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I guessed on the cost, bc I don't know what it is...

caseynjason
WORTH IT$9,000
I guessed on the cost, bc I don't know what it is yet. I am 35 year old mother of 5, ages 13, 11, 8, 6, and 3. I'm 5'8 and weight 130 lbs. 5 babies have left stretched lower tummy and my barely A boobs are pretty sad. They would stretch to a large C when breast-feeding, then shrivel up after!

I've gotten my body as far as I can back to where it needs to be on my own, but I need help with the rest. I have a consultation scheduled on Oct 24th with one of the best PS here in the Kansas City area. I want a mini TT, cause some if the scars on here are scary, and the recovery looks brutal, but we will see. I have so many questions.

I'm struggling with the whole is this healthy for my body vs do I want to look like this for the rest of my life thing, you know? The guilt of the $ and recovery time. I do not know anyone personally who has done this, and my friends and family will prob not be too supportive. They think I look good, but they don't see me naked and wearing padded bras and tucking my skin under my pants!

My hubby is supportive, but I can tell he would love for me to look better. He said whatever makes me feel better about myself. I hope I can feel closer to making a decision after my consult. Any supportive word by those who went through this??

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Walter W. Tom, MD

Walter W. Tom, MD

Board Certified General Surgeon

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October 14, 2013
Girl, I feel you!! I am scheduled for Nov 22, also a mini TT and lift w/implants. Like you I lost the weight after baby, I even saved up the $$, but feel very guilty. I think that being on here a little bit every day helps. Chat with many. I am finding that lots of questions are being answered, different ones are coming up, and generally... my head is spinning less and less. Good luck on your consult.
October 15, 2013
Yes, this site helps me so much. Mostly scared of anesthesia and feeling horrible, lol! Good luck, do you have a story I can follow?
October 15, 2013
Yes, if you click on my name, I think it'll take you there : )
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October 15, 2013
I was thin like you 7 years ago when I had my TT. I had loose skin and only wanted a mini but ended up with a full TT because after 5 kids my muscles needed repairing to get the tight look I wanted. There is a picture of my TT scar on my profile and you can barely see the scar. My PS made a nice low scar and I healed very well. The swelling after surgery was the hardest thing to overcome. I am a lot older then you and even though I'm currently losing weight again I'm no where near as thin as I was 7 years ago. I think you are going to have wonderful results. If you have pretty symmetrical breast before (and you really do) the results are usually beautiful!! Do this for yourself and don't let guilt and healing time stop you. You deserve to be happy!! You will find a lot of helpful tips for before and after surgery on the site not to mention mucho support!!!
October 15, 2013
Thanks so much! Btw, you look so great; can't believe you're a grandmother to 9!
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October 15, 2013
Your concerns are quite common, we hear that a lot from ladies that are feeling guilty about their self improvement. I joke with my patients that the funding should come from the kids' college fund :) You are doing the right thing with choosing a quality surgeon for a consultation--you will be able to get a great deal of information about your particular options. It helps if you can articulate exactly the issues that you want to have addressed, so your surgeon can guide you on exactly what your choices are. Good luck! Matthew Concannon MD
October 16, 2013
August 7, 2015
UPDATED FROM caseynjason
8 months pre

Consultation in one week!

caseynjason
The PS office called,I think it was one of their customer care specialists, but she was so sweet! Everyone so far whom I have spoken to are so nice and have great positive energy, which I need! She answered some of my questions, any said that anyone pretty much who have had children are going to need a full TT vs a mini because the muscles have separated and a mini does not stitch together the muscles. She explained a bit about saline vs silicone, and I am leaning towards the silicone, bc I want soft and natural looking breasts! Not hard [RS bleep] star boobies!

She gave me a price quote of $11,000, and said the surgery would last 4 hours and I would go home the same day. I'm feeling more excited now that this seems more of a reality. I'm actually feeling less terrified and guilty and more empowered, like, yes, I CAN do this for myself, and it is ok!

Next week will answer many more questions and Dr Quinn can tell by my body what would work best. I asked if the scar would be high or low, but she said everyone is different, and he could answer that for me. I'm hoping my long torso will help me out! Any ideas why some have high visible scars while others are more in the bikini area?

I'm so grateful for this site, it has helped me make this a reality and not a crazy dream. I'm posting my dream boobs pic bc I'm getting ideas! I don't want too big, just fill up what I have and it would be so nice for my husband to get more than a handful (barely) for once!

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October 16, 2013
I have two children and my ps would ONLY do a mini My tummy looked very much like yours does I had my surgery two days ago my incision is small I like that I still have MY belly button and my incision is really low When I called my ps office the first time looking for a quote she saif the same thing "no women who has had kids could be a candidate for a mini tummy tuck" good luck I hope you get everything you are after
October 16, 2013
Oh really? I might have to do some more consultations, as I really really, want to keep my belly button! Maybe he can do a "revised" tt? Thanks for letting me know, it adds to my list of questions for him next week!
October 16, 2013
Caseynjason, my Dr suggested a mini... I have had 3 kids. I am due for my preop on the 28th... I intend to ask specifics like "are we SURE we are NOT messing with the muscle, OR, is it a wait & see?" I'll let you know what he has to say on the matter.
October 17, 2013
Thanks, I'm hoping he is good enough that he can do an "individualized TT" like why not a mini without moving my belly button, and still stitching the muscles? But I'm not a ps, so hopefully we can get clarified.
UPDATED FROM caseynjason
8 months pre

Dream boobies!

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October 17, 2013
Hi! What date are you looking at? I am set for 12/17 and am so excited!!
October 19, 2013
I was thinking after the holidays, but new body for Christmas sounds pretty great!
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October 17, 2013

Thank you for starting your story on RealSelf! I think you look pretty darn great right now, but I'm glad you feel empowered to do what you want with your bod. Hope you get your dream curves. :) Please keep us posted!

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October 19, 2013
having kids totally screws you up i dont regret mine but hated the damage that had been done so i had a basic mommy makeover breast aug and tummy tuck and i have to say i am so happy i did! you have a slender body so you will look amazing when you have yours done good luck sweetness will follow your progress x
October 19, 2013
Thanks, I'm hoping being slender helps. I love how your breasts turned out! What cc's did you get? I'm sure I don't have enough breast tissue to go over the muscle. I'm def thinking silicone as well.
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October 19, 2013
oh yeah and i had silicon over muscle as i had enough tissue! x