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Happy Early 40th - 31 days PO - new pics

Name: Happy Early 40th - 31 days PO - new pics
Item: Curtis Wong, MD
Rating: 5
Author: JayLu29

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I'm 39 yrs old, 5'5, weight is between 135-140. I...

JayLu29January 11, 2013

WORTH IT$13,800

I'm 39 yrs old, 5'5, weight is between 135-140. I work out at least 5 times a week (heavy cardio), and I just want to look like I'm not 3 months pregnant. I am a mother of 3 children! Had my first at age 19 and got my body back to pretty much what it used to be (plus about 5 million stretch marks). Got divorced and met my current husband and was married and pregnant very quick! Had my son and before I could loose the 40+ lbs, got pregnant again! That was over 12 yrs ago and my weight has been a roller coaster. I got down to 130 lbs five yrs ago and went for a TT consult and at the time, couldn't justify parting with $$$. I was told "You are beautiful just the way you are!"

I've been a stay at home mom for the past 15yrs and have sacrificed everything for my kids and husband. I just recently went back to the "work field", and it's nice to get out of my house and among people again! My husband of 15yrs also just had an affair on me last summer & we are slowly trying to work things out. But psychologically it has done a number to me. I wish 5 yrs ago I had been more selfish and had the MM done, I could have gotten more years/enjoyment out of it, but I'm hoping I still have some years left in me!

I met with my PS on January 7th, & we decided on the lipoabdominoplasty, Mentor Silicone implants (350cc range) under the muscle, & lipo to the flanks & thighs. He's 3 hrs away and he comes recommended by my Mom, who he has done work on as well. He's also in the same city where my parents live & where I will be recouping for 2-3 weeks. (I know, I know - but there's nothing like your Mom when your are hurting or sick). I'm scared to death to leave my husband in charge of the house and kids (and my 2/3 of my dogs), but I know if I'm home, I won't be able to rest (Slightly OCD). So, Chase (my German Shepherd) and I will have a nice 2-3 week mommy makeover adventure!

I am so thankful I stumbled onto this site! Being able to read the posts of others has helped me prepare! It's amazing to see everyone's transformations, and I cannot wait!

I've waited to post my story and pics until everything was official and set in stone, and today I booked my MM for 2/15/13 - Let the countdown begin!!!!

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Curtis Wong, MD

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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Replies (6)

Angie_M

January 11, 2013

Thank you so much for starting your story on RealSelf. I'm sorry you've been through so much with your husband. I'm hoping he is supportive of you doing this (and completely faithful from now on).

You deserve this for yourself! Please keep us posted as you get nearer the big day.

JayLu29

January 13, 2013

Thanks! We're in counseling once a week & there have been a lot of changes (for the better) in the general dynamics of our marriage. But being able to actually forgive him & learning to someday be able to trust him are my biggest struggles. I hate that he turned me into one of those wives who is constantly "checking up" on him. He's actually supportive of my MM (not that I would really give him a choice at this point! Ha ha). This is a great forum!

floridamom25

January 11, 2013

Our stories sound alike. Sorry to hear about your struggles. Good luck with everything can't wait to see your pictures. I'm one week out with lots of pics. I hope your journey is easy for you. Any questions don't be hesitate to ask.

JayLu29

January 12, 2013

Thanks! Let me know what foods work for you with the swelling (It's going to be tough for me because I'm a picky eater!). :-(

floridamom25

January 12, 2013

I ate a lot of pineapple jello and low sodium soup. Tons of water and make sure you take you Colace!!!!

floridamom25

January 12, 2013

You've got a great shape! Your results are going to be fantastic I can tell already!

UPDATED FROM JayLu29

1 month pre

1 month and counting!! A friend of mine (and I've...

JayLu29January 15, 2013

1 month and counting!! A friend of mine (and I've only told a handful of people) asked me if I was getting nervous, and strangely I'm not. I think I'm more excited than anything. I'm definitely not looking forward to the pain (reading each profile is so helpful), and I'm soooooo thankful that I can spend 3 weeks recovering at my parents. I know if I was home, I would never get the proper rest that is needed. (I just pray my house is still standing when I return). Going up and down the stairs, and just the constant day to day stuff that needs to be done would drive me crazy knowing and seeing that it wasn't getting done "right" (OCD).

I will admit I'm scared about the pain meds. I had Vicodin once about 17yrs ago, and I have never vomited so violently in my life. It was horrible. Besides epiderals (which made the lower half of my body itch like crazy), I've only taken Motrin for pain. I will have the pain pump for the first couple of days, but I'm not sure what they will give me.

I have found a rental place for a electric reclining chair for 27.00 per week, and my mom already has a toilet seat riser. She also has a walk in shower with a built in bench for showering. (That will kill me too - not being able to shower/shave for a couple days!). I've ordered some sports bras, compression garments, and flannel button down shirts so I don't have to lift my arms to put a shirt on (never would of thought of that one on my own). Already have compression capri pants, yoga pants, tons of comfy sweats, warm fuzzy socks, favorite pillows, blankets, my iPad (never leave home without), heating pads, ice packs, nightlight, and dog food!

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Rachle71

January 16, 2013

You sound like a strong lady, you will do great! And as for the trust issues, I can speak from experience when I say that it will take time to heal that break of trust, but it can be done. I look forward to following your journey, it sounds like you are prepared and ready :0)

UPDATED FROM JayLu29

27 days pre

Okay, I purposely scheduled my MM for the middle...

JayLu29January 19, 2013

Okay, I purposely scheduled my MM for the middle of February so that I would be well and clear of my period (last had it 1/2-1/7) and low and behold I get it yesterday! Which if I go by normal schedule, (which has been pretty regular except for 3 times = 2 girls and 1 boy) should calculate to getting it PO day 1! WTF!!!!! I have stepped up my workouts and have not missed a day (burning at least 1000 calories a workout and sweating my butt off) and I think that might have something to do with it!

I ordered a VitaMedica kit (any feedback???), and wondering which spanx to order? Please give me feedback (style # and store). I'm just getting a BA no lift, and am wondering if I will lose nipple sensation?

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Pisces2012

January 19, 2013

You sound so prepared! And you're not too late at age 39! You will still get decades of enjoyment! I know what you mean about the opiates...didn't want them and was relieved I didn't have to have any. As far as loss of nipple sensation, it's the most common side effect. I had a BA only too and at 1 month PO, am slowly regaining sensation in the skin around my nipples...completely numb in the nipples. But it takes up to 18 months to regain full sensation. Keep up the workouts! going into this strong and with good endurance is going to pay off big time!

islandlove

January 21, 2013

You will look amazing! And as for your age, Im 52 and I am not too old for this and so you certainly are not. lol This actually feels like the right timing for me and for each of us, the timing is different. I am PO day 6 and soooooo glad I had this done. The healing proess is reaallllllllll boring but the results will be so great.

Never too late

February 3, 2013

so hoping I don't need a lift can't wait to see your after pics. So nice you have your mom to help in recovery! sending positive thoughts and BTW you are way young!

islandlove

February 4, 2013

You cracked me up....you said "Im hoping I still have some good years left in me!".....lol I just did the MM at age 52 and it was the perfect time for me to do it. I feel so young at heart and know that my best years are yet to come!! Im sure that yours are too. We take care of everyone else- now its our turn to pamper ourselves. I cant wait to be completely healed and enjoying my new flat stomache and perky tata's. Dont worry about having your period at the same time- it really doesnt make a big difference. The worst pain from the TT is the back spasms. Muscle relaxants (like flexeril) work really well for that. Percocet got me through the first week, flexeril during the 2nd week and the 3rd week I am pain free except for sore boobs from them starting to change shape, drop, etc. Youll do great!!!! :)

JayLu29

February 4, 2013

Thank you!!! It is just now hitting me that late next week is my day for "me version 2.0" (my nickname for myself). I leave for a cheer comp in Las Vegas on Thurs with my youngest, and then come home and leave on Wed for 3 weeks! Yikes!!! I've been working my butt off this month and I've only lost a couple lbs, which I think I put back on yesterday at a Superbowl party (damn 49ers!!!!!). I have a food hangover! Thanks so much for the kind words!

islandlove

February 4, 2013

One more comment- your husband OWES you this mommy maker!! Your best years are ahead of you! My x husband is really the one that should have paid for my sugery (after everything he put me through, not to mention giving him 3 children) but hubby #2 kindly paid the bill for this one. I hope that you can work things out with him- thats always the best alternative, but if things dont work out, youll be looking incredibly good regardless!! Sorry-I get really mad when I hear about men having affairs. And yes- I also ate too much watching the game yesterday too- it was nail biting hoping the 49ers would pull it out at the last minute!! Have fun in Las Vegas! :)

Tyedye

February 5, 2013

Woohoo its almost time!!!

JayLu29

February 5, 2013

Yes it is!!! I go for my Pre-Op next Wed and then surgery on Fri!! Our stats are similar and I agree - you don't need a lift! I will let you know what my PS suggests (I'm wanting D cups)!

Tyedye

February 9, 2013

Im goin without! What did he say for you? Woohoo mines 4 days after yours! :) we're totally doing this for us!! :)

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