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56 Year Old with 66 Year Old Eyes

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I'm just starting to look into this - have thought...

jdigjudy
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I'm just starting to look into this - have thought my neck was bad but recently realized it's my whole face! Seeing an ocular guy rather than plastic surgeon - am scared of doing things to my eyes that will make them uneven or look weird....
Is it better to do this or to just bite the bullet and go full face -- I think I'm too afraid for that yet. And it seems like the down time for this is less.

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November 10, 2016

Okay, I'll start by saying that you don't look like you're 56, let alone 66! I can understand why you want to address your eyelids, but I bet you'll feel so much better about yourself with just the eyelid surgery. Glad you're not rushing into surgery and doing thorough research. Looking forward to your updates and following your journey!

November 15, 2016
Thanks! So, I talked to a RS-recommended PS, who was marvelous (I'm going to do it! with him at the knife - gulp!). I also talked to an ophthalmologist (also RS-recommended and obviously very talented). The PS seemed to say he could do some skin tightening on the lower lids (really - not the lids but the troughs I have below my eyes). The ophthalmologist is much more conservative and would only do uppers. The O showed me the botched surgeries from other doctors that he's corrected (so, in my head I thought "well, if mine turns out bad, I'll be back"!)...
The reason I'm not going with the O is that he is in an eye center that handles lots of patients and the coordinator never called me back, and when I called she didn't really have things organized at all - I'm afraid I'd fall through the cracks after the surgery is done and they have their money. The PS staff, on the other hand, are in their own suite and are much more involved (or so it seemed) with the patients and the recovery process. The price quoted for both doctors was just under $5k. The surgery times - the O doctor - 30 minutes, the PS - 60 minutes. Both quoted for NOT full anesthesia. I'm not a fan of getting put under (ha - I'll hold off until I do my neck/face!)... so this is a huge plus for me. I'll update after I talk to the coordinator tomorrow.... I'm going to get it done, I think, on Dec 7th. They said recoveries vary, but 1-2 weeks, back at work.. so I figure by Christmas I won't be completely hideous any more...
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November 16, 2016

So your response was so informative that I put it into a "review update" for you. Then you can add another update after you talk with your coordinator or anytime you have news! ;)



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November 15, 2016
I don't think your eyes look 66! Naw. Many of us do stuff in baby steps. I had my eyes done 15 years ago, it was one of the best things I ever did for myself. It's an easy surgery. I say go for it!
November 15, 2016
My mother had her eyelids done in her late 50's. She is now 87 and they still look good. How about you?
November 16, 2016
Oh that is totally encouraging!!! I hope when I get them done that it's a one time deal!!
November 16, 2016
Yay! It looks like I will do it DEC 7...gulp!!
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November 16, 2016
Oh no no.. it's totally not your whole face! You actually look amazing, you have lovely plump cheek bones great facial structure. In my opinion removing the excess skin will drop 10 years off of you! Im in the exact same situation! The rest of my face is good in my opinion but my eyes are really suffering with alot of excess skin at just 41 years old :-( .... i had a consultation done 2 years ago and haven,t had the nerve to go through with surgery. Been botoxing and helps alot! Tomorrow is my 2nd visit at the oculoplastic surgeon who is very well known here in Milan and hoping to book surgery for Jan /Feb! It's TIME!!!! It's normal to be scared especially after reading some unfortunate stories here.... I've been doing my research for 2 years now and feel very informed on all the positive and negative effects, i've taken time in choosing a surgeon and feeling positive about it all. :-) cheers to you and good luck!
November 16, 2016
Oh thank you! You'll have to let me know how it goes -- the oculo guy I saw showed me some SUPER scary pictures (like, "I had to sew her eyes SHUT FOR A WEEK" to fix...).. so - yes, I know!!! It is scary. The guy I'm going to is well recommended, too. I scheduled for Dec 7th. gulp...
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November 18, 2016
oh.... eyes shut for a week! oh my goodness, I haven't heard this one before! Goodgrief, big major GULP! I'm scheduling for end of January /17... Most happy for you, please keep us posted Are you going to take Arnica pills for bruising and fAster healing?
November 22, 2016
Good Luck!!, I am 45 and had a lower blep three weeks ago, one of my eyes had a large fat pad that really bothered me. I developed mild Chemosis one week post op which isn't that much of a problem, and only seems to flair up when I go out and the cold wind gets into my eyes. I still cannot believe that I have actually had this procedure done and I can say that up to now I am really pleased with my results.
January 26, 2017
Beautiful!! This surgeon is one of the best I have ever seen. You are soo lucky.
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20 days pre

November 15th update

jdigjudy

So, I talked to a RS-recommended PS, who was marvelous (I'm going to do it! with him at the knife - gulp!). I also talked to an ophthalmologist (also RS-recommended and obviously very talented). The PS seemed to say he could do some skin tightening on the lower lids (really - not the lids but the troughs I have below my eyes). The ophthalmologist is much more conservative and would only do uppers. The O showed me the botched surgeries from other doctors that he's corrected (so, in my head I thought "well, if mine turns out bad, I'll be back"!)...

The reason I'm not going with the O is that he is in an eye center that handles lots of patients and the coordinator never called me back, and when I called she didn't really have things organized at all - I'm afraid I'd fall through the cracks after the surgery is done and they have their money. The PS staff, on the other hand, are in their own suite and are much more involved (or so it seemed) with the patients and the recovery process. The price quoted for both doctors was just under $5k. The surgery times - the O doctor - 30 minutes, the PS - 60 minutes. Both quoted for NOT full anesthesia. I'm not a fan of getting put under (ha - I'll hold off until I do my neck/face!)... so this is a huge plus for me. I'll update after I talk to the coordinator tomorrow.... I'm going to get it done, I think, on Dec 7th. They said recoveries vary, but 1-2 weeks, back at work.. so I figure by Christmas I won't be completely hideous any more...

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November 16, 2016

I like all of your logic and reasoning including the part about the anesthesia and your recovery time. I see most people go without the anesthesia so you should be fine. Let us know what you find out with your coordinator and our definite surgery date. Just in case you haven't seen this link, here is a list of many helpful Eyelid Forums. I'm excited for you!

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20 days pre

Date is on the calendar - December 7th

jdigjudy
Ok, so I'm going to jump in. I'm really nervous/scared because I know what "could" happen - you see all the perfect pictures and then the disaster pictures... but, looking in the mirror, and feeling like you look older than the people 10 years older than you.... it's time to take action.
I'll keep you posted...

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November 17, 2016
Congrats! You will find the doctor and his staff just as involved in your care as your impression was. If not more so. The nurses are great also, and Dr will take care of you personally (taking out stitches etc) and makes himself very available. Care is all very personal, professional, top notch. I'm anxious to see how it goes under local anesthesia! Mine was under general due to the other procedures I had done. Will private message some other info.
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November 18, 2016
So happy for you!
November 19, 2016
Go for it! I can't wait to do my eyes. Definitely do upper and lower, I think you will see a big difference and you will be pleased. I have similar eye situation to you, and I am 44 years old, and what bothers me is mainly my lower area. I need to wait with my surgery couple years, but will do it one day. Good luck! And post how it went, please.
November 19, 2016
Congrats on your decision! How exciting. You will be so happy you did it.v I had upper/lower bleph with an endoscopic brow life almost 2 years ago and I'm so glad 1) that I did it and 2) that it's behind me! Grateful every time I look in a mirror.
November 20, 2016
I am considering the same procedure. Sounds to me as if you have really looked at your options carefully and have made a good choice. I learned from what you wrote that I have been quoted a somewhat higher fee for the procedure and have decided to do some more interviewing. Can't hurt and I want to go into this with as much confidence as possible because our thoughts love to remind us of the "disaster pictures" instead of allowing us to celebrate how much better we will feel looking in the mirror afterwards and being happy with the results (weird, huh)? Looking forward to following your posts and your process!
November 21, 2016
You'll have to let me know how your search goes, too! And when your big day is!