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Kapilani: The oranges are on their way out!

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I guess what I'm having is technically a "mommy...

Starbelliedsneetch
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I guess what I'm having is technically a "mommy makeover" that's LONG OVERDUE because I'm 46 now with two teen-aged sons. I have never been "under the knife" before, except for two C-sections, and I was completely awake for those. I am scared to death, but super excited to finally do something as a gift to myself. I have to convert my pictures from Bitmap to jpeg, so once I figure out how, I will post. Have any of you had this procedure? And do you know how many drains to expect? I am making cloth drawstring covers for my drains and bulbs. I need to do this because my teen sons' friends sometimes drop by unannounced, and I'm a private person. I just can't have 14 and 15 year old boys seeing my fluids.

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May 29, 2012

Smart to make the covers now! I know this is a big deal and can be scary, but your emotions are completely normal. You might want to check out JenBob's article about her own mommy makeover. Please let us know how it goes. Have you chosen your surgeon?

May 29, 2012

Hi Angie,
Thanks for the warm welcome. I will checkout JenBob's article now.

May 29, 2012
We have our surgeries on the same day. Have you had your pre-op yet?
May 30, 2012
Hi Ja1975. I have my pre-op on June 4th at 3:30. Have you had yours? They took pics of me during the consultation back in November, though. Good Luck to you! Do they do both procedures in one operation for you?
June 4, 2012
Hi Kapilani, Ii had my pre-op on Friday. I will have my tummy tuck and augmentation done together. They said 3 to 3.5 hours. My P.S will take pictures on the day of the surgery. Good luck and keep me posted.
June 14, 2012
I am going to be out 5 to 6 hours. I think because this belly of mine needs a lot of work.
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May 30, 2012
hi Kapilani, I am 7 days post op. I too have a lot of teens around. As for my drains, I can clip them discretely to my binder under my clothes. For me though, I just thead the tubes through the snaps on my house dress robe thing and put them in my pockets. Yeah, you can see the tubes but it reminds my teens to be kind to me..lol!
I also had never been under the knife before and only had one epidural with my last baby. I did fine though. I went under very easily and woke up very awake and aware.
oh, and on your question about how many drains, I think the PS pretty much makes a personal choice. Some women have one, but I have two. One drain for my upper abs and one for my lower abs. My drain tubes come out at my hips at the end of my incision.
Welcome to the site and don't hesitate to ask any questions, the women here are fantastically helpful!
June 14, 2012
I went to Walmart and bought a house dress with buttons! They had zippers too, but I knew from your post that the buttons were the way to go.
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June 14, 2012
Kool Beans! I think you will find them so much more handy than the zipper ones! I had bought both and it was a waste to have the zip ones. But me being the totally frugal person I am, bought most of mine from the thrift store...so, I will just donate them back!
June 24, 2012
I have 3 drains and am so hoping they come out on Monday because they are all situated down my lower front right around the pleasure button which is very sensitive.
June 24, 2012
Good luck with the drains Monday! I'm sure even losing one or two of them would help!
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June 24, 2012
I can imagine! When I finally did get my drains out, i finally felt like I could really start to heal. Your tummy looks nice and flat! I hope your bruises heal soon!
UPDATED FROM Starbelliedsneetch
17 days pre

I am in the process of ordering my compression...

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I am in the process of ordering my compression garments. I find that am between a medium and a large. My stomach puts me in the large category, but this is the part of me that will be "tucked." My hips are medium. Since these are "pre-op" measurements, I'm tempted to go with the medium. But it would be awful the day of the operation to find that the garment cannot be put on! So now I'm thinking of getting one large and one medium and fitting into the medium as the swelling goes down, but normally this should be the reasoning with the sizing for the "Stage 2" garments, which I am ordering in medium. Did anyone else run into this problem?

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UPDATED FROM Starbelliedsneetch
17 days pre

Look at my droopy breasts. I said size D, but I...

Starbelliedsneetch
Look at my droopy breasts. I said size D, but I don't even know if they're size D. My PS's nurse keeps referring to my MM as a tummy tuck and a lift. Then I always interrupt her and say, "Reduction, Tummy Tuck and Breast Reduction." And she'll say, "Well, yes, essentially the same thing." But if you take these hooters, only lift what I've got, and not make them any smaller, propped up, they're liable to put out the car windshield. On my on-line question to the doctor team, one of them told me to go look at size B bras before I feel lucky that my PS didn't see any problem with bringing me down to a B. He told me to make sure I know what I'm getting into. I am so confused. No offense to anyone, but I was brought up with the mentality of "thinner is always better." And of course I was gifted with this stocky, boxy, frame with a set of ample breasts. Up until age 16 or so, I liked my breasts. I was a 34B, and they wouldn't hold a pencil. Then when I was 18 one day on the swim team, these two 10-to-12 year old brat boys walked past me and snorted, "Wow! She's got BIG ONES!!!" I should have flung their little toe-headed souls into the deep end. With my luck, they would have just zipped across the pool and hoisted themselves out and their coddling parents would have had me disqualified from the swim meet. Which wouldn't have hurt the team because my swim times were always mediocre at best. Now when I wash in the shower I have to lift them up, but not like I have to take a big breath and heave or anything. So I KNOW they're not as large as many who have a reduction (where it's clearly warranted). But I'm noticing those are the ladies for whom insurance pays. This is on my own, so understandably I'm close to an acceptable size, but if I am to continue being as active as I need to be in order to keep these 40 pounds off (exactly one year ago, I was 197.5), I need to be able to do Zumba and run like the wind, without having to wear 3 tight bras. That gets REALLY old. My PS seems to understand completely. I should just relax and trust in him.

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June 1, 2012
hey Kap, my doctor told me to just use the gold bar Dial soap. As for the garment, can you order both and send one back? I'm surprised your doctor doesn't provide your compression garment.
June 1, 2012
He provides one for the breasts and I got a flier from the nurse to order one online for the tummy. They probably do have a return policy, though. Gosh, I'm going to hate ordering a large size anything at this stage in the game!
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June 1, 2012
Kap...just wanted to say "Hi". My MM is on 6/6. It's insane how much I can't stop thinking and talking about it. I know my hubby wants to tell me "shut-up already" lol...

Just wanted to introduce myself and can't wait to follow you and your journey here. :)
June 1, 2012
Hi Mamasaus, Looking at your before pics makes me feel so down-right chubby! I can't seem to make this weight budge. This morning I was 157, and back in November 159. Wow, two pounds in 6 months. And I've been so disciplined with my eating, too, ran another 10K day before yesterday, and yesterday spent two hours at the gym. It's depressing! And then having to order a "large" compression garment. This really blows! Oh, I posted a suggestion about saltines on your profile, and added vitamin C to my list. What's the vitamin C for?