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The Final Countdown…this Journey Begins - Rockville, MD

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I did my homework, researched the doctors, had my...

Kim D
$10,000
I did my homework, researched the doctors, had my consultations, made my decision to put my dream in action, booked my date and paid for my procedure. That was the easy part. I have 6 more days before my surgery and the emotional roller coaster has begun. Anxious, nervous, excited, reluctant, hopeful.

I am a 49 year old mom of 2 great kids (23 & 19) and married to my best friend for the last 25 years. I really am blessed in many ways. My husband encouraged me to follow my dream and go get this done and stop sitting on the sideline wishing I had. So it is really one of the first big things I have ever done just for me.

I am still unsure if I should share with people that I am having a TT. I opened up to two of my girlfriends a few weeks ago and their reaction caught me by surprise. They were very negative and could not understand why I would want to do this at my age. They thought it was ridiculous, a huge risk and a waste of money. I feel very comfortable with my personal decision, but was wondering if anyone else has experienced something similar. To tell or not to tell…

Meanwhile I am doing my best to prepare and get ready for the big day. I know it will not be an easy recovery, but nothing ventured nothing gained. I know I am worth it and the end results will be wonderful.

More soon…

KimD

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Barry J. Cohen, MD

Barry J. Cohen, MD

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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Replies (4)

August 10, 2013
Hello. Congrats to you. It looks like we are scheduled for the same same. I feel the same way you do about telling people. My mom knows and a few of my husbands inlays. i haven't had really any negative feedback. They all wish they could do it too. There was one person however, thought I didn't need it and thinks I look great. Maybe compared to her since I'm way smaller than she is, thinks I look great. It doesn't matter what other people think. You are doing it because of the way you feel about yourself and ur doing it for improvement. There is nothing wrong with that. Good luck to you!!!!
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August 10, 2013
Best of luck to you. I understand your hesitation on telling people. I made the mistake of telling my sister, and she's been weird about it ever since. I decided not to tell anyone else other than my husband of course. That's why this site is so great. Lots of support, great resource for questions.
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August 10, 2013
Good Luck!!!! You will be fine!!!!
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August 10, 2013
I hit send to quick, I told friends and associates too, some ppl were positive and very few were negative at least to my face. Yours is a personal decision and yours alone. Some of the negativity is really jealousy. Do you and be happy!!!
UPDATED FROM Kim D
1 day pre

Final countdown....

Kim D
Well less than 48 hours from now I will be home and on the other side of this adventure. I have been cooking up a storm so my support team (hubby & son who is home from college) can stay nourished. I also made a big pot of low sodium chicken soup. I have picked up my post-op medicine, finishing up laundry and give the house a quick final cleaning.

Question to those who have gone through the recovery - did any of you do the massage therapy post op? Did it help with recovery at all or expedite getting your drains out? Did you use ice post op to help with swelling at all? Looking through my post op directions it doe not really say anything about this.

Any other suggestions on ways to support getting the drains out sooner rather than later or is it just a matter of letting things run their course?

So excited - feels like I am going to bust!

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UPDATED FROM Kim D
Day of treatment

Today is the big day!!

Kim D
I am so excited and nervous and cannot believe in 2 hours I am heading for the surgery center. I can't wait to be on the other side of this journey and focused on healing, feeling better and achieving the results I have wanted for more than 20 years!!

Hope to check in tomorrow and let you know how I do. Praying that my doctor is the expert I have been hoping for and I am thrilled with the outcomes.

I have been hesitating to post "before pictures" as it is so incredibly embarrassing, but I want to celebrate the results - so here goes nothing. Humility be gone, here is me and all my BEFORE glory.

More soon on the flat side of this journey.

KimD

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August 13, 2013
WOOHOO!!!! If you don't want to tell people, then don't. I chose to keep quiet unless for some reason it came up then I just said the truth and who cares what anyone thinks. no one has said anything negative to me, pretty sure they could tell it would be a bad idea to do so. I'm happy for you and it will for sure be a "sore" road for a few weeks but just look in the mirror (take at least 2 inches off image in mirror) and all will be worth it!!!
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August 15, 2013
Hi ladies I shout it out all day long I'm a poster child for Tt. My tummy is showing 95% of the time I'm out side lol. I don't give a dam about what any one thinks, the only ones mad are the jealous folk that wish they could do it to. So keep smiling ladies and enjoy the new tummies
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August 15, 2013
Lol ^5 girl!!! After the pain and the money spent!!! Do you!!!
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August 15, 2013
Welcome to the flat side. Napping healing
August 16, 2013
Well I survived and I am home recovering, I knew it would be a rough the first few days, but I am mamaging. My doctor says I am not to remove the compression garment or binder until my appointment on Wednesday. So for now just taking it easy and walking laps around the house . Drinking a lot of water and Gatorade. I really have no appetitive, but managing to get a cracker or two down. Trying to alternate time in bed and the couch but for the most art laying low.i may be able to get a quick photo tonight when I changes the pads under the garment. Hope you are all doing well.
August 17, 2013
My extended family thinks I'm crazy for getting a tt, but they are all overweight. So, like Diva said, it's jealousy. My daughters were just afraid of losing me. My mom just didn't know enough about the procedure to understand. So ready to heal and enjoy!!!