Had my kids at 18 & 24 and they are now 14 & 10. I went from high school pom girl body to mommy body 1 year after I graduated high school and I regret not allowing myself a chance to enjoy that body. Since having kids, I've always been so focused on my family. Split from from kids dad before my son turned 1 and I haven't been in a serious relationship since. Call me vain but I didn't look at myself in the mirror for years. Sure, I'm pretty but I've always hid behind my clothes. My kids are pretty big and doing great, I'm over the breakup but it took some time for me to accept single parent lifestyle and I'm just ready to live free again.