Almost four months after. New pics!
I am a single mother of two young children; my son...
I am a single mother of two young children; my son is 3 and my daughter is 22 months. I had just re-started Weight Watchers when I learned I was pregnant with my first child. I went from about 180lbs to 250. I got down to 200lb before I had my daughter. I was MUCH more careful and gained about 30lb with her. I currently weight about 210lbs, and I'm 5'10". I am concerned that I am not at my "ideal weight", but I am ready to shed this fat costume. I want to have a belly button!
Even at my smallest back in high school, I still had fat deposits on my tummy. Now,I look very pregnant, I have overhanging skin, and many stretch marks. I am in no way concerned about having a scar (in fact, I already have a scar from ovarian cyct removal that isn't even noticeable), but I am hoping it will be low and straight. My PS plans to cut below my current scar which is down in the hair region-that should be low enough! I often have back pain which I attribute to the big belly, but it could also be from slouching or other maneuvers I do to try to hide my stomach.
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Less than 48 hours! Oh my! This is all becoming...
She reminded me not to eat/dring ANYTHING (not even water, gum, or mints) after midnight, which might be tough since I work until 2:00 A.M. I am to dress in loose, dark clothing. I asked about a bra-she said most people wear their bra in but just do without after surgery. She said a regular bra would def be easier than a sports bra. My PS has the operating room booked for three hours, and the nurse estimates about two hours in recovery. I was kind of excited to hear my PS often starts surgery ahead of schedule :)
So, about my feelings...I am mostly EXCITED!!!! I am also disappointed that I did not take this time between my consult in January and now to lose weight as I had planned. I have always thought this procedue would fix my stomach, but I fear I have a lot of internal fat, too, and maybe my results won't be what I'd hoped. Another negative thought-should I have done the BA and lift for the complete "mommy makeover"? I had a consult for that procedure, too, but I had many hesitations (scarring, sensation, lifetime of surgeries, possible interference w/mamograms, etc.). Although the procedure was REALLY expensive, I would be saving money and vacation time had I done it all at once.
I will be running around tomorrow doing last minute errands. I will be moving in with my mom for who knows how long, so I am trying to make sure I gather everything up. My kids will be at her house, as well, so we had a brilliant idea to move the recliner from my house to a bedroom at her house. That way I have a recliner in the living room and a bedroom-oh the choices for comfort :) Do you think a recliner is where I'll be most comfortable? A bed with lots of pillows does not sound appealing to me.
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I'm only hours away from surgery! I don't plan on...
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I totally agree with u! I have 2 kids of my own and my body is totally different now. I still feel pregnant with all of the loose skin and I HATE the strech marks! Have you already scheduled your surgery?