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A frightening experience to hear the words "breast...
Ironically, October is my surgery and breast cancer awareness month. While I have been very aware for years, have donated, participated in the Race for The Cure five times, it is different to be the patient rather than the support person. It is upsetting, scary, and I wish it weren't happening, not just to me but to anyone. I alternate between being the warrior and being an emotional mess who just can't stop the tears. I am not vain about my breasts, I just don't want to go through this process and I don't want to look at myself every day for the rest of my life and see that part of me is replaced, with scars, by something not real. I get the whole survive/thrive, "we are talking about your life", "scars are a sign of survival", etc. but I really just don't want to do this. I am very familiar with chronic pain, so it's not the pain, it's not the vain, it's just the plain......I don't want TO DO THIS. And yet I will, because I have to.
Provider Review
Dr. Nicole Walker is the breast surgeon whose knowledge and ability to be informative and direct make me feel more comfortable with my decisions. We have already progressed from a small lumpectomy, due to multiple sites, to mastectomy. That was very hard to absorb yet she was patient, explanatory and supportive. My choice to have a bilateral mastectomy, due to atypical cells being found in the other breast was also supported. My nurse navigator, Allison, and Dr. Walker team very well and each is informed of conversations, concerns, questions and trepidations. I had several days of just wanting to do nothing about any of it and let nature take its course. There was no pressure, no judgement, just listening and explaining and allowing me time to absorb information. I, of course, came back around and realized that doing nothing was not a viable option. While every effort would be made to save one breast, there would need to be two lumpectomies in that breast and reduction, while the other breast would need a mastectomy and reconstruction. Common sense, and certainly never wanting to have to go through this surgical/reconstruction process twice, made the decision to have a bilateral mastectomy not easier, but just a wiser choice. Reconstruction will begin on the day of surgery. The questions I have in my head just keep coming and each doctor and my nurse have shown nothing but genuine concern and patience in answering them. Dr. Meininger has been direct, humerous, compassionate, empathetic and informative. I will be seeing him again this week as many more questions have occurred to me about the aftermath of the surgery and the process of the reconstruction. There are so many decisions to be made and while Dr. Meininger assured me there is no "wrong" decision, I had to base my personal decision on my family history