Happy Ending

Today makes 26 days exactly since I had my surgery and what a journey it has been . I came to New York back in February where I met Dr Mir. The first thing I like about him he was real he didn’t pretend he was up front about everything he didn’t try too much he just was blunt honest with a lil sense of humor. Am from out of state so he automatically made me understand the commitment I had to have for this procedure. I guess I took the commitment a little lightly but he sure told me now looking back. I had research so many different doctors and I felt a much confidence in knowing that he has the procedure done in a hospital and you have a few days to get back right after surgery. He also does two surgeries which also made me feel more confident about him really trying to get has much possible. He cares about your health and making sure you heal properly. I made my decision right then I knew Dr Mir was the right person for this I felt safe to put my life in his hands.

My drainage has been my biggest challenge I still have one left and one came out sooner then needed. Had my number 3 follow up today and had to get a needle stuck in me to pull the fluid on the side that drainage came out just like a turkey on thanksgiving. I have so much fluid which is keeping me from going home. I’ve learned that some women have barely any fluids after the first week of surgery. Here I am almost one month in and I still have a lot of fluid. The one I have left really irritating and I can’t wait till it comes out. Other then that all I can do continue to lay down take it easy. Am starting to get a little more feeling in my butt it giggles a little but still have some hardness in crack where it makes it uncomfortable to lay on your back. Overall am happy with procedure Dr Mir did an amazing job . Am a little unhappy about the dog ears but they are not huge still there but not huge. Again everyone different some women get them some don’t. I talk to someone who said hers went away eventually so am hoping mines goes away.

Today makes it 30 days since I had my surgery and I still have one drainage left that is still flowing heavy. It irritates me it hurts and am so over it. I have my 4 th weekly visit tomorrow with Dr Mir and hopefully I get some good news am ready to go home. Mentally exhausted financially I can’t afford to stay out of states any longer. Surgery is one battle but that recovery process omg on a whole other level. But every one different.