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42, New Dad, and Gotta Get Healthy. Raleigh, NC
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I'm that guy. I've always been the big loud jovial life of the party guy. 6' 3" and currently 336 and in good health save for high cholesterol. That said, life changed 18 months ago when my wife and I adopted a son. Now it's not just me I have to worry about. Now I have to keep up w an awesome kid and prep for being a little league dad at 50. So, as my doc said, now is the time to get this under control before your health takes a real hit. So I've completed my 90 days of insurance required medically supervised weight loss. I'm down about 10 lbs but it's like dumping a bottle of water in the ocean... Not much of a difference. I've done my psych eval, my dietician visit, and all but one of my pre-op requirements. Shooting for mid-June for surgery and looking forward to what lies ahead. Nervous about what life is like without me and honey buns after a night of drinking w the boys. But I know I'm going to be happier and healthier and that's a damn good thing. Wanted to share since not a lot of the guys seem to share. Looking forward to ideas and support. So... What say you real self community? What's the biggest fallacy? What's the best thing that happened afterwards that you never expected?
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June 4, 2016
Hello, Loved everything about your post. I am so excited for you! You are really going to have a whole new life. My brother is having his in the fall and I will pass on posts for him to read. Congrats on your beautiful son.
June 18, 2016
so nice to hear a man's perspective, thanks for sharing. I'm in about the same place as you. I've been patiently waiting for my surgery date, however the insurance company takes 3 weeks to 45 days to approve, after they have done their due diligence. But it is nerve racking, I've had all my tests done, spent lots of $ on tests, and here I wait. Keep posted, it is nice to have some guys out there.

June 18, 2016
Keep the faith and listen to your docs. It's nerve wracking as hell, but once your done and in recovery... Then the real journey and hard work begins. So excited to be here and can't wait to see what tomorrow brings.
UPDATED FROM flanman00
1 month pre
Staring down the home stretch... I think.
Couple of lingering items on the "to do" list were handled today. Got my chest x-ray, final blood work, and "letter of support" from my wife all handled and in the hands of my surgery coordinator. I have to make a visit to the local bariatric support group next Wednesday to close out the final insurance requirements before we can meet w/ the surgeon and get the surgery scheduled. Still looking like everything is in line for a mid June surgery. I'm getting more and more excited by the day. Doing more testing and trialing with bariatric nutritional recipes. Will my taste buds really change a bunch after surgery? Should I even be worried about this stuff now? Thanks in advance for any advice. Thinking I'm about 45 days out... and have one last big eating, drinking blowout trip planned for Memorial Day weekend, then its time to get on dry island with some protein shakes and a shelf full of vitamins. Again, any advice is greatly appreciated.
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May 6, 2016
I didn't notice a change in my taste buds per se, but some things do leave an aftertaste in my mouth now after eating them. Mostly, super sugary things leave a distinct aftertaste. I think it's more a byproduct of not having anything sugary for months after my surgery (I rigidly stuck to my surgeon's post-op diet plan for the two months after surgery and continued with it on my own for several months; I still don't eat a lot of processed foods or anything too sweet). When I got my first sweet tea from McDonald's about 4-5 months after surgery, I was dismayed by how sweet it seemed and the aftertaste. I asked others to try the tea and see if it was off, but it tasted normal to them. My body had become accustomed to things being not as sweet. Now that I've had it a bit more, I once again don't notice an aftertaste or think it's too sweet. My body is back accustomed to it (which may not be good). Soda still tastes weird to me. I've had exactly 20 pounces of Pepsi in the 13 months since my surgery--about 10 ounces 6 months after surgery, and another 10 ounces the other day. It's no loss to me giving that up, as I was never a big soda drinker before anyway. But other foods that aren't essentially pure sugar taste the same to me as they always have. Again, I suspect the difference in taste is just because you're not used to it after abstaining for awhile pre/post surgery.
I totally binged on eating out at all my favorite places in the three months leading up to my surgery. I gained 16 pounds between approval and surgery, hahaha!!! My surgeon didn't care, as I was borderline BMI when I was approved, anyway, and the extra weight just tipped me slightly closer to having a more 'appropriate' BMI to justify weight loss surgery. I tried all sorts of protein shakes and powders. The Beneprotein that the surgeon/hospital sent me home with was disgusting. Gross. I could barely choke it down. I tried Matrix protein powders; they were alright. Isopure protein drinks I thought were gross. I discovered Premier Protein's ready-made shakes, and it was a match made in heaven. I prefer them above all other brands that I've tried. I stocked up supplies before surgery--things like broth and sugar-free jello and whatnot. My surgeons mandated a two week clear liquid diet after surgery followed by two weeks of full liquids (add milk and creamy soups). So I was a month of liquids only. It was actually two months after surgery before my surgeons allow you to resume a normal unrestricted diet. They say that gives your stomach the optimal time to heal and your pouch to not stretch too quickly and for you to break bad eating habits, hahaha. I guess they were right, my weight loss went exceedingly well. If you have any other questions feel free to message me directly, reply to my comment here, or comment on one of my own posts. Any way, I'll try and respond ASAP! Good luck!!
I totally binged on eating out at all my favorite places in the three months leading up to my surgery. I gained 16 pounds between approval and surgery, hahaha!!! My surgeon didn't care, as I was borderline BMI when I was approved, anyway, and the extra weight just tipped me slightly closer to having a more 'appropriate' BMI to justify weight loss surgery. I tried all sorts of protein shakes and powders. The Beneprotein that the surgeon/hospital sent me home with was disgusting. Gross. I could barely choke it down. I tried Matrix protein powders; they were alright. Isopure protein drinks I thought were gross. I discovered Premier Protein's ready-made shakes, and it was a match made in heaven. I prefer them above all other brands that I've tried. I stocked up supplies before surgery--things like broth and sugar-free jello and whatnot. My surgeons mandated a two week clear liquid diet after surgery followed by two weeks of full liquids (add milk and creamy soups). So I was a month of liquids only. It was actually two months after surgery before my surgeons allow you to resume a normal unrestricted diet. They say that gives your stomach the optimal time to heal and your pouch to not stretch too quickly and for you to break bad eating habits, hahaha. I guess they were right, my weight loss went exceedingly well. If you have any other questions feel free to message me directly, reply to my comment here, or comment on one of my own posts. Any way, I'll try and respond ASAP! Good luck!!
UPDATED FROM flanman00
1 month pre
We have a date...
Surgery is scheduled for 6/13. So, 2 weeks to get thru a few "last suppers" w friends and then it's liquid diet right after Memorial Day. Stocking up on protein shakes and getting all my post surgery items set. Any advice for dealing w what I'm sure will be cravings and such during the 2 week pre-op liquid phase is appreciated. Excited y'all!
Hi there, and welcome to the community! Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. 10lbs is a great start! Have you checked out the Sleeve Gastrectomy forum yet? Here's a great post to get you started. I hope you'll find it interesting. Please update us regularly so we can support you on your journey! Good luck :)
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