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8/17 Facelift, Upper/Lower Bleph, Laser around mouth and maybe Fat Transfer, not sure on that yet....

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I can't look anymore, I can look straight ahead...

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Sophie00
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I can't look anymore, I can look straight ahead and talk myself into something, but that mirror or reflection continues to baffle me, who is that woman? It is not me, its not how I feel, it doesn't portray who I am inside. I live in a very secluded area on an island. I need to travel to the mainland for a surgery like this. I have been on this site for several years, and last year started getting serious. I found out what I wanted , what Dr.s have the expertise and capabilities I am looking for. I had phone consultations, I poured over before and after photos, read reviews , studied websites, Dr's educations and experience, and decided on Dr Shaprio. I will be staying in Scottsdale 17 days, 2 nights at their clinic, the night of the surgery and the next night. I am following all of your advice and will hire a nurse to come to the hotel.
I will not know if I am having the fat transfer until 8/16 when I sit down with Dr Shapiro and go over, in great detail, the plan to reverse aging. I have read all of the negative and positive reviews on this site with all the different Dr's. With Dr. Shapiro's expertise and experience I am thinking about it.
I am nervous, I will be alone, I want my husband home with my daughter, she will just be starting her Sophmore year of highschool. I have 2 labradoodles and a friend staying in our guest house to who will walk and take care of them during the day. That is a huge relief for me. My husband and daughter are gone 12 hours a day and thats too long for them to be alone, for me anyway. If I wake up on morning 3 and need my husband he will be on the first flight out. He is amazing and wonderful, says I dont need anything, I am beautiful as is, but he is okay if this is what I really want. I am in Menopause.....I am miserable, I am hot all the time, I complain all the time, everything is wrong with everyone else, my face fell down, I have jowls, I have a turkey thing going on with my neck, I look like my Aunt Pat, I love my Aunt Pat but that is not the look I want to rock in my fifties. I practice Yoga and Pilates 6 days a week. I am in amazing shape, my body is strong and capable. My mind is young, I love Kylie Lip kits!!!!! I care about my appearance....perhaps too much...I dont know. I feel so blessed and greatful I can do this. I think, am I going to be in the worst pain of my life for weeks maybe months? Is this a mistake? WTF...I am doing it. I will load my pics later. I have been reading all of your stories and reviews, and I need some courage and strength. I dont know if I could have done this with out all of you.

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Daniel Shapiro, MD

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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June 14, 2016
I will help pave the way for you. I am scheduled for surgery on 6/29. I've been following a number of amazing ladies who are showing me the way. The on-line support you will get from this website is invaluable. You are stronger than you realize. In the hands of qualified, certified plastic surgeons you won't suffer from pain. Trust those who have gone before you. I wish you all the best! ❤️
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June 14, 2016
Thank you so much, you are at the end of the month....how are you feeling? anxious, excited? I am so greatful for you and everyone on this site!!!
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June 14, 2016
Sophie00, I couldn't be more excited. I am so ready to feel more self confident and have my exterior match my energy level. I have almost no anxiety at this point. I have great confidence in the surgeon I chose. It seems like you have a great support system that will be waiting for you at home. I am really looking forward to following your journey! Let's stay in touch.
June 14, 2016
Hi, I can feel your pain, and share in it quite a bit. I'm 55, have always (until recently) looked 10 years younger. Everything headed south this past year and I don't feel like I'm the same person when I look in the mirror either. I just keep thinking, "When did this HAPPEN???" I just wanted to let you know that if you are confident in your doctor, you will most likely be very, very happy with your results. I saw a friend this past Christmas who I only see once a year when I'm back "home" visiting my parents. She looked incredible, especially in light of the changes I was experiencing, and I thought, "Wow. Everybody but me is aging backwards." I have to mention that she is also 5 years older than I am, which puts her at 60. We were whispering in the corner and I mentioned that I had begun using Botox and some small amounts of Voluma in strategic places. She was very interested and said that she was thinking of trying Botox as well. I didn't think she needed a thing, darn her! Well, a couple of days later, I was speaking to a mutual friend about how wonderful this woman looks, and I said that it must have something to do with those incredible cheekbones and her Cherokee heritage. My friend guffawed (that's the only word for it) and said, "Yeah! That and the face lift!" That little stinker hadn't tipped her hand one little bit. But the amazing thing was that she looked completely natural, and I never suspected that she had had "work" done. I've met several other women, one now 69 and another 75 who had their facelifts about 10 years ago. Both women are beautiful and easily look 10-15 years younger than they are. Not 20, not unrealistic, but truly beautiful and rested and vibrant. So, for what it's worth, that's my two cents! Best of luck! And please keep us updated!!
June 17, 2016
Will be following you! I want to see your results as soon as you are done. I have been following Dr S on real self for a while and am thinking he is the doc for me. I will have a better idea after I see your results. XOXO
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June 21, 2016
Okay, my plan is to be the best advertisement for Dr. Shapiro, I should let him know that! I am really getting excited. What is it that you want to have done? One thing I really liked about him is that, I feel right now, I dont need a brow lift, my brows have stayed the same height, its everything else that has gone south. The 3 other Dr.s I consulted with said brow lift. I really dont think they looked at my photos from when I was in my 20's and 30's . Dr Shapiro agreed with me and gave me his opinion on what I needed. I really have a lot of confidence and a good inner feeling about everything.
June 17, 2016
BTW ~ In the pic w/ your glasses on you look ADORABLE!
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Face to go with the words....

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June 13, 2016
oops duplicate photo....
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June 22, 2016
I know this doesn't have anything to do with your upcoming surgery, but you will feel a lot better in this stage of life if you go to a doctor and have all of your hormones blood levels checked. I went into peri- menopause at age 47 and now I am 59. I could not literally sleep from one day to the next, I had hot flashes. The doctor I went to knew about bio-identical hormone replacement therapy and when they checked my hormones I was zero on everything - no estrogen, very little testosterone and no progesterone (that's why I couldn't sleep and had hot flashes) For the past 12 years I have been on trokies, you get them from the compounding pharmacy, which are gels you pop in your mouth, put them next to your gum-line, let them dissolve and within a week, no more hot flashes. You need a doctor who is versed in BHRT. It's not like the old hormones that came from horses and found to cause uterine cancer, these are gauged to your exact levels you need, so you only get what you need, those old ones were one pill fits all, so some people were overdosing. IT can't be done like that. Your skin will be better also, not so dry. Estrogen is responsible for skin quality. My doctor says for me, my estrogen needs to be about 75 ng/dL, because my testosterone is naturally at 39, I take a micronized progesterone pill at night to sleep. I am only telling you this because you can do all this surgery (I did too) and your skin still might not look its best because of hormone imbalance. So please look into it. Everything will improve in your life.
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June 22, 2016
Thank you so much, I will follow your suggestions, and I appreciate your input!I am on bio identical now, but I am not nearly to where I want to be, these trokies I have never heard of...I will find a dr. here and find out about them.
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June 22, 2016
Trokies are just like a tray with 30 days supply of gels you put in your mouth to dissolve. (keep refrigerated). I can't use creams, because my dog licks me. His nipples grew because of that, we couldn't figure it out, then my vet said "is anyone on estrogen cream?" OMG. But thank God, his nippies went back to normal size after I started using trokies (gels) again. Make sure that your estrogen level is about double or so of your testosterone level. Mine are equal right now, and that is why my hair is falling out. (Testosterone dominance). With women, it's tricky. Our estrogen (called Bi-est, because it's only 2 of the three estrogens, the third is not good for us (estrone), so we do not supplement that one, only estradiol and estriol). But if you find a qualified doctor with BHRT experience, the will get to the bottom of any imbalances you are experiencing.
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June 23, 2016
Thank you again, I am working on finding a Hormone specialist here, it is not that easy...xo
June 22, 2016
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June 23, 2016
You look great! That winter background fits you perfectly...beautiful
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July 14, 2016
Besides my neck you have my lips too! I will need to talk to my PS about what to do about it. Did you discuss fat transfer?
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December 23, 2016
You look wonderful, like Yolander Foster.