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40 Something Year Old with Health Issues Looking to Be Healthy Again - New York
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As most of you that have been on the site, I've...
jayonlineMarch 13, 2016
As most of you that have been on the site, I've been researching weight loss options for many years and have been on this site for over a year. Just reading and reading and have decided to begin the process of WLS surgery myself. I'm 5'2" and 215 lbs. I was diagnosed with Congestive Heart Failure about 4 years ago from a virus which attacked my heart muscle and in turn made me very ill. My heart function was 20%, now 35%. After 6 months, I had a defibrillator/pacemaker implanted and this has been life for the past couple of years. As many of you who decide on WLS, I have been overweight since a teenager and have tried numerous diets, exercise programs and have successfully been able to lose 50 lbs on my own but gained that back plus more 3 years later. The fact that I was working out a few times a week before my virus is one of the reasons I feel I was able to survive such a low heart function. I'm on several medications a day for high blood pressure, cholesterol, multiple heart meds. I do feel that my body has changed severely and the process of losing a couple of pounds is not the same. I keep gaining, gaining and gaining. I need to take control of my body and get my SEXY back! I'm way too outgoing to have this weight hold me back from being the person I know I can be. I almost lost my life 4 years ago and have not told anyone but my sis in my immediate family because I know they will think I'm NUTS! I'm not afraid of surgery and I feel this is something that I need to do to feel better and may help my heart function level as well. I'm already beginning the process of all the appointments and testing. I had my psych consult last week and was given the approval for surgery. I had my sleep apnea testing done, abdominal ultrasound, began food & fitness classes as well as support group classes. I am due for an Upper GI series mid march and a few more things and I'll see the surgeon again mid April to move forward and hope that my insurance will approve the surgery. Thanks to everyone on this site who has given me great detailed advice along the way. I hope to join you all on the SLIM SIDE soon! I'm open to more suggestions and advice.
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March 14, 2016
Welcome!!! You have been through it girl ... Don't give up because I know you gonna do great after surgery.. Congratulations and please keep us posted of each step along the way.. God bless you!!!
March 14, 2016
I have but if not me then who? God only gives you what you can handle! Thanks for the well wishes and the advice. Truly appreciate it! I hope to see you on the slim side soon!
March 14, 2016
Wow Jay! You have been through a lot! I had no idea. I'm so glad your heart has gotten better! Congratulations on moving forward with this life changing decision. I'm going to be your number 1 fan and cheerleader here on Realself. I'm so excited for you Chica!
March 14, 2016
Awww thanks Zaria! I'm glad to have a fan and cheerleader in my corner. All support is welcomed. Thanks so much! :)
March 15, 2016
Thanks chica! Well, soon you will be rocking too! Lol...I'm so happy for you!
UPDATED FROM jayonline
Testing and more testing!
jayonlineMarch 30, 2016
Well I had my upper GI done today! Doc should have the results by tomorrow! I'm having a hard time with my eating habits. Gain gain gain! I wasn't supposed to gain since I started the process. Where is the motivation when I need it!! I have to get my mind right! I have one support group to go, medical clearance form and cardiac clearance letter from my cardiologist before I return to see the surgeon mid April! Then hopefully clearance from insurance! Looking forward to what's in store for me this year!
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March 30, 2016
You got this! A few months from now you
will be so happy! I'm excited for you!
will be so happy! I'm excited for you!
April 1, 2016
Thanks love!!! I'm excited to get the weight off! And then God be with me, I have other surgeries in mind! lol

March 31, 2016
Another step checked off! Yay! Soon all the annoying pre-op stuff will be done and you'll be on the other side of this journey! Gains happen sometime, so don't stress. I think I gained 18 pounds between the time I was put in for surgery and the actual day of surgery.
April 1, 2016
Yayyy!!! I'm sure I could gain 20 lbs more but i'm really trying not too! Your mind focuses on all the things you won't be able to eat in a couple of months. lol They told me not to gain anymore but I guess they tell everyone the same thing. I'll be on that other side in about another 2 months or so hopefully.
March 31, 2016
Come on now Jay! I know you got this! You're right...you do have to get your mind right. Focus on your main objective and start changing those eating habits and if you're not working out, just do a little walking. You will start losing. It may not be as much as you want or as fast as you will like it to come off, but it's still better than gaining.
You've been sitting in the background far too long waiting on your opportunity and you've been through way more than others could imagine. It's your time now...You got this Chica!
You've been sitting in the background far too long waiting on your opportunity and you've been through way more than others could imagine. It's your time now...You got this Chica!
UPDATED FROM jayonline
Waiting on my clearance paperwork....
jayonlineApril 1, 2016
I have one more support group to attend besides my medical and cardiology clearance. My cardiologist wants to know what surgery and anesthesia I will be having before giving me clearance. I have no darn clue so I figure the surgeon can get in contact with the cardiologist and make this happen! My doc is waiting on the cardiologist report to clear me. I guess i'm in no rush, I'm due back to see the surgeon and nutritionist mid April. I figure I'd would have seen the nutritionist already but I guess they have their own method to their madness. Either way I won't be able to schedule surgery at least until mid June when I have a break. My family still does not know and I've been keeping pretty quiet about everything in general.
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April 17, 2016
Hi Jayonline. That's a big secret to keep from your family knowing everything you've been thru but I understand. I haven't told anyone about my wls except my stylist and that's because she's preparing for the same surgery. I haven't told anyone because they don't think I need to lose weight. I'm fine the way I am. Little do they know all the years I've been trying to lose 20 pounds has now turned into 50 pounds. Yes I can hide it well but now my knee hurts and I've never had knee problems before so I'm sure it's due to my weight. I need this for me and I know we feel the same way. Good luck with your journey. I did mine backwards. I had my tummy tuck last year thinking that would jumpstart my weight loss it did I loss 10 pounds only to gain it back. My ideal weight is 115-120 I'm 5ft. tall and as of today I weigh 175 ugh
April 17, 2016
Imcute, yes people at the support group tell me you don't look like you need surgery! Maybe I hide it well always have but I'm 5 ft 2in, 215lbs. That's too much weight to have on my frame. So I understand where you're coming from. At least you know you tried TT and that didn't help you so I think the sleeve would be the way to go. As for my family, I'm a tuff cookie they'll either jump on board when I tell them or not. I need to do this for me! Did you begin the process yet? Good luck with whatever you choose. Thanks for reaching out.
April 18, 2016
Yes I'm self pay my insurance will not cover me for this procedure no other health problems. My knee is starting to bother me. My procedure is May 3rd in Mexico. I've done a lot of research and with the support of this group I should be fine. I've never lost more than 15 pounds in a month so I'm excited to see what I can lose. I LOVE my shape I just need to lose this WEIGHT LOL. I will follow your journey and good luck.
Hi there, and welcome to the community! Thanks for sharing your story. You sound so motivated! I'm sure you're going to do really well. I'm sorry you've been through such a hard time, and hope you'll see a big change in your health. Will you come back and update us regularly?