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You Don't Live in a House 40 Years and Never Redecorate...Joyce Meyers ;) - San Francisco, CA

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So I'm scheduled for surgery in the morning!!...

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So I'm scheduled for surgery in the morning!! November 5! It happened pretty fast. I've been looking at this site for two years and I started having consultations this year just to see what they would say. I found one doctor that I liked without any real decision in mind. But after communicating with the staff for a couple of months, they offered me a discount to take a late cancellation they had. So it happened very fast. Now it's literally tomorrow. And I'm really nervous. Not so much about the doctor but more about what if I should leave leave well enough alone.

About me: 37 years old. I don't hate my nose, but I think there are some improvements that would enhance my looks. The doc will reduce my hump a little (since I want to retain my Italian looks), elevate the tip subtlety and narrow the tip a little. I think it's a finesse job, but it doesn't cost any less!!

All my friends and family are really supportive. I'm most worried about people talking about me at work. You know, those who may think i did this because i am insecure. I am a confident person. And I am reminding myself that I deserve to do something nice for myself.

On the eve of my surgery, I am wondering how others "felt" emotionally after the surgery and once people started seeing you, reacting to the change or not noticing. I'll add some pics soon.

Thanks!!

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My doc has made himself available the few times I've called since the surgery. And his staff is the best!! They really went above and beyond as I had to bring a cashier's check after the office closed the Friday before my surgery. They waited an hour and a half after close for me as I was running to the bank and picking up my kids from school. I really appreciated that. I also am very particular and I feel that this doc has a great deal of expertise. I felt very confident throughout the process thus far.

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November 6, 2012
What I think is that everyone at your workplace (and all workplaces) would love to change something about their bodies, so I don't think they'll be critical. Based on so many people's experiences, it seems likely that they won't even notice. I liked your Joyce Meyers quote, btw. I also read recently that Phyllis Diller asked, "What would you rather see... an ugly woman get out of a beautiful car? Or a beautiful woman get out of an old car?" So there you go! Just relax, and good luck! Share your experience and pics, as soon as you're able.
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November 14, 2012
Thanks for the advice. I like to keep re-reading what you wrote :) I wasn't planning to go in to work until after thanksgiving. I've been working from home...but now I just want to get it over with!
November 6, 2012
oh my gosh, what a title! I share the same sentiment and looking forward to some "spring cleaning" if you will lol!!!! I'm so excited for you, please update us and I wish you all the best as you heal from your surgery :)
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November 14, 2012
Thanks! I wrote an update, but I feel great. Still needing reassurance from loved ones though! LOL
November 7, 2012
How'd it go???
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2 days post

I had surgery Monday, and it's now Wednesday....

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I had surgery Monday, and it's now Wednesday. Monday I was feeling pretty good - not much pain or swelling. The swelling and bruising got worse yesterday, but is already going down a bit using ice and Arnica. Pain is totally tolerable. I have no problems getting up and around, but I'm taking Norcos regularly and sleeping a lot. I can breathe through my nose, but it's a little constricted due to the swelling. Everything seems to be great - much better than I expected to feel.

Like some other people fresh out of surgery, I feel like my tip is turned up much more than I want it. But I called the doctor and he said that it will come back down a few millimeters. The tip of my nose is also taped, so I think that is kind of adding to the elevation of it. At times, I have started to feel guilty for messing with my looks or get worried that I've made a mistake. Then I looked back at my computer imaging and I know this doctor is good, so that helps me to relax knowing it will surely be an improvement. I'm sure he was very precise given his level of expertise. I've also been saying positive affirmations about the outcome. I get the cast off next Monday (Nov. 12), so I'm trying to avoid looking in the mirror until then since I've heard it will change so much between now and the point of full healing.

My husband has been great in taking care of me (getting me water and meds, etc.). He even brought a huge bouquet of flowers when he picked me up from surgery

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November 8, 2012
so glad it's going well! can't wait to see the pics!
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November 14, 2012
I just uploaded some after pics! Let me know what u think.
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8 days post

7 days post op. I'm feeling pretty good for a few...

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7 days post op. I'm feeling pretty good for a few key reasons:
Great support from husband, family and friends
Confidence in my doc's skills regarding final outcome (after swelling goes down)
Nose already looks nice
Bruising already gone

First three days I was out of it. I felt good enough to work from home the rest of the week. Now my tip is still hard and nose is very swollen, but everything else is back to normal.

It's weird because I feel like the same person on the inside but it bothers me that people have to "get use to" my new look. I have to remind myself that the changes are subtle, but when someone says I look different, I kinda get anxiety because its a reality check.

DOES ANYONE KNOW HOW TO MAKE SWELLING GO DOWN FASTER? I feel like I have a potato on my face! LOL

And I'm still worried about going back to work with a big swollen nose.

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November 13, 2012

How sweet of your husband to bring you flowers and take care of you! Thanks for your updates. I'm glad you're on the other side and just have to focus on healing now. How are you feeling this week?

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November 14, 2012
Thanks! This week is good! Energy level is up and I'm going to Vegas next week. His support has made ALL the difference - knowing that he loves me no matter what!
November 14, 2012
Congratulations on having your surgery done. I can understand your anxiety about looking different to others....that will pass. It seems people can't put their finger on it just notice something is different. My op is in January & I'm thinking of changing my hair so that gets the attention for the "change". Ice, taping and continuing to elevate at night are the only things I can think of to help with swelling, oh and lots of water and minimal sodium. All the best!!
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November 15, 2012
Thanks! I'm doing those things now and taking Arnica, so it's just a waiting game I guess.
November 21, 2012
There is nothing you can do about it. I had more swelling than most people even my doctor said I am more swollen and bruised than most. All you can do is just wait it out. I am about 3/4 down with swelling and bruising is almost gone; my surgery was 11/7/12. My one side was more swollen then the other and at first made things look uneven due to the swelling but now things are straight. You just have to wait it out. Good luck and you already look great!