im finally doing somethig for me :) - New York, NY

After years of not liking my body shape I have decided to do something about it. I have been through so much from being sexually abused as a child to being a single mom and it's about DAMN time I do something for me. I've been looking into a BBL for about a year, and finally decided to do it. A little about me I'm 24 years old 6'0 and 250.....and what I call revered shape lol (carries ALL my weight in my King Kong belly). No disrespect to anyone on here but I don't want a vixen booty, just a nice full shape, and of course, get ride of my belly. I am still in the process of finding a PS, but have narrowed it down to four.
My four surgeons are: Dr Sheila Bond NJ (same state), Dr, Mathew Schulman NYC, and Drs, Perry, and Cortes. Dr. Bond and Schulman are both near me is a big plus, the other two are far away. However Cortes and Perry are very skilled and I like there results. Most likely I'll be going with Schulman he has this new TT called a smart tummy tuck which is less invasive and a quicker recovery time(And great for bigger beauties like me). I'm gonna go for my BBL first since I have more fat now, and I'm looking to get about 700cc's and 150cc's to my hips (did I mention this beauty's has no hips at all). After that I'm gonna wait 6 months and IF I'm not satisfied with my King Kong gut AFTER waist training I'll get the Smooth Tuck.

I'm also gonna do financing for part of my sx. The main reason I liked Perry was because of the good results, good rep, and cost effective even with travel plans (Cortes was only 500 hundred less then Schulman but he is worth it). Anyway Schulman charges start at 9500, so I'll need to finance a couple thousand in addition to my down payment I have saved up. I have bad credit so I was denied with Credit Care, however Medical Financing accepted me, just gotta send in more info.

I hope I can get a date in early March right before Spring Break( I wonder, would it be cheaper to get surgery during that time? Would most people want to get surgery earlier so they could be ready for Spring Break? Probably not.) I want that time for a few reasons: 1. I'll be back to normal by August, and if I want the smooth tuck ill still be ready for J' Oveurt (Caribbean parade in NYC ....ST. LUCIA!!!!!!!) and be slamming. 2. Also I would have fully recovered by August. 3. I'll be 100% ready for my b day (oct 16 LIBRA!!!!!!!!)

I also wana loose some weight to decrease my chances of having to get a smooth tuck (don't want to spend any extra money this beauty is not rich...no way honey lol). What I'm doing personally is learning to moderate my eating habits, and make better eating choices. Drinking lots more water and taking my vitamins. I already started back hitting the gym and getting cardio in( I heard if you do something for 6 weeks routinely...it sticks. That's why most programs last 6 weeks.....food for thought my BBL beauties) My main challenge will be resetting my metabolism and get it working to help loose inches along with pounds. Before I would eat once a twice a day and go long stretches in between. I also have been seeing a nutritionist for help improve my eating habits and teach me how to keep my weight loss off and she taught me about tricking my metabolism buy having high low eating days ( one day 2000the next day 1400 and so one.) she said that will keep my body working because it doesn't know what to expect) I also eat every 3-4 hours to make sure my blood sugar to spike which makes you store fat.

Now ladies I've been stalking this site for sometime now and I am so happy I found this site with all the helpful tips and stories. I will try my best to use these reviews as a guide to help others. I have wanted this for soooooo long and I'm so ready to make this change for me. I'm 24 and I want to wear a bikini or be confident in jeans. I lost my mom this past Thanksgiving and I feel like, [RS bleep] IT YOLO!!!! :)

So for my ladies with with babies young 1-4 and have had a BBL how was the recovery and handling active toddlers?...my Princess will be 2 in April and I am going to need help any tips ladies. Also any bigger Schulman angels out there that can tell me about there experience?


I'll add pics of me and King Kong gut later :/
Later Beauties

Ok guys so its been a looonnnggggg time since I been on here for an update and im soo sorry for it, but man sometimes life catches up to ya. So whats new...ill tell ya....ALOT LOL. I have decided to get a tummy tuck first and heres why, now I have always felt that my king kong bely was huge and I had no booty. Last update I was 250 and I believe the measurments were 46 49 46....YUCK EWWWWW LOL. I started watching what I ate and lost some weight (ill explain in a little) . So after losing weight my new measurments 43 44 44 ( I went from tummy being bigger then ass to now lookig like a ruler hahahaha but Im not gonna complain its progress and im proud.

since my last update I lost my aunt and uncle to cancer ( lung and throat) 2 weeks from each other. My aunts death was hard becase she and my mom raised me and they were so important to me and I do feel sad because I lost my supprt system( tear shead) but there deaths taught me that im a strong women who can hold my own and though they are gone physically all there lessons and wisdom leads me. I am blessed to have such AWESOME role models and there spirits will forever live in my heart. I feel like they were my bail outs when I needed and there gone now, but thats pushing me to make better decisions and they know I was strong enough to survived without them. Ok now that the mushy stuff is over there life to live a job to do and family to take care of. I greive there lost but they would slap me silly if I spent al my time mourning them and not living life. [RS bleep] im almost 25 with an amazing daughter at the prime of my life so lets get it and move on with the life im blessed to live.

After doing more research I want my tt first because I realize my ass is not small its just hidden by lose skin from pregnancy and weight loss (280 after baby and 225 now...HELL YES IM AWESOME and so are you ladies :) so as I lose wight I relaize my body is not a horible as I thought it was, and now that I know hoe to lose weight its not hard to do. ( ladies I have horrible will power so I know yall can do it if I can.) So my top tt doctors are Dr. Salzhauer, Dr Fisher, or Dr Salama im Miami. Lets be real MIA is known for the bodies so why not go there, plus I have a time share so its only 150 for me to stay a week( thankyou mommy ) Fisher is cheaper but thats not always better, Salama wont lipo my back after tummy tuck which I soooooooooooo desperatly need lol. So I think ill have Salzhauer be the man bexause he will and I was quoted 7 or 8 grand I think I forgot which one ill get back when I look at the email again. Now yall know (well when I have a down payment on this surgery yall will see) that I have no hips so if this tummy tuck comes out great I wont need a BBL. So im getting some hip baby oh yea. I want to get a loan but Care Credit said nope your credit is crap. ( credit card comoanies should not be allowed on college campuses during freshmen orientation) truthfully I cant blame them I made mistakes and I have to own up to them but that was still not cool credit card companies -__-. No worries where theres a will Mz 6 Feet will find away, and Im working on it.

Ok now the WEIGHTLOSS for the ladies that need it (yall skinny chicks cant gain weght whish I had that problem lol. Im kiding its a stuggle on both sides.) So guys I drink lots of water 3 liters a day ( its not a lot go to the store they have 1.5 lt bottles.... get two and drink them throughout the day very easy espically when you work out. Leave the sodas to a serious minimum And eat clean. Less fried food and more veggies...less carbs and sweets thats what I did. What I have learned is that if you ease yourself off the bad it will get easy. I hear of sooooooo many people who eliminate food froups like carbs or meat or even food and just juice and I look like WHAT THE HELL WRONG WITH YALL lol. See I make no judgments and to each is own but ill be damn if I stop eating starch to lose weight. To me to lose weight is to be true to yourself and thats when you find your weight comes off. If you like bread dont stop eating just cut back. I used to have carbs with every meal....now I barley eat carbs except when im PMSing or stressing(ladies I will get high and devour some chocolste cookies...trust me it sucks). When it happens I go hard to make up what I messed up. Even when im strict on my diet I still eat cookies why would I stop im a smoker and I gets the munchies lol. Weight loss works when you fit it into YOUR life not the other way around. So now when I get high instead of cookies its the 100 calorie oreo snacks. When im tired of water its juice as a cheat. Food is around us we see it on tv hear it on radios and see it on the internet so stop restricting and modify. Eat small and often....breakfast a lot of water and a bowl of cereal( cinimon toast crunch, with 2 percent milk is what I eat....im not eating no damn carboard cereal lol...there are some tasty health choices like Fiber One that are good if you feel bad about cinimon toast crunch) lunch whatever I want just the right perportions (cut back on fried foods though) maybe baked chicken, porkchops, fish whatever meat you want. See I learned that fat and carbs dont make you fat.....to many fat carbs and calories at the wrong time does. Snack eat some fruit, or yogurt pudding anything as long as its 100 calories diner something smal and light no carbs. You kep you heavest meal when your most active, night meals should be light.

Exercise
If your not fit at all start by walking a couple of miles a day...then add more...what I did was Jilian Michaels Body Revolution....pretty easy starts of very slow for newbies and its 30 miniutes and 4 days a week yall can do that if not...you cant be serious abou losing weight. Last thing yall its okay to fall off the wago...its life I was going strong...thinga started gettig rough and I fell off, but since I trained my body to eat better naturally I have not fained weight back. When I relieve my stress of personal issues I get back on it, and push foward its about getting to the goal of achieving something the weight loss is a bonus. I see it as me finishing a goal I set snd the pride that comes with it as the outfit. The weight loss is just an accessory. There ya go my big booty seekers how I lost weight. I will post picks soon just to prove that it can happen.

Oh if I didnt mention in my previous post im not looking for a small waist..I want to be 42 32 44....I love what I have I just need to tweak it a bit ya know. I see a lot of ladies who look like upside down lollipops lol...to each is own but its not this girls thing.
Oka ladies I have bored yall and wrote all over the place with ideas and info...and to think I have a degree, my english prof. Would slap me lol. Oh well lol im stil awesome. Sory for any typos and a looonnngggg as review. Pleace love and hair grease I love yall

Ok ladies how have you guys been...its been sometime I know. I have been busy making sure this surgery is a go for me and getting more and more planning done. I will say this, people looking to get this surgery know that it is a process. First you stalk RS like a ghost learning a little about the procedure. Next you make the decession to finally have the procedure, and you start contacting surgeons. Then you move into my step, which is OH [RS bleep] I haven't backed out yet...I really want this. You finalize your sergon(or so you think lol) and start the real planning. As for me I have gotten my bro to cosign the loan for me Yyyaaayyy(he has damn near perfect credit literally) so that's great. I have decided to get the BBL first, and maybe tummy tuck later (this is the last time im changing my mind dammit lol). I think a tummy tuck would be great but I know I want more kids and it wont make any sense right now. I don't want a perfect body, I just really want a much better upgrade of what I have. I have been doing great with the weight loss and really starting to see my true shape form. So if I don't have a flat enough tummy, that's okay for me. Like I always say ladies lead with your mind and your body becomes your best accessory. My body is the added bonus of an amazing mind, and not the other way around. Now there is a chance I will change my mind, but I have always been firm on that belief and I don't plan on changing it.

Now that my bro can co sign I may go with Salzhuer, but I do need a doc that is amazing with lipo in Miami. Any vets can give me a hand? I know Salma is great with lipo but I am liking Hassan. Hmm I do know that whatever doc I choose needs to be a beast at back lipo.
Also to my ladies going to Miami or planning to and live in the NJ and NY area hit me up. I will be using my timeshare and its extra space. Its a 2 bed 2 bath condo with a full kitchen, living room with a pull out couch and its by South Beach. I am looking to go either January or after May, I will post more info as it comes along. I just want to see if anyone is interested before I make a final decision. I am hoping to have a family friend who is a nurse aid come to take care of me or us if I have a buddy. I will let y'all know that I go by the books on everything. If we going in to surgery, that means your gonna be around me when im at my weakest so ILL MAKE SURE all my T's are crossed and I's and dotted. Not tryna be mean, but its the best way and I want people to know im not trying to screw them like I don't want to get screwed.
That's all for now, ill give y'all some pre op pics when I have my surgery scheduled which will be my next update. Until then enjoy some plus size wish pics :)