Get the real deal on beauty treatments—real doctors, real reviews, and real photos with real results.Here's how we earn your trust.

POSTED UNDER Brazilian Butt Lift REVIEWS

Perfect Surgery for Me but I Chose the Wrong Doctor.. - Orland Park, IL

ORIGINAL POST

I sit here right now in tears, like I am every...

NurseDee36
$8,400
I sit here right now in tears, like I am every other day. I worked so hard to get my credit score up to get approved for CareCredit and I went on 9 consultations. I chose a doctor who reassured me he knew what he was doing. Credentials were in order and now almost a month post op, I have nothing to show for it but $8000 of debt, painful lumps in my abdomen and side, NO NOTICEABLE CHANGE in my appearance. I was supposed to get a BBL with lipo to my abdomen, flanks, & back. My back rolls are still there, abdomen looks the same, & my butt (with so called 800 ccs in each cheek) looks like nothing was done! I have expressed my dissatisfaction as calmly as I can on several occasions. I know my body and I KNOW there has been little to know change. Even the way the lipo was done (one incision right above the pubic area) & the BBL/back lipo (ONE incision in the sacral area) just didn't seem like it would have done much. I have seen pictures with 3 and 4 lipo incisions. While not cosmetically pretty, it allows access to areas that need to be liposuctioned. Sorry for my rant but I am so upset that I was taken advantage of. I made it clear what I wanted and I didn't get that. My concerns aren't taken seriously and I am basically out of $8K & will have to pay another doctor MORE to fix his mistakes!!! Even going back to Dr. Gelman for revision surgery is going to cost me thousands!!!! I look at all of the pictures of ladies who have similar body shapes and I do prior to surgery and they have way better results than I do and they went to docs in the US.. The depression is starting to kick in and I don't want to go anywhere. I don't want to eat. I don't want to do anything with myself now because I see NO IMPROVEMENT or change. My expectations were realistic and I didn't even get 5% of what I asked for. I am so ashamed and wish I would have chosen another doctor.

NurseDee36's provider

Jack Gelman, MD (retired)

Jack Gelman, MD (retired)

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

NurseDee36 rating for Dr. Gelman:

Overall rating
Doctor's bedside manner
Answered my questions
After care follow-up
Time spent with me
Phone or email responsiveness
Staff professionalism & courtesy
Payment process
Wait times

Replies (19)

June 7, 2015
I am so sorry to hear you are unhappy with your results. I too went to Dr. Gelman for a tummy tuck 4 years ago and was not happy, but I complained and expressed my concern and he did a revision. I just had to pay for the surgery center. look into Dr Shifrin he is amazing he just did my bbl on 05/18 and I couldn't be happier. I wish you the best of luck.
June 7, 2015
I should have went with my gut and chose Dr. Shifrin. His cost was right around what I paid for mine and his results look absolutely amazing. Welp, I guess I have to pay off this CareCredit to start saving for Dr. Shifrin. I just cannot believe this happened to me. 3 years of waiting to have this happen. I just can't understand.
June 7, 2015
Someone recommended him to me also and I chose Shifrin. He does great revision jobs from what I've heard
June 7, 2015
I have so much to think about but Shifrin is definitely on my radar now! Thank you!
June 7, 2015
Best of luck to you! Keep us posted
User Avatar
June 11, 2015
oh no! I hate that you are feeling this way..maybe around 7 days post op I felt really sad and down... I realized that a lot of what I was seeing was swelling.. I sd the same as u why am I the only one who doesn't look a certain way.. But Now that the swelling is goin down I see my shape more and more..Dr.Shifrin didn't fail me... Give it time honey it will get better... Wear ur compression garment that's what helped me a lot.. U can inbox me anytime u wanna talk
June 22, 2015
Thanks hunny. I wear my garment like a second skin.. I'm just so upset.
June 12, 2015
Wow that's HORRIBLE!!!!!!!! TO BAD YOU CAN'T STOP PAYMENT!! PRAYING FOR YOU SISTA!!
June 17, 2015
Thank you so much. I feel so unattractive and ugly.
June 19, 2015
Hello, Just read your story and I am so sorry to hear about what happened to you. I am looking for a surgeon too and I'm almost scared because I don't want to get ripped off! I hope things get better for you because you deserve it. They say you don't see immediate results for months though. But i believe you know what you're talking about and you know your body. These doctors should be made accountable for their patient results. I pray you wake up and gradually see results forming. I know that might sound crazy but I'd rather sound crazy & see that actually happen for you then see you continue to be in such despair. You will survive this, trust & believe you will survive this.
June 22, 2015
Thank you so much. The most popular surgeons are where the price is astronomical. I would never travel outside of the country but the doctors here should take note. I am going to attempt one last calm talk with him and after that, I will definitely explore my legal options.
UPDATED FROM NurseDee36
1 month post

A little over a month post-op and still nothing

NurseDee36
My body has NOT undegone any changes. I am NOT still swollen. No matter how I look at it, my surgery was a complete waste of money. Now, on top of $80,000 of student loan debt putting myself through nursing school, I have another $8,000 I am going to regret paying back since I didn't get anything for it. I would have felt better donating that money to a charity. At least it would have been used for something good! Ugh! I have an appointment coming up in a week. If I don't get a resolution, I cannot say I won't go ballistic on him.

Replies (1)

December 25, 2016
Sorry your results weren't what you had expected. I went to dr gelman and had an amazing experience. I wonder if people sometimes think plastic surgery works miracles. It definitely doesn't.. but it can make amazing improvements. For me especially I can't say enough about my results, but I worked really hard to take care of my body both before and after my surgeries.
UPDATED FROM NurseDee36
1 month post

Post op consult with Chicago doc for 2nd opinion today

NurseDee36
Well, today I went on the first of 3 scheduled post op consultations with other surgeons to gauge my LIPO with BBL results. This surgeon was absolutely shocked with what has been going on. She was such a sweetheart. I didn't feel as if she was being pushy or trying to shame me into coming to her for my eventual revision work. She did confirm my belief that my work was not done properly. She also found it odd how my whole procedure was done with only 2 incisions. I found it odd too!!! She also noted that she saw "no significant change" between my before and after photos. She showed me a video of her in surgery performing the exact same procedure I had done and there were MULTIPLE lipo and fat transfer incisions LIKE I THOUGHT THERE SHOULD BE! Who on God's green earth uses ONLY 2 incisions?? I knew I wasn't crazy and she confirmed that by her exam. She was very honest and I believed her. She was so sincere and she even said that I may have some legal recourse should I find the right lawyer. For a surgeon to tell me that spoke volumes. I will definitely go see what the other 2 surgeons have to say but she was very disappointed. She was angry that I was taken advantage of. I am absolutely speechless. She quoted me her prices and since she wasn't the doctor who did my initial surgery, her prices were in the range of what I paid for my botched surgery. I also spoke with her about the pains in my side in which she told me were hematomas (which makes sense) while my surgeon said it was fat necrosis.. WHAT???

Replies (4)

User Avatar
June 19, 2015
I'm glad ur finally starting to get some answers!i can only imagine what ur goin through
June 22, 2015
I can guarantee the 2 other docs I am going to see will say the exact same thing she did!
June 23, 2015
Is Shifrin on your list?
July 7, 2015
I'm sorry you have to go through this. I went through your pictures and I'm seeing what your seeing, but you must not give up. Believe me after my surgery I was feeling so crazy so out of it I swear I was gonna have a metal break down because I have wanted my surgery for year and when I got it done I wasn't pleased at all. I felt like I had no one so I understand how you feel sweet heart, but that why realself is here.so that you could connect with ppl who are going through the same disappointment. What don't kill you makes you stronger. So pick yourself back up and try it again. I'm so uncomfortable with my own body and am in the process of locating a dr to give me a bbl. I didn't realize how bad it has gotten until I found myself avoiding mirrors. Then one day I told myself no I will not be that women. I will not allow myself to dig my own self hate. I'm not who I want to look like but if I really love myself I'll make sure that that happens for me and you should have the same mindset. Love yourself for who you are now because you know in due time you'll change what ever flaws you don't want to live with. So stay strong and work hard to fixing his mistake because your a strong women that can get things done honey! Ps:shame on that man he know better but he have to remember that in the end good ppl will succeed, and you sound like a very sweet women so in the end you'll win and finally be happy hun!