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Finally Getting my Hairline Lowered! - Oakland, CA

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Hello, Real Self Community! I am going to get my...

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Hello, Real Self Community! I am going to get my hairline lowered on June 20, 2016 with a Dr. Kabaker and I am so excited for this day to come! So, I have always had an enormous forehead. I was actually completely oblivious to the size of my forehead until high school came around. Kids teased me about the size of my forehead and this is when I began to wear side bangs. I've had the same hairstyle for what feels like a million years now and I am so sick of it. I hate being limited to just one particular hairstyle. I would love to pull my hair back without even thinking twice about it. I would also love to have a friendly relationship with the wind for once;) lol. although I am super excited to get this procedure done; I do have a few concerns. One, being that I have extremely thin hair! I'm afraid even after getting the procedure done, I will still end up having a high hairline due to the shock from surgery. I just don't want to be disappointed with my results. Another concern is that I scar very easily. You will see in the photos I will post, old acne marks that have never faded. If anyone that has had this procedure done can share their experience about hair loss and scarring, I would greatly appreciate it! I've already had my consultation with Dr. Kabaker, which I will write about in another post:)

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Sheldon S. Kabaker, MD FACS (retired)

Sheldon S. Kabaker, MD FACS (retired)

Board Certified Facial Plastic Surgeon

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May 27, 2016
Hi there, I had the procedure done last January. I don't say easily, but my scarring is apparently healing slower than average. I may have made things worse by using Scar Away strips a few days after my stitches were removed, though that was per my surgeon's recommendation. I invested in heavy duty waterproof concealer in the meantime. My scar looks indented in many areas, so who knows if I will ever be able to fully pull my hair back with confidence. I do feel better about the wind blowing my hair back, so that is nice! I also have fine hair, and the hair on top of my head looks a bit thinner to me. I had the procedure done by Dr. Vogel in Owings Mills, MD. Best wishes to you in yours.
May 27, 2016
I don't *scar easily
May 29, 2016
That's interesting that the scar strips may have made it worse. Hopefully your scar fades with time. I'm sure it will! Thanks for reaching out!
June 2, 2016
I just got this done by Dr. Kabaker last week actually. And I am beyond happy with my results! Luckily, I didn't bruise at all so I was able to go out and enjoy California the 2nd day after. And as for after the removal of my stitches, I am easily able to hide the scar with my bangs but it really just looks like little pimples (red dots). Easily covered with make up too. Hope it all fades completely soon. Good luck!
June 7, 2016
That's awesome:) I'm hoping I heal as well as you did! Good to know that the stitches can be easily covered. How many cm did he end up lowering?
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June 3, 2016
Thanks for sharing! I so want to have this procedure but have the same concerns that you do. Your side bangs look great by the way! I can't get mine to stay down and cover my head they still just fly off to the side and expose my giant forehead! Please keep is updated and let us know how it goes!!
June 7, 2016
Lol thank you! My bangs stay down for the most part...well except for windy days lol. I will definitely make sure to update!
June 4, 2016
Hey, can you explain what you mean about having shock after the surgery? I also have thin hair and I read that this was a con for the surgery .
June 7, 2016
I read that shock loss is when your hairs are "shocked" from surgery and causes your hair to fall out. This is usually temporary and hairs tend to grow back within a few months. I'm just worried because I have fine hair to begin with so if anything I would think the hair loss would be very noticeable on me.
June 27, 2016
keep me updated on how it went I myself want to have this done with Dr kabaker and am worried about scaring and hair loss.
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4 days pre

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So I had my consultation on 5/10/16 I believe. I've been so busy lately that I haven't had the time to write about my experience. I remember scheduling my surgery date a week after my consultation and thinking that 6/20 was so far and how it's going to feel like a very long wait. I seriously can't believe how fast the rest of May and June went. My surgery day is only 5 days away! I don't think it has really hit me until now, haha. Anyways, so when I first walked into the office the lady at the front desk had me fill out some paperwork. While we were waiting my mom was looking around/inspecting the office lol. She's a little on the overly protective side and didn't agree about me wanting the surgery, but she still supports my decision and will be there to take care of me:) anyways, a few minutes afterwards, I was taken back into a room. The doctor came in and kind of just swooped my bangs out of my face and started messing my head lol. He moved the skin on my scalp back and forth to see if I had enough elasticity for the one stage procedure, which I did...thank god! I asked him about my concerns, mainly my thin hair, scaring, length of recovery and how many centimeters he can take out. He drew two lines on my forehead. First one was way too high. It still looked like I would have had a big forehead the second one was lower and slightly better. I told him I like the lower line better and he said that everyone says that lol. If possible I would want it lowered just a little more, but only if it's safe to do so. The Dr. asked if I wanted to see a video of how the procedure was performed, which I certainly did but I was afraid that it would totally disturbed my mom lol. Surprisingly, she was really interested after watching the video and seeing a whole bunch of pictures. The video was super helpful in understanding how the procedure is done step by step. After the video we talked about a few other things and I asked to see photos of previous patients that had a similar forehead to mine. He found one woman who's forehead looked identical to mine and her results were amazing! It really made me feel good once I saw that. We also discussed me getting a hair transplant in the near future and that's about it. Hope this update was somewhat helpful!

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June 17, 2016
Can't wait to see your results!
June 17, 2016
Haha, I can't wait either! I'll make sure to update!
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June 17, 2016
I am anxiously awaiting also!
June 17, 2016
I'll make sure to keep you updated! :)
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June 17, 2016
Yes please do!
June 17, 2016
Good luck! I too went to Dr. Kabaker. He and his staff are awesome! You are in good hands!
June 18, 2016
Good luck to you! Please keep us posted.
June 19, 2016
Looking forward to seeing the results!
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1 day pre

Any last minute advice?

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My surgery is tomorrow (Ahhh so crazy!) if anyone happens to have any last minute advice before I go in (11:00am) I'd really appreciate it! I've never had any kind of surgery before so this is definitely a new experience for me. I'm wondering what others have used on their scar to lighten it overtime and also how you covered your stitches when in public. I'm scheduled to go back to work on Thursday; three days after surgery. Hopefully, it's enough time off. I'm also wondering when I can workout lol. I live a pretty active lifestyle so not going to the gym is going to be difficult for me. I'm sure I will get my questions answered tomorrow but really, any advice is very much appreciated!!! Thanks guys:)

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June 20, 2016
Good luck! I went to back to work 3days post and was out two nights afterwards. I used a scarf to conceal the stitches but a headband should do also.
June 20, 2016
Thank you! Did you feel 3 days off work was enough time off?
June 20, 2016
Yes I used the ketoprofen they gave me around the clock for mild pain and to help decrease swelling. Use arnica also to help keep swelling at bay.
June 20, 2016
Got it, thank you!
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June 20, 2016
Good luck today! I hope your surgery goes well. Like someone else said- arnica is great for swelling and bruising.
June 20, 2016
Thanks for the advice!
June 20, 2016
I used a black headband