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29 and Ready to Get Rid of My Gut Once and For All - New York, NY

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I had my first consultation with the doctor last...

jennn0
$6,500
I had my first consultation with the doctor last Thursday. He made me feel very comfortable because he seems to really know what he's talking about. He has years of experience and was highly recommended on this site. I went in asking for Smartlipo and he told me that as a doctor he does not consider it a safe procedure and told me traditional was the way to go. I was nervous about traditional lipo because I was under the impression that it involved drains and all types of down time afterwards. He assured me that no drains would be necessary and that my down time would only be a day or two.
I didn't want to tell anybody that I was getting this done but I was told that someone had to bring me home after the procedure and stay with me the night. I'm new to NYC so I don't know a lot of people, and definitely don't have anyone I'd feel comfortable enough asking to pick me up. I decided to tell my mom about it and see if she could take some time off and come here to help me out. She was very upset when I told her what I planned to do and said she was very sad that there was something about myself that I hated so much that I would do something so extreme. She also said that she felt it was a very superficial thing to do and she knows I'm not like that, so it surprised her that I was going to do it. My mom's opinion of me is important to me and it hurts to know that she thinks of it this way. Does anyone else have any similar experiences with people having negative opinions of their procedures? I just want to feel better about myself, I hate the idea that I would come across as fake or superficial. :-(

jennn0's provider

Steven Wallach, MD

Steven Wallach, MD

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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February 11, 2014
Good luck! And yes, my mother and husband felt the same way. I had to explain to them that I love myself and that this was something I wanted to do for myself to make me more comfortable in my own skin. Once they realized that this was something I wanted to do and was not going to change my mind they got on board. I won't say that they still completely understood my reasoning but I'm 9 weeks post and they are both fine. I would just tell them that I understood their concerns but all I needed was prayer and support
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February 12, 2014
My mother would have been standing firmly with your mother. My mother loved me and I believe that she would have stood with my on my decision once she understood my feelings. Your mother loves you and will understand once she understand how important it is to you.
February 12, 2014
Thank you Both very much for your comments that makes me feel a lot better. Do you ever think about how you'll feel if someone compliments your new figure? I lost 30 lbs on my own in the past and whenever someone would compliment me I'd always say, "thank you I worked hard for this!" But now I feel like such a cheater :-( Just having lots of mixed emotions about the procedure that's all.
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February 12, 2014
I have gotten comments and all I say is "thank you". You do not have to elaborate. Just be happy that your hard work and expense was worth it. Good luck.
February 13, 2014
Thank you :-)
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February 12, 2014
Congrats and good luck on upcoming surgery
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February 15, 2014
Good luck on your surgery . I am heading into my surgery on the 19th of this month. I'm sorry to hear your having negative feedback on your decision, however, I'm a very straightforward girl and I mean no disrespect to your mom ,but i would like to say to you that this decison is only about what you think and how you feel. That is the MOST important thing. I made my decision to surgery a full TT and I didn't care what anyone thinks, whether they approve or not. I feel uncomfortable looking at the person in the mirror and wants to be happy doing just that, so i made everything possible to change that choice for me. You must do the same, for you. Your happiness is the most important thing and that's what matters. Everyone else can adjust on their own time. Please make sure what your doing is for you and all decison made is based solely on you r choices. It will make your life easier, surgery less stressful and your healing more progressive and you more happier ultimately.. feel free to inbox me if you wish...
February 20, 2014
Thanks so much for this! I hope your surgery went smoothly today, please keep me updated!!
UPDATED FROM jennn0
7 days pre

Ugh, Finally posting some gross "Before's"

jennn0
Ok, so I'm not thrilled about posting these because I don't ever let ANYONE see me with my stomach all hanging out like this. I have had to suck my stomach in at all times for as long as I can remember. Not really "sucking it in" I guess but more like tightening it. Always. It almost feels forced to let it out. Surgery is a week from tomorrow and I can't wait! Can't wait to never have to feel so disgusted when I let my belly go again.

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February 23, 2014
My dad was not happy with my decision prior to the procedure. I'm 31 and physically active. He felt strongly that if I continued to work out, I would get the same results. I didn't feel the same especially knowing how much hard work I have already put in. Post my procedure, which I had on Wednesday, my dad is fine. He was surprised at first because after our first couple of tough conversations, I stopped talking to him about it and he probably assumed I wasn't going to move forward. While I care deeply about my parents opinions, I also feel like I have to do things that make me happy. I totally think my decision to go forward with the procedure was well worth it....and hopefully you feel the same:-)
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February 23, 2014
Parents only want what they see as best for their kids. I am sure he will respect your decision, he may not agree but he knows and wants you happy. Good luck next week.
UPDATED FROM jennn0
Day of treatment

Today was the Day

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So today was surgery day! Somehow I never really got very nervous about it which I guess was a good thing. I woke up just feeling sore and like I had really bad period cramps. Still not sure of the results but tomorrow when I take off the garment I'll take some pictures. I'm nervous for the bruising because I feel like it's going to be scary and alarming, but I'm prepared for it.

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February 27, 2014
Glad to hear you made it through so well. Continued good luck and healing.
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February 28, 2014
I hope all went. Well and that the dreaded day after won't be to bad! On the good side it seems like everyone says day 3 is WAY better!!:) I will be saying a prayer for you:)
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February 28, 2014
Hello there! How are you feeling. I hope your resting well and taking for meds for pain management. Anyway, speedy recovery and I look forward to reading from you :-)
March 1, 2014
Oh I hope day 3 is better because I was SO sore today!!
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March 1, 2014
Oh yeah... Look at things from the bright side..."As each day goes by, it's one more less day of pain and one more day closer to the new you" :-) You'll be fine. Hang in there !