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I'm a 38 year old woman, who up until last year...

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I'm a 38 year old woman, who up until last year was pretty pleased with my overall physical appearance. Everyone in my family kept warning me about the "shift". As I was growing up, I saw this "shift" in all my cousins. I am the baby of the family, and I mean they ALL shifted! Over the past year, guess who starts to shift? I'm still ok with the fullness I see now, but that tire has GOT to go. My lifestyle has never mirrored any of my family's sedentary ways. I was an athlete growing up. I ran track for my JHS, my HS AND the US Navy. I'm not in the gym (stopped going after my lines started looking masculine), and really don't see myself getting back in there like that. My job is physical, and I do walk. I have ALWAYS been thick in my mid-section, even as a teen, primarily due to my short torso. Gain a pound and THAT is where you're going to see it. This is procedure(abdomen and hips)is something that has been on my mind for at least a decade. Now that I am closing in on finalizing my date and paying my money, I am SO nervous. Believe me, I have read every story here and on other sites. I have researched the facility and doctor. I have watched this procedure being performed on various other patients. I have listened to the good, as well as the horror stories. I actually gave myself an additional month after consulting the doctor to reconsider, to really DIG and see if I couldn't find a solid reason for me not to do this. After all this, I'm still having it done.

But these nerves of mine...... I would love any calming words of inspiration from anyone that has gone through similar feelings.

I will post some before, BEFORE pics (before the shift.

Eventually, I will post my before surgery pics, just as soon as I can tolerate looking at it.

I'm sooooo not feeling this mid-section spread.Updated on 10 Nov 2011:Was scheduled for the 22nd but my original hopeful date was the 15th, so we are off to a good start!. Nerves have my insides knotted up.Updated on 15 Nov 2011:OK, 30 days and counting...... Palms sweating just thinking about it. I really feel this is what needs to be done, just a big ol'fraidy cat, I suppose. :) I have read some fabulous ratings, and some not so fab. Seems my jitters are common though. My expectations, I believe, are realistic. Have done SO much comparison on similar body types, ages, and even ethnic backgrounds. I'm READY(but secretly would like some words of encouragement, or just maybe your story)

If anybody is having a similar procedure done soon(or just had it done) please contact me. Especially if you're just as nervous as me! :)Updated on 17 Nov 2011:Bad day at work, but my excitement has kept me going. Four weeks from today!! Not nervous today for some reason. I keep visualizing my new midsection. Hopefully everything will be fine by April. I was unhappy last year in my bikini. Would NOT take that cover up off! Really don't want to relive that.Updated on 18 Nov 2011:Even worse day today. My beloved cat of 11 years has some sort of neurological issue. All I can do is make him comfortable. REALLY started to postpone my procedure and invest this money into my cat. I was told it probably wouldn't help though. My heart is so heavy now.Updated on 19 Nov 2011:Laid my cat to rest today. So sad. I was looking forward to recovering and having my BooBoo there with me. Gotta stay strong. :(Updated on 28 Nov 2011:Rearranged my room. Picked up my arnica and vitamin C and plenty of gauze. I am praying for a smooth recovery afterwards. Preparation is key. Am I really doing this?? smh. Wow. On a disappointing note, no one from the Realself team has even said hello. Odd.Updated on 5 Dec 2011:Pre op is at noon today. Excited and nervous. Will post afterwards.Updated on 7 Dec 2011:Ok....... Finally got the nerve to post some of my before pics. Official farewell to the fat, if U will. Don't know what made me do it today, but here goes...... Be kind :)

Updated on 9 Dec 2011:Ok, Picking up scripts today AND bloodwork. This is really happening, huh?Updated on 12 Dec 2011:3 more days!!!!!Updated on 15 Dec 2011:Just returned home. Feeling great so far. In the kitchen cooking. Leaking like crazy! Trying to prepare myself for the pain afterwards.

Total of 9 adits, 3 per hip and 3 for ab. Have to leave my garment on until tomorrow, but then they say I only have to wear it 7 days. Im sure Im going to wear it longer tho. Will sneak a peek tomorrow.

Good luck stephanie!!!!!!Updated on 19 Dec 2011:Check out 4 day post op pics!Updated on 19 Dec 2011:I had approximately 2300ml removed. 750ml from left hip and 760ml from right hip and 770ml from my abdomen. Today is my first day back at work and I feel fine. I kept the Vicodin routine up until last night. Wasn't in significant pain, but wanted to make sure I slept through the night. Brought Tylenol just in case pain kicks up today.

Personally, I don't think that he took enough out, but time will tell. Still have numb spots on my bum and soreness on my hip adits. Recovery not as bad as I thought it would be. I can sort of understand why they call it a "lunchtime procedure", but it would have to be a LATE lunch on a Friday, and whatever your job is, it probably shouldn't require a lot of thought. Now if this is YOUR job, then YES, it is a lunchtime procedure. If not, then I would consider it like any other medical procedure and advise thoroughly resting before resuming ANY activities. : )Updated on 21 Dec 2011:Went bowling last night. Everything was good. But THEN I got that call. Oh yeah, it was ON! No pain. Body didn't look as good as I hoped it would, but I was satisfied. HE was dumbfounded. Couldn't figure out what got into me. Lbvs! My CONFIDENCE IS BACK!! He's REALLY in trouble once this swelling goes down! Just thought I'd share a lighter note.

Stay lifted ladies!

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November 20, 2011
Hello back to me. Sorry to hear about your cat! I just read your review and we are having out procedures on the same day! I'm having a FTT with MR though, no lipo. My PS said that I didn't need that. Its good to know that I'm not the only one going in on that day--now I will have a recovery buddy!I have started the countdown as well.(25 days and counting!)
I'm trying to prepare myself as much as possible. This site has really helped me alot! Just reading everyone else's reviews and journeys has prepared me for what to expect. I know everyone is different but at least I'll have somewhat of an idea of what to expect anyway. So just stay strong and we will get through this together! ttyl.
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November 21, 2011
Thx stephanie! I so look forward to sharing this experience with U! My nerves! Such a mix of emotions. I never thought I would experience so many feelings(so of them mixed) about this. My mind is preoccupied with this procedure. I'm just now starting to prepare for it. My pre-op is Dec. 5.

I keep hearing from different people that U should lose as much weight as ur comfortable with before the procedure. Haven't really found any info on that though. I'm going to GNC to get all the stuff in a little while.
I still keep saying that I can't believe I'm actually gonna do it. I can't.

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November 21, 2011
I know girl I was the same way until after I went for my preop last Tuesday (11/15). I felt so much better after I had all my questions answered by my PS. I'm a lot calmer now.
If you can lose some weight before than that would be good but I wouldn't stress over that too much. I'm sure you will be fine. I would love to lose about 10 lbs before the 15th but with Thanksgiving coming up I really don't see that happening no time soon (just wishful thinking I guess..lol).

But right now just focus more on upping your Vitamin C, Proteins, and just drink as much water as you can stand. Also, be mindful of your calories intake and if you lose a few pounds in the meantime than that will be an added bonus! You really want your body to be able to heal properly.

Keep me posted on how your pre-op goes on the 5th.ttyl
December 9, 2011
Hey Back to me! Thanks for posting your "before" pics! You are going to have some great results! And you don't have any stretch marks either! Have you gotten all of your post op supplies yet? I'm trying to get all my stuff together, after all, we just have 7 more days to go!! ;o)
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December 9, 2011
Girl Ive got so many emotions running thru me right now! I think I have taken care of most of my post op stuff. Was talking to the pharmacist at Walgreens about post op constipation. I almost got the wrong stuff! Glad I talk to him! Arnica gel, vitamin C, Eucerin anti-itch, all kinds of seamless gauze. Pulled out the oldest sheets and towels I could find. My local grocery store has SmartWater(1.5L) on sale for $.59!! It's supposed to replenish electrolytes and whatnot without any taste. I cleaned the SHELF out on em yday! Went BACK today and got a raincheck for 15 more. Going back tomorrow too! I think I really need to concentrate on what Im going to be eating, so Im holding that until the last minute.

Thankfully I only have a few strecthmarks, and I guess because Im so lightskinned they're barely visible. I can't wait tho! Seriously. How's it going with U? How excited r U?
December 10, 2011
I am super excited! That's all I've been thinking about here lately..I even find myself daydreaming about it at work. Wow, talking about a bargain on the smartwater! You got a real good deal on that one..I don't blame you I would stock up too!
I work for a home health agency so I was able to get sterile gauze, abd pads, paper tape (which is highly recommended for TT scar)from there. I got neosporin but I heard polysporin is better and I picked up some hydrogen peroxide and kleenex from the dollar store I also have a stool softener (dulcolax)and some gas x. I think I am pretty much ready now. I'm going tomorrow to check on renting a recliner since I don't own one. I had to order some scar treatment from Walgreen's online because they didn't have it in store..can't wait to use that.
Oh yeah, as far as food items I just picked up some soup, saltines, applesauce, oatmeal, eggs and I'm getting some pineapple juice for the bromelain (to help with the swelling). I have some more stuff too though. But that's pretty much it for me. Now I'm just waiting on Thursday to get here! 6 more days to go...;o)
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Omg! My gown fits again! Celebration begins in a few!

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Omg! My gown fits again! Celebration begins in a few!

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AND I'm 3lbs lighter! Yay me!

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AND I'm 3lbs lighter! Yay me!

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December 29, 2011
Check you out hot mama!
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December 29, 2011
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December 29, 2011
Daaaaang! That before pic in the red bikini, that's my goal right there! Looking fierce mama! Your tummy looks great, skin is so smooth, & not sure what your surgery date was but basically the swelling comes & goes even after 6months! Some days I'm real happy about my decision & the really bad swelling days (especially in the evenings of my really active days) I question it. Once the healing is completd your going to look perfect as u had such good skin pre op! Congrats
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December 29, 2011
Thx!! I sure hope so. Its only been two weeks since the procedure. Those good and bad days are something else!
December 29, 2011
OMG back to me! You are looking sooo good! And its only going to get better from here! I love that red bikini--hopefully I'll be that confident this summer in my stank one piece--lol. ;o)
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December 30, 2011
Thx!! The PS said I was coming along beautifully. Oh, WE will be that confident girl!!!!
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December 30, 2011
3lbs! That's great! You make me look forward to next week. Did you gain any when you swelled? Have you eaten differently or is that all from the procedure?
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December 30, 2011
Yes I did gain a pound or 2, I think because I still wasn't regular yet. My diet was lighter, but that was because I wasn't sure when it was gonna come out. I was still having BM issues. I had to take the laxatives everyday between days 6-10 I believe. I can not be blocked up more than a day or so. I become very mean. lol. So serious tho. I still take one or two on occasion. Especially if I'm not sure about what I ate.

Um... Have U gone yet??