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Anxiously Waiting! - Saint John, NB

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I was approved for surgery 4 weeks ago and told it...

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I was approved for surgery 4 weeks ago and told it would likely be 8-12 weeks before I got the call for surgery. Now I wait, anxiously obsessing and stressing out. Am I doing the right thing? Will I be happy? How will recovery go with a three year old at home? I am 5'2" and 124 lbs, small framed and 34DD. I have gotten mixed reactions from friends when mentioning what I am going to do. Some are so surprised and just say I am perfect and lucky to have decent sized boobs. I know they aren't HUGE in comparison to some others. But they are heavy and cause neck and shoulder pain and I've wanted this for years. Why do I let other people's opinions make me doubt my own. Ugh, just need a call for surgery so I can get this process started and stop stressing about it. Going to be reduced by half. Not aiming for a certain cup size. Will be an anchor incision with no lipo needed and internal dissolvable stitches. Nervous!

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October 13, 2016
You're the one who has to carry them around...not their call. You're doing what's right for you
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October 14, 2016
Very true, thank you
October 13, 2016
It's your body, if you are able to get approval from your insurance it must be medically necessary. I have been dealing with the same problems since about 14 years old. Good luck with everything!!!
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October 14, 2016
Thank you
October 14, 2016
I was very nervous to, but I did it 3 days ago. My breast seem so much smaller and they problay will fill out more as they Heal...I did it for me, not for what everyone else thinks, They didn't understand the back aches, the wearing 2 bras, the numb hands, the disgust I felt when ever I walked past a window. I didn't tell a lot of people because people get judgy and it made it less stressful for me. I still have pain, but today was better than yesterday. I have an anchor incision. So far so good.
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October 14, 2016
Thank you for your reply and I hope you heal quickly!!
October 14, 2016
I am and can notice a big difference from yesterday, very excited.
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October 22, 2016
Wondering how you're doing?!
October 22, 2016
Well it's been good my right breast is healing but my left breast is sore and swollen I see my ps on Monday...I went to emergency last night the dr said it problay just fluid because I don't have a fever so I'm just waiting to see what's going on Monday.....kinda bummed about it . But it will work out in the end.
November 7, 2016
I am 8 weeks post op and it was probably one of the best decisions I have ever made. I almost cancelled a week prior to surgery because I was so nervous. I only told a few close people as I didn't want their judgement to change my decision. Don't worry you will be just fine!! No regrets whatsoever here..I went from saggy DDD boobs to perky ones that look like I'm in my 20s.
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November 7, 2016
Thank you!! 3 more sleeps ! I'm nervous and excited!
December 3, 2016
Your before breast were so perfectly natural :-/
December 3, 2016
What a pointless comment.
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December 3, 2016
thank you! I agree
UPDATED FROM KBPS

Nov10th

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Surgery is booked for Nov 10th!!!
I am so excited and yet so nervous about the surgery and about being put to sleep :(

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October 22, 2016
Hey I'm from NS :) I just had my initial consultation and am waiting to hear about msi coverage. Nice to see someone else close to home. You'll do great!
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October 22, 2016
Congrats on taking the first step!! :) Have you been given an approx wait time?
October 23, 2016
Good luck! Mine is Monday....excited but nervous about the anesthesia too. I'll let you know how it goes
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October 23, 2016
Good luck!! I'll be thinking of you!
October 23, 2016
Thanks...getting nervous
October 23, 2016
Don't worry. You're fit and healthy and general anaesthegia is so advanced and precise these days. My BR/lift is in 5 weeks and I don't let myself worry about the anaesthetic. Be positive
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October 23, 2016
Good luck to you too !!
October 28, 2016
You will be so pleased with the results. I am 5'1 and 127lbs. I had a breast reduction and lift this past January. From the moment I woke up post surgery to now I have been nothing but happy with the results. I am very active and in the gym 5/6 days a week so I think that helped with my bounce back. I'm a small C now going from a 34DD. They perfectly fit my frame and I am not proportioned. You should most definitely be pleased with the results. It is a long process when healing since you'll be looking and checking daily. But I was never in pain or uncomfortable. My doctor advised I take arnicare tablets weeks before my surgery and right up until then rub my breast with arnicare cream. I didn't bruise or swell much due to the help of those. Additionally, I never took the prescribed pain meds. Tylenol Extra strength did the job. Good luck!!
October 28, 2016
Im so happy for you!! Wish u the best
UPDATED FROM KBPS

Words of wisdom needed

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I am 14 days away from surgery and getting so scared. I have wanted this for a long time. My fear now is "how am I going to feel naked?" " what will I see in the mirror"---- I have looked this way for so long. How do you prepare for the adjustment and to see scars?? I am yet to post any photos as I have been nervous to. I want honest opinions... so here goes nothing....

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October 28, 2016
I am 4 weeks post surgery and have a 3 and a 5 year old at home. I was not so much nervous as excited since I've had a few surgeries and have never had trouble with anesthesia or recovering. what I can tell you is that I have not found it to be awful...there is pain but not terrible. if you nursed, I would say it is in the range of engorgement/let down and then sometimes feels like a sunburn. I have hardly taken any meds (rx or otc). sometimes I think it would be easier to take it easy if it was more uncomfortable. I had a bigger reduction than you will likely have (almost 5 lb removed in total)...even with the scars I feel so much better about my size and shape and am so glad I spent time on this site looking at post op pictures....the scars did not surprise me. it's not messy either. my surgeon explained that there is not a lot of blood because they do a lot of cauterizing as they go. by the time I saw the actual incisions at 10 days when I had steri-strips removed, it was not that gross or raw. there were no external stitches and the glue (which can look a little scabby) is almost all worked off now at 4 weeks. my 3 year old boy mostly missed lots of snuggles but was super good about climbing onto my lap and snuggling against a blanket or pillow since I still am not allowed to pick him up and my kindergarten daughter just wants to help and kiss to make it feel better so I have been super lucky and didn't need extra help other than daddy doing bath time...I still dry and dress them. bottom line if you feel uncomfortable with your size...just try to think past the short term adjustment. lots of ladies on this site have had emotional rides...other than just wanting to get back to the gym and lying on my side, I haven't looked back once and am so happy I made this decision after wanting it for 20+ years. good luck and congratulations!
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October 30, 2016
Thank you very much for your reply! :)
October 30, 2016
So I am about one year after my revision (I still felt too large after my original surgery) and I look soooo much better naked. The scars faded really lightly and the only ones that are technically visible anyways are the ones around the areolas and you can't even see those unless you're about a half a foot away or so. My shape is great and they no longer droop. I'm serious, I love how I look now and I hated how I looked before. My frame is actually very similar to yours and my preop size was also - I'm down to a C and it fits my body so much better. It is a joy to go shopping now and to be honest, pretty much everything looks so good on me now whereas before, I found it so hard to find flattering clothing that fit properly. Because I am a smallish person, the clothing that fits the rest of my body is not intended to fit a large chest, so I used to have to buy things bigger and then get it tailored down - expensive and a hassle. I will say this though about the scars - my scars after the revision looked a lot better than they did after the original surgery. Part of that was because I knew by then what worked for me, but part of t also was because I didn't understand with my original surgery how important it was to have strong support for my breasts for the 6 months or so after the surgery. The more support you wear, the less stress will be on your scars and they won't widen nearly as much. Also with my original surgery, I did have some small openings that wouldn't close - by the time I figured out it was because there were some dissolvable stitches that needed to be pulled (my Dr was absolutely no help with recognizing or fixing this), the delayed closing did make a small difference in how my scars from the original surgery looked a year out compared to my scars a year out from the revision. But not to scare you or anything because it's not like the scars after three original surgery were bad - it just happens that the ones from the revision were better because I knew how to deal with the dissolvable stitches right away the second time around.
October 30, 2016
Oh and my best recommendations for things to have on hand for your surgery:

1. A neck pillow - like the type people buy for airplanes

2. An ice bag or two - much more comfortable than ice packs or frozen peas and also effective even once the ice melts

3. SUPPORTIVE bras - the bra your surgeon gives you or tells you to buy might not have much support. I found that the more support I had, the less swelling and aching I had. I absolutely loved the carefix Mary bra. I bought and used many bras between the two surgeries and this was my favorite. I bought it on amazon which was great because the sizing on surgical bras can be really weird so this way I had free shipping both ways.
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October 30, 2016
Thank you so so so much !! I will take your advice and find a supportive bra and allow myself the time to heal :) I feel very encouraged after your post, especially with you saying you were similar in size to me! Thank you !!
October 30, 2016
Absolutely! A word of advice: a lot of surgeons don't seem to have a ton of experience with smaller women/women who weren't that big on top to begin with (compared to their other patients). So make sure that your surgeon completely understands what your target size is and what it looks like - and how upset you'll be if they leave you too large.

I had thought my surgeon would get it esp because she's a woman and told me no problem regarding my target size. ( I actually wanted a B but am stil happy with my current C). After my initial surgery, she was shocked I was still a D. She was so sure she had made me a B.

It all worked out in the end okay but it would have been a lot easier (and cheaper) if she had fully realized how small I wanted to be to begin with. All her sample pictures were larger women and I think she just wasn't aware that the results of the same size breasts on a smaller woman would still be quite large.
November 2, 2016
Like you, I'm 5'2 and 130 lbs. I wear a size 30i. Try to appreciate what others are saying, but don't let them talk you down. This is something you've considered for years, and is obviously medically necessary if you've gotten approval. I have not had my reduction yet, but I can imagine the pain relief and reduction / lift will greatly outweigh any scarring. I am looking forward to buying button up tops and swim suits that don't kill my neck/shoulders! Good luck to you!