I'm NOT finally flat! Clearwater, Fl.

So, I've been reading all of your fabulous posts for months. Now I start my journey in less than 48 hrs. Wheeehhhhhh. I'm sweating it. I know I'm a pain chicken. But I know I hate my dewlap. I'm 48, and unlike most of you, I have not had any kids. But I have a genetic skirt that may be the reason I don't have kids....lol. I have tried, but it can never be exercised away. I am not at my goal weight either, but have been at this steady weight for a long time. I'm 5'3 and 195 lbs. but I'm pretty active. I'm on my feet all day at work - and work 11 hr shifts. Hope 3 weeks is enough time to take, because I don't have much choice. I'm single, and have to get back to work. I'm having lipo and a bleapharoplasty too, and from what I'm reading, that's worse pain than the TT?
My goal is to look better in clothes and gain self confidence. I have always been overweight, but always fairly attractive despite the fat. I haven't had a romantic relationship in a long time and hope this gives me the confidence I need to find someone perfect. And since I have great attractive girlfriends that i hang with, ( and girls, we have a tendency to get wild and crazy on our girlz weekends) ill fit into the cougar profile instead of being the pretty but fat friend.
Well, I wish all of you brave women fabulous healing and more life in your lives!