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9mos post op MM

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Wanted to join the community to share my pre and...

itsjustmeb
$17,500

Wanted to join the community to share my pre and post surgery experience so that it may help others when determining whether this is right for them or not. I want to say that I am soooo happy with the doctor I chose! I felt comfortable with him the moment I met him. This should be the #1 reason why you chose your doctor. I mean you will be seeing him many times after your surgery, why not be comfortable with him!

My story: I am a 39 yo Hispanic woman with 2 children ages 21 and 13 (if u did the math I was 17 when I had my son). I gained 36lbs with my first pregnancy but gained 50lbs total AFTER! Yes I used the excuse "I'm breastfeeding, I have to eat!" I held on to those same 50 lbs during my 2nd pregnancy and ended up at about 190lbs for a long time, and at one point was at 212!! So for 21 years I have been between 180-190lbs.

About a year ago I began my weight loss journey. I started at about size 14+ and by July I was able to wear 10/12. My weight loss really took off in Sept. when I began taking Phentermine pills under a doctors supervision to curb my appetite. I began using MyFitnessPal and started counting calories along with watching my portions. I started to see a real change on the scale AND my body. I have lost 42lbs since my journey began! Well along with losing these lbs I have also lost a large amount of my breast volume. My tummy has shrunk but there obviously is a large amount of extra skin.

I have decided to get the "Mommy Makeover" as they call it. I am getting a tummy tuck, breast augmentation (to fill my volume) with mini lift (minimal sagging, yay) and lipo in the flank area to contour (make me more shapely). I figured if I'm going under I'm doing it all!! For the longest time my tummy bothered me the most but try bathing suit shopping with deflated boobs, especially when everyone knows you with BIG ones!! I have one more month to go before my surgery and I am going to Palm Springs for not only one but TWO POOL PARTIES!!! I am freaking out because I just can't get away with looking like I have the boobs, now I definitely don't!! I know, there are suits out there that can lift you and such but I just didn't leave enough time to shop for the "right" suit. Sigh. Oh well. I will look at the experience as my "before" surgery and will be able to look back at the progress and how far I have come. I have decided that regardless of what I look like right now, I am definitely much better than where I was before. And I'm going to embrace the last month of hard work I put in to get my body where it is today. I look forward to my "future" body and really seeing how toned and how much stronger it can get with more hard work.

Feel free to give me advice or ask me any questions. I look forward to learning as much as I can as I embark on this new journey!

itsjustmeb's provider

Joseph N. Togba, MD (retired)

Joseph N. Togba, MD (retired)

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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UPDATED FROM itsjustmeb
2 months pre

So I haven't really put TOO much thought into my...

itsjustmeb
So I haven't really put TOO much thought into my MM. I mean I do think about it but I don't think it has hit me quite yet that it's coming up real soon. I haven't told too many people, especially my family. I already feel like they aren't all that thrilled at my weight loss. Add perky (and maybe slightly bigger) boobs and a flat tummy and I can already see the looks on their faces! I am not very close with my family so it's been uncomfortable to be around them since I've lost weight. I can hear the whispers...she thinks she's all that, she wasted her money, she thinks she's better than everyone. But you know what?! It's never been about all that. It has always been about how I felt about ME!! I am finally doing something that will improve MY SELF, MY PERSON!! It's not about looking good for my husband (though it's a plus =) ) or to get attention. It's what will make ME happy. So I can't let the negativity of others bring me down and make me feel bad for doing something that will improve my life! And dang it, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!!! I'm turning 40 in September. It's the best birthday present I could ever hope for!!

Okay, well back to work. I work nights. But my day isn't over yet!! Now I've got to workout as much as I can before I can't workout for a while. I asked my PS a stupid question...for some reason I thought, "do I really have to work on my abs if they are tightening them anyways?" Well....looks like the answer is YES. The muscles are being sewn back together but not that they are stronger as a result. So, sigh, back to Ab Ripper X I go. Lol. Happy Friday y'all! (It's MY Friday, AND the start of my vacation!!) Happy healing for those done with their surgeries and happy waiting for the rest of us!!

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UPDATED FROM itsjustmeb
1 month pre

I'm really worried! I know there is no backing...

itsjustmeb
I'm really worried! I know there is no backing out for me bc for one this is for ME. I owe it to myself to be happy. And also i am NOT going to lose all the money i put down!! ha ha!! But I'm worried about the message I will be sending my daughter. Back in November I was at Sams club in the books area. I picked up one book...a spiritual book, opened it and started reading where I opened to...it was about loving urself as u were made, how god intended you, etc. etc. Okay....I pick up another one and again open to something in regards to similar thing and I started thinking about my 13 yo and how I don't want her to grow up thinking SHE has to be thin or else won't be happy and such. I am a believer in signs. I wasn't sure if God was telling me NOT to even THINK about surgery at that time! So, I didn't know what was happening to me but figured out it was a panic attack later. Yesterday I was on RS looking at pics of those who have had their MM. And she wanted to see what I was looking at and showing my husb. So I showed her someone's tummy and how it was all extra skin and the reason for a tt. She kinda seemed a bit disgusted. I don't think she realizes that mommy is going to get surgery to remove my skin but also get boobs. I'm really worried. Along with worrying that I will be too big and then bigger with swelling, idk how to convey to her that this is something I have been thinking about for a long time and need it for my mental health and happiness. I just want to be happy overall. :(

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