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Ok Turning the Big 50 This Year-wanna Have a Fresher Face - Richmond, VA

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Im turning 50 this July. I am no stranger to Real...

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Rosieposie1
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Im turning 50 this July. I am no stranger to Real Self. I did a mommy makeover in 2011. Im using the same surgeon for my brow, neck, facelift and blepharoplasty. Im worried-I don't want joker lips, and I want to stay true to me. Mainly worried about swelling and bruising- we are travelling a few weeks after the procedure.

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January 16, 2016
Good luck! You will still be swollen after a few weeks but it shouldn't be too noticeable to others. You might still be bruised though so get dermablend just in case.
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January 18, 2016
Hi! Thanks for the response. Where can I get dermablend? Maybe Ulta?
January 18, 2016
You can order it on line if you know what shade to get. Macy's sells it and Sephora is supposed to but when I went there (Sephora) they said they didn't sell it. Nordstrom's also sells it.

I never thought to try ulta.
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January 18, 2016
I did go online to the dermablend website picked a cokor I hope works bought the concealer and the foundation. Shipping was free and I found a 15% off promo code! Says will be here in about 5 days so that's perfect! Thanks!
January 18, 2016
you are a beautiufl lady and smart to do this now...I am in your same boat...I did a tummy tuck breast reduction about 2 years ago and now need my face put back where it belongs.. I am 51 ...you know your surgeon ypu are young and healthy ...this willl go great...
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January 19, 2016
Thanks! Still worried obviously! So when are u gonna do it??
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January 19, 2016
I am looking forward to following your journey. I will also be 50 this summer and am looking to get all the same procedures you are having done. I totally get the Joker lips!
January 19, 2016
I will be following your story and recovery. I turned 50 last summer and I am scheduled for my consultation next month and hoping for a March surgery date. I'm excited and worried as well, but after reading so many stories here I' also very optimistic. I wish you well and for a speedy recovery.
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January 19, 2016
Thank u! I have a few butterflies now especially since I wrote the check now!! I'll try to keep posts up and ask me anything!
January 21, 2016
Hi Rosie--I too am having surgery on the 2nd---I'm 48 and was interested in your profile because we are similar in age ...Look forward to seeing how it goes for you and myself:)
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January 21, 2016
Good luck!! We can follow each other. Are u posting pics?? My hubby got super bowl tix so he's gone day three and I'm on my own. Hope that's ok.......
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12 days pre

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I see a lot of women suggesting arnicare for the bruising. Is this the arnicare gel? Also my surgery is Feb 2 and my hubby just got Super Bowl tickets. Obvi I can't go but will I be ok alone after 3 days? And when do stitches come out? Can I drive myself? Thanks!

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January 20, 2016
Buy the tablets. I bought the cream/gel and happened to mention it to the PS right before surgery and he said don't let the cream/gel get anywhere near the incisions. Hubby got it on amazon.

After the stitches were out I did use the gel.

Sounds like you are having the same thing as me. You will need someone with you two days AFTER surgery, if for nothing else, to hand you your medicine. I couldn't read the bottles because I couldn't get my glasses on. From then on, I was fine - tired but fine.

My drains came out the next day and all stitches were out in one week. Some on here have had stitches out in stages, though. Ask your doctor.

Oh, BTW, I spent the night in the hospital (my choice) because I am a wuss. They kept me drugged up that night and when I finally knew what was going on the next day, I had NO pain. I was very swollen and numb.
January 26, 2016
I had all of that done Dec 10th (love my results) I only had someone with me the first night, after that I was fine. Staples come out in two weeks...your hair covers them up. The stitches will dissolve on their own. I actually went to a Christmas Party 11 days after surgery. Bruising will last awhile, however you can cover it with makeup. I was driving a couple of days after surgery. I would be happy to discuss to put your mind at rest.
February 3, 2016
Arnicare is great!
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6 days pre

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Still tossing around in my head if I'm really going to go thru with this! My checks have been cashed -yikes! My hubby has a bad cold trying to avoid as much as possible! He got Super Bowl tickets and now will be leaving me three days after surgery. Worried about that too! Not telling any neighbors or anyone so I hope I have no problems!

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January 26, 2016
I did not tell anyone either. You will be fine. I only had someone with me one night. I drove on Saturday after surgery on Thursday. I went back on Friday to have the bandages removed and came home and took a shower and washed the bloody hair. After surgery I came home took one pain pill....that night took one more and after that only Tylenol. You will be so happy you did this!!
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January 26, 2016
Do u have pics up?? I'd love to see! Just seems some are SO bruised and some have nothing.
January 27, 2016
I have pictures from the day of surgery Dec 10th to now. I live in Houston, TX I would be happy to text you all the pictures from the beginning to give you an idea. Text me at 832 563 3108 and I will send them
January 27, 2016
Mine is schedules in 2 weeks and 2 days and I am melting down. Only 2 people know about my surgery and I am hiding from everyone else. I will be going back to work on day 12 and completely terrified! Please post pics so I know what I am in for. =)
January 27, 2016
Are you having a coronal brow lift....if you are you may want to have a plan B for driving soon after surgery.
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January 27, 2016
No I don't believe so -have never heard that word before...
January 27, 2016
Just wondered b/c that is the only type of brow lift your PS has chosen to use in his gallery on the website.
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January 27, 2016
Hi! Yes it is a coronal brow lift. I plan on staying home for quite a while as in not telling anyone about my surgery. As long as I can get on the plane feb 26 I'm good!
January 27, 2016
My surgeon advises no driving for a week after bleph surgery. Your eyes can be very swollen. Also everyone's surgery and recovery are different , so I would ask your doctor for his guidelines. I think you should have some back up support, just in case. You are having a significant amount of work done so rest is very important.
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January 27, 2016
Thanks for the info. I plan on going nowhere for a while so I'll be a hermit til the trip on the 26th
January 30, 2016
Please show before and after pics. I'm 49 and want to get a facelift too. Lol. I would do the surgery sooner but I have to save. I'm looking at doing it in November 2016.