You WILL Regret It - Saint George, UT
Posted a few more pics, the worst of the damage.
So, ive always been the ugly guy.years of nasty...
So, ive always been the ugly guy.years of nasty comments, ive got severe acne scars throughout my face and have always heard how ugly i am, etc, etc.
so im 38 years old and have never had any sort of a relationship, hell ive never even asked a girl out.so i feel these scars are the reason so i check into resurfacing. my instincts told me to back out the first time, but i was talked into it, went ok, though. ive tanned for years, and i can see the differencein skin tone from my face, he stopped at my chin line, to my neck and lower, so im very worried about this, well needless to say, i go back for a second time, and tell him my worries about looking ridiculous with a white face(im very pale naturally) and my neck and chest coming up. so he says they can "feather" it in.
well by "feathering i guess he meant he just wouldnt do the lower half of my face(paid for a full face treatment).the whole event was not very friendly, rushed even. so he takes maybe 3 swipes, im not even red a week later( did i mention i never peeled, only maybe 5 or 6 "sanding dots" the first time) well looking in the mirror i notice this obvious skin difference , on my lower face.
so needless to say ive taken cell phone pics, i go in today to point this out, of course noone can see anything, its "shadows" "no way i could have missed that". he did offer to take a few more swipes on the area that is bothering me when i come back in 6 weeks if it is still bothering me. well i think he is obligated to fix this mess. I am that miserable.
my pictures were totally dismissed, i had only $1600 saved up for a total of 4 treatments , and i do not have the money to keep correcting this, i make basically $9.67 an hour. so basically i will have given up all my money and 2 years of my life for nothing, and my skin will never match again.
DO NOT DO THIS. i work at a gas station and i am so miserable dealing with the public i can not stand it. i feel like every persons eyes zoom right to these spots. i am less confident then i have ever been .
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Hi looty,
Welcome to the Fraxel community. I'm glad to see your review. I saw you mention that you were going to post in a comment so I'm glad to see it. On the other hand I'm sorry you are having to deal with this. Is there any way to have this fixed by another doctor? I'm sure it was hard to post the pictures, but thank you so much for them they will help the community. Please keep us updated.
Thanks so much for the review,
-Britt

BTW: I can't believe you think you are ugly!!!! What are you talking about???!!!! No offense to Realself.com but get off of here and get on Match.com!!!!

Dude your skin looks fine. don't pay attention to it and dont let it discourage you. There are so many things worse than having scars on your face. Guys and scars means that you are a real man. It makes you look tough. The other thing is, most girls do not look at external features like men look at girls. If you have a nice heart, thats all matters. When people see that you have a nice heart, they will come to you wondering what makes you so nice.
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I hv read ur post, ppls comments & ur situation w fraxel. I would like to say first how much I admire ur bravery by telling us about what ur going thru. We are definitely our own worst critic. I hate that u feel so bad about urself, but I would be a liar if I said I don't get down on myself as well. I don't hv acne but hv been considering fraxel or some type of laser for some sun damage & lines under my eyes. I honestly don't know what to do. Some ppl had wonderful results & then there are many others just like u who didn't get what they were hoping for or it even caused more damage. I'm so sorry for that! It's not cheap & spending this kind of money makes it even MORE difficult & devastating!!!!!
Do u hv photos of urself of the side of ur face they say they "lost" u can use? I'm not sure how this all works but it seems there can be some other option. Also, I completely understand why u are more than apprehensive about gttn any more treatments by this dr. It might not be ur skin that's the problem, but the dr and/or the treatment ur hvn done is not the right treatment for ur particular skin. I know it's all so confusing & u don't know who to trust or believe. Every dr tells u smthn different. My opinion (not that u asked) is maybe u should stay away from any further treatments from this person & get advise from other drs (if u already hvn't). Try not to get so down on urself & know ur NOT alone!!!!!
Plssssss keep us updated & let us know how ur doing & if there has been any progress w ur attorney & ur case. I am a flight attendant & I know first hand just how mean, rude & hateful ppl can be. I also know these are usually missable ppl themselves & hv their own insecurities so putting others down somehow makes them feel better about themselves. Trust me, they are unhappy in their own skin. Think about it...if u were truly happy & at peace w yourself why would u ever put someone else down? U wouldn't even think that way.
Anyway, sorry for the long post. I just wanted u to know ur NOT ugly & good things are to come for u. Try to stay positive (easier said than done, I know). Hope to hear from u soon. :)))))
appealing to most women. Good luck !!