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Ready for the journey of a lifetime with Dr. Khashayar Vaziri at GW Hospital

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Ready for the journey of a lifetime

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I’m 47 years old, no kids and recently married. I have, up to this point, thoroughly enjoyed my life, traveled, successful career, etc.—BUT always, always, always struggling with my weight. I have faked confidence and gone through every diet known to humankind. I’ve tried medical weight loss where they throw pills at you and monitor your heart and blood pressure almost weekly and when the phentermine raised my blood pressure, they gave me drugs to lower it.
I pray I have not damaged my body through the extreme measures I’ve taken over the years.
I’m now at my heaviest weight of 250 lbs. I was 195 three years ago after popping diet pills and exercising almost daily and walking to work across town everyday (about 6 miles a day). Now I work at home half the week and am simply not as active (and a bit lazy with the excess weight).
I came to the conclusion that the gastric sleeve is my last hope when I found out I have high blood pressure (this time, without taking diet pills). I know I cannot do it on my own (at almost 50, I am pretty aware about what I am & am NOT willing/able/want to do). So, with the high BP, I have the co-morbidity I need to qualify for insurance to cover the surgery!!!
I was on Real Self researching tummy tuck and a breast lift and full body lipo. However, I realized that those would be a bandage on a wound that’s been troubling me my whole life. As I get older, losing that familiar 20-30 pounds is getting harder and harder.
When I turned 30, I worked out 2 hours a day for months and got down to 175 pounds and I felt and looked amazing. I don’t have it in me to do it again without some serious help.
I’m nervous about the surgery. I’m scared of complications. However, NOT having the surgery terrifies me more—I do not want to keep playing the obesity lottery and hoping/praying for the best.
So now my journey begins. I see a mental health practitioner on Friday so I can complete the mental health assessment. I am working with the surgeon’s patient coordinator on the other required tests/documents. I am hoping to fast-track the process as much as possible. My hold up may be the required 90 days nutrition counseling. I had my PCP and Endocrinologist write letters stating they have been providing nutrition counseling for me since October 2017 but I skipped November, so not sure if Blue Cross will count it...!

Me and VSG's provider

Paul P. Lin, MD

Bariatric Surgeon, Board Certified in General Surgery

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January 15, 2018
I think we may be twins because every thing u said is my issue! I had a bbl and had a decent shape after slimming down but my love for food took over! Food is my issue, i cant restrict myself so i need help.
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January 19, 2018
I had a bbl too! looked great after surgery but weight gain is hiding the results!!! food is an issue and this surgery is a way to final deal with a lifelong battle. this time it’s about HEALTH over strictly appearance
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January 23, 2018
I couldnt have said it better! I would take a smaller frame with this average butt anyday... my first mind was telling me to do a bbl and tummy tuck but my better judgement said forget that, get the vsg, get to a steady weight loss, then get plastic surgery to fix what i can! Im rooting for you, ill be following your journey!
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February 11, 2018
Oh yes. I think we are twins as well. We have no kids and a good career - I worked out so much in my 30s that I lost 50lbs, but fell off the wagon after an injury and gained all the weight back. Now in my 40s, I just don't have it in me to work out 2 hours a day. And with my osteoarthritis, it's just not a realistic option for me. I too, worry more about how I will feel in 10 years than having the surgery. And to top things off? We have the same scheduled surgery date, Feb 28th.

Excited for the both of us! I hope everything with the paperwork is progressing still. Also excited to follow the rest of your journey!
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February 14, 2018
well... I see my Endocrinologist on Tuesday. she said she will write a letter supporting my surgery and ordered blood work. so hopefully, the surgeon’s office can submit to insurance before the end of the month. It looks like I will definitely be pushing the surgery date back. March is out due to work, so April will probably be the month. I have also decided to self pay if insurance denies me for some strange reason. I found a surgeon—Dr. Shillingford in Boca Raton, FL—who seems to be really good at a reasonable self pay price. Will see which way I must go—praying BCBS will not let me down!!!!
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Changed back to original surgeon—Khashayar Vaziri.

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He was highly recommended by someone I hope is right—while this may sound dramatic, I feel like my life depends on this choice. I hope I’m right to go with my gut over the online reviews!!!!!!! Dr. Paul Lin had dozens of reviews and had been practicing for 30 years (I read he’s had 2 fatalities in this time). Dr. Vaziri has been practicing for about 15 years, with less than a dozen reviews. God be with me, PLEASE!!!!

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With clothes—merciful clothes

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