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Since as far back as I can remember I have known...
Jaime36May 25, 2014
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Since as far back as I can remember I have known that my nose is big. When I was a little girl (before I ever knew about plastic surgery) I would pray before I went to bed and ask God to make my nose smaller while I slept. It seems so silly that as a child I was conscious of my nose being disproportionate to my face, but it is and I always knew that. I wasn't bullied,in fact I was pretty popular growing up, but people always made comments. "Dude! Was your plastic surgeon drunk when he did your nose?" or With a nose like that you must be Jewish or Arabic." Even strangers would say to me, "You'd be so pretty if you got your nose done." or" Your nose makes you look like Barbara Streisand." Every time someone pointed out my big nose I would shrivel up on the inside. My nose has made me insecure, and my insecurities have caused me to sit on the sidelines too often in my life. My husband has been very supportive, and we decided together that I would move forward with the surgery when we had zero debt and could pay cash for the procedure. We are now in a position to make this a reality for me. My surgery is booked for May 30th 8:30 am. I am both terrified and excited! I have done my research and am completely confident that I chose the right surgeon for me. I have a ridiculous fear, no more like phobia, of vomiting, and that is my biggest fear. (So silly, I know) I am concerned about the healing process and how tough it could be, and I have some concerns regarding the emotional affect a surgery like this may have on me. I am a busy mom, and I don't know how to rest, so that will be challenging as well. i found this group while researching plastic surgery and I was hesitant to join at first, but as my big day gets closer I realize how much I would love the encouragement of others who have been through this.
I appreciate any positive feedback you have. Thank you!
I appreciate any positive feedback you have. Thank you!
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May 25, 2014
Your fears are normal and rest assured, even if you vomit, it will be ok. For me, once I got sick I was able to feel 100% better. Feeling super nauseated was not comfortable but as soon as I got the blood/mucus up from my stomach after surgery I felt so much better. You will be so happy once you are done with the surgery. Very little pain is associated with the surgery. Once in awhile my tip still will throb, but not like its unbearable. I take a advil and feel better in no time. :) I had my surgery last Monday (the 19th) and I get my cast/splints out Tuesday. Feel free to ask any questions on here and I'm sure you will find that there are many people who will give you guidance and tips. Congrats on making the decision. :)
May 26, 2014
Thank you for responding!! How difficult was sleeping after the surgery? What are some must haves for recovery?
May 26, 2014
Sleeping after surgery immediately isn't hard at all. The pain meds help with that. lol The anti nausea meds help with that as well. I slept on my reclining couch the first 4 nights then I couldn't stand it anymore so I just started to sleep in my bed with extra pillows. It has not been an issue.
Must haves for recovery...chapstick, bendy straws, face wipes, chloroseptic throat spray (I didn't need this but I have seen many others who needed it for the sore/dry throat), and get a bag of peas and divide them up in about 1/2 cup sizes placed in ziploc baggies and freeze them that way. Anything heavier than that just puts pressure on your nose and it hurts already enough. That was the best thing I was advised to do. The other thing I will tell you is to use ice water to rinse your wash cloths in to place on your face, forehead, cheeks, and back of head/neck area. THAT helps so much...if your eyes hurt really bad (some have bad eye pain due to swelling/bruising) just use cotton balls in the ice water and lay them gently over your eyes.
You will need either a zip up shirt or button up one for the first couple days. You will wear one the day you have surgery. I kept shorts/pajama pants on the first couple days. I just felt like pampering myself and not doing anything...listen to your body...if you are tired, sleep.. Hungry, eat...(but the first couple days keep it light and easy in case you do get nauseated and vomit again). I lived on choc ice cream the first few days...I'm not complaining about that part...:) Get foods that are soft and easy to digest (chicken broth/noodle soup, yogurts, applesauce, fruit). If there is anything else I can think of I'll let you know...but those are the ones that come to my mind right now since I'm freshly post op...lol
May 26, 2014
Thanks so much! Great advice! I have the nutra ninja and plan on making a lot of protein shakes for the first few days- if I'm hungry. My husband is taking our son camping for the weekend and my mom is staying with me Friday- Monday. I'm going to put our Apple TV in my bedroom and plan on renting movies and watching Netflix until I feel ready to get out. I'm so excited and yet equally terrified. Yikes!! 4 days left with the nose I've hated my whole life!!
May 25, 2014
I am so excited for you. I also worry about throwing up (or sneezing) after surgery, I do not want anything to happen that could jeopardize the nose! Of course my Dr. has reassured me people sneeze and throw up all the time and are fine, but still, it sounds miserable. Ill say some prayers for you and me both! We are having surgery on almost the same day! We can compare our healing progress :)
May 26, 2014
Please keep me posted on how you're doing! It's nice to have people in the same boat to share our excitement and anxieties with.
May 26, 2014
Dr. Hobgood is a dr I'm definitely considering!! So thanks for sharing your story and I can't wait to see the outcome! So how and why did you end up choosing him?
May 26, 2014
I chose Dr Hobgood because in addition to rhinoplasty I also have sinus issues and a deviated septum. I am having both of those fixed as well as a nose job. I felt comfortable with him immediately. He never pressured me, in fact it was the opposite. He told me he would be honored to work with me, but that if I chose not do go through with the surgery that was absolutely ok. He loves noses, it's his thing. He met with my husband and has insisted that I call his home phone or cell phone anytime after hours if I have a question or concern. He is so brilliant and yet not dismissive in any way. He even offered to refer me to the one other Dr in Phoenix that he feels is excellent with noses. I feel so comfortable with him!
May 26, 2014
I was feeling that way this time last week. Hard to believe I'm one week post op tomorrow. Sounds like you have a great plan and great support. That is important. My husband has been my 24/7 caregiver all week and I couldn't have done it without him, especially the first 3 days. Don't worry about sneezing either...I sneeze every day now and I still have my cast and splints on...just remember to sneeze with your mouth open and you will naturally sneeze out it instead of your nose...:)
May 26, 2014
Do you get your cast off tomorrow? I bet you're so excited!! I look forward to seeing your results.
May 27, 2014
I do get them off in the morning :) I can't wait to show everyone the after pics finally. I'm so excited.
May 27, 2014
I can't wait to see them! How are you doing post op? Is the worst behind you now?
May 27, 2014
The worst is def behind me. :) I feel so much better having my nose in the open now and no cast, no splints...I have some tenderness, but nothing that one advil can't take care of. :)
UPDATED FROM Jaime36
3 days pre
A few more pics
Jaime36May 27, 2014
The next pics I post will be of my new nose!
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May 27, 2014
I'm seriously anxiously excited to see the results!!! I've seen lovely results by dr.hobgood!
May 27, 2014
Me too!! I'm so ready to get this over with and behind me. Dr. Hobgood is quite impressive. I'm so happy I chose him.
May 28, 2014
Thank you for taking the time to start your story on RealSelf! I honestly can't believe how rude people can be! You are seriously gorgeous and I hope you're able to find peace with that once you've had rhinoplasty. I have never once regretted my nose job. It's very liberating! Make sure to keep plenty of cool beverages and lip balm near your recovery station as your mouth will get very dry from breathing through it.
I'll be thinking of you on the 30th!
I'll be thinking of you on the 30th!
May 29, 2014
In less than 48 hours I will have a new nose. I am absolutely terrified and would love some encouragement! Thanks everyone!
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