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Mom of 4, Lost 80 Pounds! - Plano, TX

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1 year post

A year later.

Anewmom
$15,500
I went in for my post op for my year marking....

I have a ton of things that went through my head while I was there.
At the office the have a surgical suite attached to the other side of the building. I was sitting on the clinic side watching people walk in. I wanted to scream at them that were waiting to go in and say STOP DONT DO IT?? Have you thought about it? WHY?
All questions I refused to answer before I did it. I had lost a lot of weight and was determined I needed to do this to look better. More so I believe I wanted to look like a [RS bleep] star. WHY??? Because thats what I thought men, my husband, and surprisingly myself thought I had to be to look sexy, to be good enough. Why was I unable to be excited about becoming physically fit and happy with everything I had accomplished?? After a year of a tough recovery, the hit it took on our marriage, I can say I have a flat stomach and big boobs. I can wear a bikini around my ten year old son and his friends, oh and around my already very self conscience 9 year old daughter. NOT!!! I'm not trying to win the hottest mom award, I just want to be known as a good mom, a fit mom, a mom who loves her children and husband more then vanity. I'm afraid I may have hurt my daughter, I see her picking at herself and asking if she's fat. It hurts more then you know.. I can't be the mom any longer who can talk about natural beauty and the beauty of having the scars from my babies. Life changed during this year. I can't say I am any better of a person, I can't say I'm anymore confident in who I am, I can say for me personally I wouldn't do it again.

Please know this is my story, my thoughts, YOU DO NOT HAVE TO AGREE. I wish you all the best of luck.

Anewmom's provider

Dr. Rafael

Replies (3)

April 15, 2015
Thanks for sharing. I've been wanting a mommy makeover for two years and keep backing out..because I'm afraid I will end up feeling the same way. Have you had any problems with the implants? I appreciate your honesty!
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April 25, 2015
I'm also a year post op. I totally understand your feelings. For me, I have my moments of regret and moments of total happiness. I am facing revision on my left breast. Overall I'm happy, but probably could have done without the implants.
November 25, 2016
I read your entire story and really appreciate your honesty. You did work very hard to lose the weight and you do need to give yourself a pat on the back for that. It's not easy, and that's something most people can't do. Maybe you saw the surgery as a reward of sorts, for all of your efforts. You took things as far as you could - did everything you could - and then knew what was never 'going back' to how it was before kids. I can totally understand that mentality. I did get implants and a lift, but have been pondering the TT for a few years. I just can't pull the trigger. I do have to say your results are amazing and you look wonderful. But I can understand the mental side of knowing you couldn't be satisfied just the way you were. I think you should feel good about doing your best. Your kids saw you do that part too. No one loses 80 lbs without some major effort. They saw you working hard and they'll remember that for a long, long time! Sorry, this got a bit long and I know you wrote your last post a long time ago.
UPDATED FROM Anewmom
3 months post

Scar update

Anewmom
Photos of my scars 3 months pp..

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July 25, 2014
Wow! You're scars are so light! I'm definitely going to have to check out the embrace scar therapy. You look amazing!
July 26, 2014
You look great!:)
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August 3, 2014
Just read your review. You look amazing. I'm 2 Months post-op today and hope to look as good as you at my 3 months!
August 5, 2014
what are the strips on your sides called? and what do they do?
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December 12, 2014
You look great! I had my surgery on the 14th of April, right around the time you did...8 months this weekend which is hard to believe considering it feels like just yesterday I has my procedures done! What do you do for workouts? I also lost 45lbs prior to surgery and am maintaining my weight loss now!
UPDATED FROM Anewmom
3 months post

Photos of the doctors pre op photos!!

Anewmom
Had my three month appointment today. Everything looks good and the doctor was pleased with how hard I've been working on my body to better amplify the surgery results. The photos are unbelievable. I do not weigh any less now then the photos before surgery.

Oh and I went to my first yoga class since surgery tonight. It felt wonderful!!

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July 23, 2014
i am considering implants and tummy tuck (already have implants - need to do a revision) - was it very painful???
July 23, 2014
Yes. It really was. It still hurts were they liposuctioned the back, but it really was worth it.
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July 23, 2014
I just read ALL of your comments. I am nowhere near it yet but the date is fast approaching. I am getting a BA; however, very afraid of doing a TT b/c of....truly, dying on the operating table. Reading and seeing your results is really what I needed right now. I have an apmt. with my PS to finalize the TT...I am bring my little black bikini to see if he can get the scar low enough. I really hope so. I had so many questions for you while reading your posts....now I can't remember. Oh, here is one...did the scar therapy make a difference...and why do you think your sutures kept popping...did the PS use the ones that are absorbed by the body or different ones? A friend of mine said the ones that are to be reabsorbed by the body left a bad scar... I wonder if this is true. You look amazing and I am truly happy for you!
July 23, 2014
He used absorbable ones. I actually had to take one out of my breast this week!! I do have a little area that scarred worse on my left breast that popped sutures. It's not terrible and is going to be revised in the office in a few months. The scar therapy made a huge difference in the center area of my Tt. Took a lot of pressure off and my life is so thin. I'll post scar photos tomorrow when I change the tape I put over my scars now.
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July 23, 2014
Thank you....I've been looking at other reviews and it's exactly what I need....all the encouragement I can take. I'm looking forward to seeing your scars. You look amazing. Thank you for sharing again!
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July 23, 2014
How do I post and read posts on my phone?
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July 23, 2014
Wow you look fantastic! Congrats!!! =]
July 24, 2014
Thank you!