Already contacted and reassured..
Kathy, Dr Huntly's patient coordinator was on the phone reassuring me at 9 am this morning, as I felt fairly certain she would. Of course, NOW I have no fears whatsoever, which is generally my usual outlook. Once I make a decision, it's made and "let's get going!" Kathy had me laughing in about 2 minutes: we hit it off (or perhaps she is this wonderful with EVERYONE!) immediately when I called to have a consultation with Dr Huntly a few months ago, and have not stopped laughing YET! Part of my anxiety yesterday were some of the not-so-nice outcomes of others who posted on this site. And yet, the VAST majority are positive. Thank you all for sharing. That one (ugly) photo above turned itself upside-down against my wishes but perhaps it was ashamed. Somehow I cannot right it, so I'll try one more time and see if it pops up correctly. The reason I posted photos of me with my daughters and granddaughter (one: I have TWO now!) was to show that I could look nice enough head-on...I don't think I'm a freak. But OH I hate that side view and I find it rather funny that my eyebrows "are sinking slowly in the west" like the sun!!!
I won't write at length (as I usually do!) because I really do not feel well at all, and the tight, swollen skin around my eyes, forehead, mouth, nose, ears, makes doing just about anything impossible. Most folks say that Day 3 is the worst and I can say that Days 1, 2, and 3 have all been "the worst". Of course it's the day for self-recrimination. How could one literally CHOOSE to do this?? I am quite worried that I am going to hurt my corneas bc the lids feel so shortened that I'm worried they'll dry out. Hopefully I'll feel much better in the coming few days. I've taken plenty of Horror Show photos but would go CRAZY trying to upload without being able to see through the oil on my eyes. I don't look any worse than anyone else, just as awful and hopefully when the swelling goes down I'll resemble myself some way. Prayers are always appreciated!!! Thank you for "being here" for me!
10 Days Post-Op Major Face and Neck surgery
Hello, everyone, I am so sorry bc I know we worry and pray for each other, so it is not okay to post an unhappy review and then leave you hanging for another 7 days. It's been a very rough time, basically unable to do ANYTHING (and I am not one for just "hanging around". But I have been advised repeatedly by my PS that THAT is exactly what I must do, plus cold packs 15 min AT MINIMUM 4 times per day.) I have had 3 post-op visits and finally 2 days ago the PS removed all the staples and removable stitches. Unfortunately, the stitches behind my ears and a few on my lower lids just aren't dissolving fast enough for me, so it still feels like a painful bird's next behind each ear. Minor, but if we're being honest, this is true. Happily the pain can finally be managed with just Tylenol...I took last Percoct on 9th day at bed time. Soooo tired of the dragged out feeling from the narcotic. The positive things so far: my skin looks fresh and much younger. My lips are fuller but not too full. My eyes no longer itch with pain and dryness. I can eat normal food although I cannot sound "P" and "B" due to some lack of motor and sensory control of the middle of my upper lip. My lips a dry but not painful. The area under my nostrils where the doctor shortened the distance betw nose and upper lip in order to expose more of the vermillion to allow for a slightly more noticeable upper lip no longer hurts. (It was AWFUL having those stitches removed!!) My cheeks are fuller. The "dent" from brain surgery above my R eyebrow is filled in--no one would notice it now. Now, the not-so-good: my eyelids are still swollen and red, and my minimal eyelashes are virtually invisible right now. I can "bring them back" with mascara but still thinner than they were. They have given me a free pack of Latisse (not sure I think it's safe yet) but cannot use until after 4 weeks post op. Very kind, nonetheless. My skin is STILL yellow from the fading bruises-- and quite a few minimal red/purple spots remain, also. But nothing as bad as before and we all heal at our own pace. I cannot whistle or suck properly from a straw (only from the sides of my mouth, not the center as per usual. My smile is a caricature and dreadfully embarrassing. This is not good news bc the one thing EVERYONE always commented on was my beautiful smile. You can see on "before" pics w/ my kids who share that smile. My face still looks so frozen -- will be awful if I turn out like Kenny Rogers or others who have had terrible facial surgery. It LOOKS like there is going to be a slit-like scar going from the far right of my R eye about 1 cm long. But possibly too early to tell. The ears are so painful I am still unhappily sleeping on elevated pillows plus a huge foam wedge, cannot lie on ears at all. My eyes seem tired (I think it is weakness -- the nerves were somewhat damaged so opening eyes fully takes concentration -- but I do not believe this is permanent.) I don't believe the lip problems are permanent either - just nerves bruised or "insulted" and will regain normalcy in a week or two. Face feels tight and unnatural, so does my very tight scalp. My smile is grossly abnormal. For 10 days I have been nowhere except to the PS office with my husband driving. I have shown recent photos to my 2 daughters but no one else. My husband has been an angel. If I had to look at this face all day I would not be as sweet and kind as he has been throughout. Of course, I look so unnatural it is impossible to foresee the outcome. The staff and the PS keep encouraging me...said 2 weeks before even approaching normal, and at 3-4 weeks would start to look "fabulous". I will post pictures later today. Transferring from phone to email to download to download to this site is cumbersome for me. Somehow I cannot download 20 pictures -- for some reason it will only permit all 1300 photos to be sent to laptop!!! Takes forever and frustrating because I know there must be a better way than that!!!! LOL Anyway, I HAVE taken the daily photos so you can see my progression. Hard to know what I will feel when the healing is completed, but as of today I DEFINITELY would not have done the FL, brow lift, blepharoplasty and lip augmentations. I WOULD do the chin lift and neck lipo, although the neck is still problematic with ONE strand of taut muscle in the center that is painful and still sticks out. The patient care coordinator advised using an ace wrap under my chin and over my head. I have done so, and it DOES lengthen that one strand, but it comes back "too tight" a few hours later. So, that's where I am--not in a happy place but at least not in much pain. My tummy tuck/lipo (now 8.5 weeks post-op) has progressed well -- no pain, and ongoing gradual wt loss. I can definitely wear a bathing suit in public now, so that is really great! Too bad I can't go out wearing my face!!!!) As always, thanks for your prayers and your wonderful support!!! Maggie
Still Day 10 With New POV Thanks to my RealSelf friends! God Bless You!
I read all your wonderful caring posts, and then re-read MORE caring and helpful posts following my whining early today. Now I feel hopeful again and seem to see my face more clearly. Attitude is everything and I let myself down this morning and regret posting so much unhappiness. I hope folks see that I have improved and not listen to whining from an older lady being impatient! (me!) I'm going to try to post some photos of the past 10 days. Seeing them myself has certainly impacted my self image, for the better! I have 3 or 4 from each day but somehow I am only able to email them to my laptop and THEN open each one and place in a file, THEN download them here. I think this gives you an idea for the past 10 days. Lots of progress I couldn't seem to see this morning. (I needed makeup, for one thing.) Thought you'd howl at the one in the safari hat I had to wear on a brilliantly sunny day en route to MD. God help us. I'm glad THAT stage is over at least.
Still Day 10, sorry.
Here are the two worst pictures again. ALL the photos were correctly aligned but were rotated. I used the "edit" and it blacked out the first photo completely. So I am not going to try to correct the others...seriously unable to spend more than four hours on RealSelf, even though you all saved me today! Anyway, these two were taken in recovery --- surgery day or early next morning.
Because I had a TT/Lipo July 2 & tons of facial surgery Aug 21, I am simply thrilled with my new shapely body, and was able to cash in on the 75% off sales at SteinMart the past couple of days, buying inexpensive (but they fit right!!!) clothing for my new job later this month. My surgery is generally not (apparently) noticed now that I can wear makeup, so I am going out when needed. Now trying to empty closet of my sz 14s for my new sz 10s. Happy and fun. I'll keep in touch, hoping you all are as fortunate as I am.
Life altering -- among the best things I ever did for myself. The happiness from having face & belly changed is immeasurable.
Exactly MY reasoning! My eldest dgtr really gets it, now. She saw me in a dress for the first time in many years, with a tiny waist (which I had until 4 babies later!)...my facelift + chin, eyes, brows is only 19 days post but already looks sooo nice....one look at me and she said "You SO did the right thing." I cooked dinner for a large group (have not enjoyed cooking for years) and my happiness bubbled over into pleasure even cooking!! I feel like my life is beginning all over and my husband is so thrilled for me...not because of my appearance (he is one of those dears who loves me for all good reasons) but because he can see I am happy IN MYSELF again. I cannot recommend dealing with mild deficits and genetic fat placement enough. Everyone knows to correct serious birth defects. But the recessed chin, overbite and low brows...that's just YOU. Well, no. These are from my dad's genetic background (he gave me a TON of wonderful genes, too.) He suffered with a "weak chin" probably more than I did. The saddlebag thighs, flanks, and bulging abdomen are from my mom's side: she suffered anguish for life -- at 115 lbs she still "looked fat". I weigh 150 lbs now and am only 5'1". I look fit and curvaceous. Because the deficits have been corrected. I am going to quote Writerwish: "All women should look on the outside what they feel like on the inside." You are so VERY right, Writerwish. It has changed my life at almost 65 yrs. If I only live five more years with this new body and face, it will have been worth it to have brought back my self-confidence, self-esteem, and changed my life. So many thanks to Dr Huntly at Coastal Empire PS in Savannah. He is an artist and his team could not be improved upon!!!!