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Been Approved for REduction! Raleigh, NC

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Today, after years of waiting, I got approved. I...

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mygirl071980
WORTH IT$20,000
Today, after years of waiting, I got approved. I am 5'1 and was told I was a J. I never knew this because I had been wearing the wrong type of bra for me. I am small framed, yet was wearing a 38" inch and the PS told me I was only 32". My cup size was smaller b/c I wasn't fitted correctly. So, now I am reading reviews, pondering all the things the doctor said and really scared. I have hurt because of them, been self conscience over them, wanted them gone so bad its almost brought me to tears. Now that it can be anytime I want it I am scared to death. I have three kids and my husband is great but don't want to be an inconvenience. I was told after three days I would be able to fix food and what not but still could not drive until my drain tubes were removed and still needed to take it easy and no lifting. Then I read horror stories and am starting to wonder if its worth it! Any words of encouragement are greatly appreciated!!!

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KayLee McPhee

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She did an awesome job. I don't know why it corrected her name. It's KeeLee MacPhee. Anxious to see the results Friday. They Didn't do a follow up call which I think all doctors or staff should do, but that is just an opinion. Thankful I have had no issues at all! Very satisfied with her work!

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February 18, 2014
Hi KayLee. I am in exactly the same positon as you. I have wanted this for over 20 years and now it is possible I have started to panic. However I have just seen my ps for the second time yesterday and feel better about my decision to go ahead with the opp. My biggest fear is how I will look afterwards and if I will like what I see, I guess you just have to have faith in your ps and make sure you discuss everything in detail and be clear about what you are hoping to achieve. I have booked my opp for next Tuesday. Yesterday I was excited, today I am nervous. I taljed to my ps yesterday and he said he would be nervous if I was too laid back about everything. What I have to think about is how this opp will change my day to day life and hopefully reduce some pain I have in my neck and back. I also think about physical activities i.e. gym, running and hopefully will be able to do more. It is a very strange experience and I thought I would be jumping for joy yet I'm not. Maybe it is just part of the process. If anybody else can put their spin on it, it will be much appreciated. Good luck with your decision making, it is a big one to make. I have read a lot of reviews on this wonderful sight and a large percentage have been positive. Talk to people if you can and be honest about how you feel. Best of luck. X
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February 18, 2014
Thank you so much for your comment. Just scheduled my surgery date for March 27th, aaahhh! Too many emotions to list. Extremely tired of the back and neck pain, but also tired of not feeling good about myself :( Love that I found this site. Having the courage to put a picture of the "girls" on here is extremely intimidating. Will definitely do it the day before surgery!
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February 18, 2014
I mean February 27th :P
February 18, 2014
Yes I am nervous of putting up pictures but like you I will do it. 27th, two days after mine. I'm glad I found this site too, I have learned so much. I forgot to mention I currently wear a 32 JJ bra and hoping to go down to a DD/E. :)
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February 18, 2014
Bless your heart! Hopefully you will get the size you want. I am shocked at the size the ps said I was! So I don't know what size I would even want..
February 18, 2014
I hope so. I don't think my ps belived my size until I took my bra off. He did comment yestersay and said I hide them well. I have always gone to a lingerie shop called Bravissimo who seem to know their stuff. I never could get a bra to fit perfect though due to righty being bigger than lefty. O well, we can go through this together and of course with other ladies on hear who have kindly shared their stories. Distraction and positive thinking for the next 7 days. :)
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February 18, 2014
Amen! I'm with ya and like you said the other ladies who share their stories and pics!
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February 19, 2014
I was so scared to put pics up but it really helped others and one person is using the same surgeon. I still have a hard time telling people what surgery I have had...I think they will get you down alot I was impressed
February 19, 2014
Yes your right Irishnightowl. Seeing pictures helped alot so I will pay it forward. :)
February 18, 2014
Hi KayLee, I am at 6 weeks post op and I am doing really really good.. I dont want to discourage you but I dont think after 3 days you can fix a dinner (you cant lift anything more than 5 lbs for at least 4-6 weeks. I had liposuction done at the same time too underarm and that made my recovery harder than the surgery itself (more bruising) . You cant lift your arm higher than 45 degres for the first week at least but trust me.. it is sooooooooooooooo worthed.
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February 18, 2014
Thank you, I want to be prepared as much as I can be. I need to do all I can to help to have a good recovery. What about driving? When could you?
February 19, 2014
for my part it took me closed of 3 weeks to drive but I think it is because of the lipo on each side and I was still sore but the nurse answer was that after 10 days: From the standpoint of driving, you can resume again as long as you aren’t on any pain meds, you have good range of motion (turning side to side, etc) and you can react as needed. Hope that helps ;)
February 19, 2014
I am 6 days pst op TT and BR. I could have gone back to work and most of my activities on the 4th day. I have had virtually no pain with BR. On the other hand, TT has been painful. The worst part of these procedures are the cumbersome drains.
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February 19, 2014
Love hearing the good reviews!!
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February 19, 2014
I wouldn't do it again I am almost 5 weeks post op and have had every complication you can get. But that's just me.
February 19, 2014
Hi! How exciting for you! I am 48 w/an 8yr old daughter and 11yr old son. I am 15 days post BR and lift. I have not had complications but it is not a quick recovery... I cannot lift things, or at least don't want to because I don't want to have the complications I have seen. My husbanjd has had to help me A LOT. I usually do almost everything so this has been hard for me. I think it will be worth it a few months but be prepared its NOT quick. Good luck. Its nice to be smaller but very different too.
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February 19, 2014
Thank you Kimmo! I am taking in all info I can. Like you said I do everything. More so, because my husband's job causes him to travel. Fortunately, he will not travel during my recovery. Letting go of feeling responsible for everything is tough, but with support it will be easier. One week to go and feel like I am on a roller coaster. Pre-op Friday, lets hope all questions get asked! Once again thanks to everyone for the information you can pass along!!
UPDATED FROM mygirl071980
6 days pre

Tomorrow is Pre Op :O

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mygirl071980
Tomorrow is when I get to flood the doctor with questions. I don't wont her to think I am nuts though! I am wanting to correct my nipple inversion as well. Hoping that won't cost too much more since I am already put under. Wow, overwhelming a bit! Soon I will get to wear a normal size shirt! Size 3 pants and XL shirts! Pictures soon, but not digging the thought of that. The "glamour shots" I had to take for the insurance was scary enough!

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February 21, 2014
I'm sinecure you got approved!! You are going to do great! I had mine 12/26 went more smoothly then I thought it would. Still amazed by the results and Not having bra straps digging in. I made sure to do arnica montana and herbal supplements after . I thought getting the drains out would be bad but it was not it was a relief!! I still had to use pads for a few days in my bras! Good luck!
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February 21, 2014
Thank you. Now is when I really needed that. Lying here right at this moment having a nervous moment. Going to head off to pre op soon. Cannot imagine this time next week I will be smaller. Overwhelming a bit!
February 21, 2014
Sitting here drinking coffee and can't believe how great I feel. I am 8 days P0. I'm going shopping for bras today. As I said before, I had no pain with BR. You will do great. I'm praying for a blessed recovery for you.
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February 21, 2014
My Phone auto corrected but should have said so happy you got approved to make you feel better ask about a pain pump. They will also give you something to relax you the night before. Ask as many questions as you need to! For me since I have been on pain meds for years I was scares and they were worried the pain med would not work. They were correct. I had to double up and thankful I had a pain pump. Did not help I fell two weeks later on ice.injured my ribs. Good lucky today
February 21, 2014
hey you will do fine :) ask all question that you have :)
UPDATED FROM mygirl071980
5 days pre

Pre Op went good, I thought, six days!

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mygirl071980
Pre Op was great except I think I want her to change the procedure. Unfortunately she is out until Monday :(. I decided a free nipple graft was too extreme even with me wanting a nipple correction. Will hold out for six more months to get them fixed without cutting them completely off. Lets hope she is willing to do that. I hate to start all over. I know she was wanting to accommodate my wants, but hope she will do another procedure. In the grand scheme of things I am not so large it is dangerous and I don't smoke and have no prior reductions. I have been researching like crazy. I don't see why it should be an issue and it may not be. Hope I don't have to get a second consult at this stage in the game. But we gotta do what we feel in our hearts is best for us. Now I just have to get the money for the nipple repair. Man, I never thought I would share this stuff with anyone, much less on the internet. Thanks for listening ladies!

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