, we are extra hard on ourselves for any flaw that we feel we see. I am in the same boat, and almost feel that I should have asked for a revision. But then, reality hits, and I am brought back down to earth. Please don't add this to your mind right now. I am so sorry that this is happening to you, and there is nothing that I can say to even begin to ease this pain.

Thank you for your story. I am currently in the decision phase between HP or moderate and looking for clues as to what I should choose. Your story is very grounding and kinda snaps me back to the reality of perfect boobs aren't everything, health is. I think we all live in a bubble with the notion that "it wont happen to me".....until it does. You weren't a fool, you were just in the bubble. I wish you healing, strength and health.

You are not a fool, you are a brave young lady and I am sure you are beautiful too. Sending me prayers and loads of hugs...

I hope you are doing well.

I am so sorry. My heart aches for you.

I am so so sorry

Oh, this is awful. Hang in there. You really put it all in perspective. Hugs

:( my best thoughts for you dear

You are absolutely right.... I will be thinking of you. I am so very very sorry to hear this update.

I'm so happy that you are in remission.
When can you start the process of reconstruction?
Best wishes from NZ!

Amazing news! I am so happy to hear you're in remission. You look beautiful now and you will look beautiful after reconstruction as well xo much love to you!

So happy you are in remission! You strong, beautiful, brave woman! Sending you lots of hugs and support from Cape Town!

I'm so sorry you have gone through all of this, it must have been terrifying. I can't even imagine. Reading your last post had me crying and feeling so bad for all of my non important worries about my BA. Thank you for putting things in perspective. I'm so happy that you now are in remission. I wish you all the best! Thank you for sharing your story. Can I ask how long you had symptoms before you got it checked out and were diagnosed?