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Mommy Makeover 4 Weeks Post-Op! - Orlando

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I have recently looked into having a mommy...

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Orlando321
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I have recently looked into having a mommy makeover on myself. I have two boys and have tried to lose weight, get back into shape, etc... but I still have the saggy skin, stretch marks and floppy breast.

I am 30 yrs old, 5'10, usually weigh around 170lbs but trying to get to 160lbs. My weight prior to children was 155lbs. I gained about 60 lbs with my first born and 50lbs with my second born. After my first born, I was able to lose the weight and get back into my clothes within a year of his birth (literally- his 1st birthday). However, my second son I still have about 10lbs to get back to pre-preg. weight and their is the issue of stretch marks, sagginess, love handles, etc.. all that won't go away.

I have 4 consultations with highly rated plastic surgeons in a few weeks, and plan to actually have my surgery next summer (June 2011). I am researching everything from breast lifts/ augmentation, tummy tucks, etc...

I am also working out at the gym to get my muscles in shape for the recovery.

I am looking for advice regarding Drs, Questions, Procedures, Pre-Op To Do, Post-OP To Do, expectations, etc...

I hope to update as I progress to my date.

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October 28, 2010

Thanks so much for sharing your story and posting your photos! You look like an awesome candidate for a mommy makeover. You'll find tons of information on RealSelf. I would suggest reading through other women's reviews, checking out our forums and reading through some doctor questions and answers. Also feel free to post in these areas of the site.

Good luck and please keep us updated on your process!

November 4, 2010
Hi. You look like you are going to get a great result. Being in good physical shape really helps with the recovery.Im sure once you start going to consult appts you will get a good feeling for who you feel comfortable with. I live in the orlando area as well and visited with 3 doctors, I learned something different from each one. Make sure they spend plenty of time with you, answering your questions and offering advice on what procedure they think will suit you best.One doctor was so rushed, he spent under 10 minutes with me and when I started to ask questions he said we would discuss this at the pre-op appt. I couldnt get out of there fast enough! I was really lucky I found a great doctor on this website and almost 6 weeks after my tummy tuck Im sure I made the right choice. Good luck!
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November 5, 2010
Thanks for the support. I noticed that you used Dr. Soto. I have a consult with him in a few weeks. Also with 3 other drs. I wanted to know who were the other drs, and what did you think of them. When you went for the consults did all 3 doctors recommend the same or similar procedures? I would love to see your pictures if you have any.
I searched through a basic web search for drs. then I found a link from one of those searches for realself and saw another patient of Dr. Soto's with pre and post pictures. Those pictures pretty much secured him a spot on my calendar for a consult.
I am glad that you are happy with your results so far. I am excited and hope to find a dr that I feel safe with and know that the dr will do a great job.
November 5, 2010
Hi.Im sorry about not posting pictures, im a little on the conservative side. I can tell you that the only doctor that came close to Dr Soto was Dr Fiala. He was very nice and spent alot of time answering my questions and even offered another free follow up consultation. Not all doctors suggested the same procedure,one suggested a body lift because I have lost alot of weight. That seemed too extreme for me. I am so glad that I didnt choose that surgery. Dr Soto performed an extended t.t. with lipo of the flanks and that really took care of all my issues. I was so worried about loose skin and the pain I couldnt believe that it would turn out this well. He truly is a artist, I didnt even look this good in high school . I have already lost 5 inches from my waist! Sorry for such a long reply, but I know how difficult it is to find a P.S. you can trust. Best wishes.
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November 7, 2010
Wow, I am really excited about meeting Dr. Soto. I also have an appt with Dr. Fiala as well. Out of the 4 consults- those two seem to be the ones that I would lean toward. My concerns (and my husbands)when getting the recommendations- is that all 4 doctors will same something different in regards to what they would do in regards to my breast. Although we will be evaluating the Drs on how comfortable we feel with them, how we are treated, etc... but if you get 4 different or even 3 different recommendations- how do you know who to believe in regards of what is best for you. Did you have this problem?
I don't mind your long reply- I enjoy reading about everyone's thoughts and feelings- it a big decision- that needs a ton of contemplation.
November 7, 2010
Hi.I know what you mean about each doctor having different opinions. I think it all comes down to comfort and trust. I think when it comes to your t.t. , you will probably get similar opinions. As for the breast lift, keep an open mind and listen to all of their suggestions. In the end, you and your husband will make the decision that your comfortable with. To be honest, I had one consult for a breast lift and the doctor suggested a lift and an implant. I really didnt want an implant and he felt the lift alone wouldnt satisfy me. I was also worried about decreased sensitivity,so my husband and I decided to do nothing. Im in pretty bad shape in that area but a good bra can almost work miracles (lol). I didnt even talk to Dr. Soto about it. Im sure you have already seen his pictures here but he also will show you more in the office. Your pictures look good in that area, are you sure you need a lift? Let us know how your consultations go. I wasnt planning to have my t.t. until Thanksgiving or Winter break but the doctor got me so excited about having a flat tummy, I booked it earlier. It might be difficult for you to wait until June once you find the right doctor. Im sure all your research will pay off and you will be very happy.
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November 7, 2010
I understand about the excitement and not wanting to wait longer until next summer. However, we are using this time to get me into the best physical shape. I know that the better shape my muscles are the better recovery. I also can't take that much time off from work- but by June will have enough time saved up. Also money, we want to save up as much as possible.I would love to do it this winter (During my time off then)- but I want to have as much time off to heal properly. My youngest son will be a bit older, and hopefully more manageable. I know my breast aren't as bad as some I have seen. I am grateful for that. However, I want to be able to wear certain tops and not have the droppiness. I really want the fullness back. I have a friend (considering the same procedures as me), and one day we were both talking about how we don't want the flat pancake breast anymore. I want the nice round blueberry in the pancake! I know weird analogy. But you are right I have nice Victoria's Secret bras that hold me up, but right now I am not happy with that.
November 7, 2010
Hello. You sound like you have it all together and your plans sound well thought out. I know cost shouldnt be a deciding factor in choosing your doctor but it is very important in todays economy. I think you will find that there is a big difference in prices for the same procedure from different doctors. If you compare education, comfort level, pictures and patient reviews for the same procedure after your consults you will know what I am talking about. The doctor we ended up choosing was actually very fair in price.One doctor wanted 2,300. more for the same procedure. It wasnt a deciding factor but it makes a difference.
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October 29, 2010
Looks like you are doing your homework starting with 4 appointments. I went to three. The first and last were not for me and I ended up going back to the second one. I was happy that the second and third were really close in what they suggested it made me confident with my decision. You do look like a great candidate.
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Since I have joined RealSelf.com, I have been...

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Since I have joined RealSelf.com, I have been thinking more and more about my upcoming consultations in the next 3 weeks. Looking at the success stories is truly inspiring. I just pray it will be for me as well. One thing my husband asked me- was if I would be excited about shopping for clothes. Since I hate how certain tight shirts/blouses look on me (stomach and sides). Thinking about it is so exciting yet, nerve wrecking too. I can't wait for the next three weeks to pass for my consult. We decided to cancel one consult. The Dr. we are canceling is primarily a breast doctor and only does mini-tummy tucks (which I am not a candidate for). I'd like to find a 4th Dr. to replace that consult. However, it is so hard to pick a Dr. with a good reputation. I don't know anyone who has had PS. I wish there was an easier way to pick a DR.

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November 2, 2010

Here's a forum post about Tummy Tuck Consultation Questions to Ask

and another about Consultation Questions for Breast Implants

Hope this is helpful

 

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I have a dilemma and I am not sure if it is worth...

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I have a dilemma and I am not sure if it is worth the worry. My husband and I had decided no more kids. He got snipped because it was cheaper and less evasive for him. My dilemma is what if the vas tubes reconnect and I get pregnant. I know it stupid-but I am not fixed so I can still get pregnant. That is something we don't want- we are happy with our two boys. I hate to put so much time and money into a surgery and have that happen. Has anyone else thought of this? Anyone else who isn't fixed but has had a tummy tuck?

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November 14, 2010
hi. I had a brazilian butt lift with dr soto in november of 2009 and love it! He is a fabuolous doctor. I am having a mommy makeover november 24th so I can tell you all about it. My husband also snipped "his babies" but i dont think about pregnancy. If I do, I will have more money when I sue the doctor (!!) but go see Dr. Soto, from experience he is fabulous; thats y i am going back to him...........
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November 19, 2010
Hi lfrancis,
I just realized that you are having your mommy makeover the same day I have my consult with Dr. Soto? Are you doing your mommy makeover with Dr. Soto? I am really excited to meet him and just get the basic info on what can done for this patheltic body! I can't wait to see your pictures!! Congrats and keep me updated.
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November 19, 2010
I recently told a friend that I was getting the mommy makeover done. I didn't get too much support from her. She had a friend do the same procedure and she said based on the level of pain and expense it wasn't worth it. That after a few years, weight gain. You couldn't tell she had anything done. I was somewhat upset about that. I watch what I eat, exercise every other day. I plan to continue that after my procedure as well. I wish people were more supportive. I am trying to work on losing the extra 20lbs. I want to try to cut out most carbs, try to eat lean protein, salads, veggies and fruit for a whole month and see if I drop any weight. :) Lets hope, come January 1st I will have dropped some lbs, I have 6 months to lose the weight.
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September 1, 2011
Hi Orlando...you look really good! we are both 4 wks post op. Your friend must be a lazy piggy and was fat from the get go. This is not a way to loose weight. also would you consider an IUD? I like mine. Really stops heavy bleeding. Dont know if this an option for you. My skin is great due to the Retina. It's a process that last about 3 months or so to even out and not have troubled skin. I use it every night with a little cream. I always wear a hat now at 45. No sun can be on your face. I'm known as the lady in the hat and thats cook with me. Rentina is $200 a tube and last a long time. Those few months were a journey and I wanted to give up on it due to worse breakouts flaky ugly skin, when I all got straighten out I was so thrilled! One less thing to be worried about>
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November 19, 2010
I have some people that don't support my decision either. Weight gain is something we can control so it sounds like your friend might be a bit angry with herself that she had all the work done, spent the money and then gained weight. Your decision is supported here :) The best advice I can give about losing those 20 pounds is eat smart :) Lots of fruits and vegetables, along with lean meats is a good plan! I gave up all fast food and I was the fast food queen LOL
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November 19, 2010
Thanks Christine- that is why I love this site- everyone is so encouraging and helpful.
Today was my last day of fast food. I plan to eat sensibly during the holidays and really set out a plan and menu so I can't make the excuse of "no time" to prepare anything. Do you eat smart all the time or do you occasionally have a treat? I love Ice Cream. I was always known as Ice Cream Queen growing up- I would eat one bite of dinner and than want ice cream. As long as it isn't in the house I am fine- but the minute its on my mind, I go crazy.
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November 19, 2010
About the diet I had been on one that allowed fat free frozen yogurt. Like a 1/2 cup - great way to get some sweets without screwing everything up. I quit drinking soda completely about 5 years ago that is a way to drop a ton of calories out of your diet. Also, I have a friend and my sister that think I am crazy going for surgery but they don't have to live in my body and I don't tell them how to live their lives. Seems like a good trade off and they may be scared or jealous? I don't know how to change their minds but neither of them have a gross tummy like mine so they will learn to live with my decision. You are not asking them for the money or to help you recuperate so don't sweat it.