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A Little Older Than Most of You...but Got It Done! Pre/Post Op Pics

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I'm 48 with 3 kids (ages 27, 14, and 13)and...

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cabo_honey
WORTH IT$14,000

I'm 48 with 3 kids (ages 27, 14, and 13)and one granddaughter (age 6). Like most of you, I gained weight then lost it. My high was, oddly enough not during pregnancy but after, 182 lbs - I'm 5'6". I lost down to 132 but could not maintain there - I was running lots and then had cartilage damage to my knee and had to stop running.

I am now still 5'6" and 147 lbs and this is where I have been for 18 months and I can maintain this weight easily. BUT, I wear a size 14 pants because of my belly. And my breasts are very sad and droop half way to my belly.

I have wanted a TT for years but my husband was not on board. On mother's day this year, my dh said "why don't you go ahead and do a MM?" I was hesitant at first due to $$$. But we live relatively debt free and can afford it. While I was so focused on my belly, I didn't see the droopy state of my breasts but now I am looking forward to some perky boobs!

I made appointments with 3 surgeons and decided to go with Dr. Wrye. He works with his partner in all surgeries therefore reducing surgical time. The other surgeons quoted 5-6 hrs for BA, BL, TT, and lipo. With Dr. Wrye and his partner, Dr. Hall, my surgery time is reduced to 3.5 hrs! And, his quote on price was right in line with the other surgeons! While this was not the only factor in choosing him, it helped put him over and above the others. I asked if he uses the pain pump and he does not - so that was the biggest con to using him that I could find.

The biggest disappointment is that due to scheduling at work, the earliest I could get time off was not until Nov 17! I am taking 4 weeks off because of the work I do (not a desk job), I don't want to come back too early.

I have been reviewing the blogs and forums to prepare myself. I have started a list to ask more questions at my preop appointment (not until Nov 10). I have also started a list of things to buy to have at home. I told my oldest daughter that she will be responsible for making Thanksgiving dinner but I will supervise!

We have a trip planned in May, 2012, to go to Mexico and I hope I will be able to rock a two piece!

I took pics today and was totally embarrased by how I look. When I get the courage up, I will post those pics.

In the meantime, I have a widget countdown on my phone and I have 102 days left before my surgery and it sounds like *forever*. But I know with the kids starting school in 3 weeks (one in junior high and one in high school), one playing soccer (practices and games), a trip to Disneyland at Halloween, that the time will just fly by!

So after raising kids since I was 20 - it is finally "All about me"!

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Scott W. Wrye, MD

Scott W. Wrye, MD

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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August 9, 2011
Congrats on your decision. You will love this board. The ladies on here are welcoming and very sweet. It took me a while to build up the courage to post my pics too but we are all in the same boat and love seeing your after shots once your surgery is done.
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August 11, 2011
I am older than you cabo, my surgery is tomorrow 12th and like yourself i had my first son when i was 21 and my second at 25 and they were both big babys so this is now my time and i am ready to turn back the clock, i know from all the lovely girls on here that i am going to have ups and downs, but i also know that in 6 months time i will feel amazing. xx
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August 11, 2011
cabo honey dont be embarrassed you know what sweetie this site is so helpful and these women extend there love as if you knew them since before your first stretch mark.I have been raising kids since 17 too and youngest is 5 and you know what for the first time i am gonna do something for me and its big so yay to the new adventures we are about to have!
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August 12, 2011
Thank you for the warm welcome!
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August 12, 2011

Four weeks off is great! That will really give you time to rest and heal. Keep us posted about how you're healing as the big day nears!

UPDATED FROM cabo_honey
3 months pre

OK - so here are my photos. This is a really hard...

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cabo_honey
OK - so here are my photos. This is a really hard thing to do...

I am meeting with my personal trainer on Wednesday to knock off 10 lbs by November. I will repost photos right before my surgery.

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August 15, 2011
Welcome! You will be so happy you did this! Ask any questions you have on this site, we will try to answer them. Everyone is very supportive.
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August 15, 2011
CABO i AM SO PROUD OF YOU FOR POSTING PIC THESE LADIES DNT PIC @ YOU THERE AMAZEING WANT TO HELP AND WANT TO GIVE ADVICE. i AM GOING TO TSTART MY JOURNEY ON BUYING EVERYTHING ON WHAT i NEED!
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August 16, 2011
Thanks again! I feel fortunate that we have "real self" available to us!
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August 16, 2011
I completely agree this is a great site to have!
UPDATED FROM cabo_honey
3 months pre

Just saw my primary MD - got the thumbs up on the...

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cabo_honey
Just saw my primary MD - got the thumbs up on the surgery. Just need to do an EKG and one more visit just prior to surgery - make sure there are no changes. My ps did not ask me to get an ok, I just wanted it for my peace of mind.

hmmm 85 days left before surgery - I've already bought 4 front closure bras (2 different styles), a front zippered robe, and 2 pairs of large pj bottoms. Can you tell I'm a planner?! I'm not stressing just want to be totally prepared. lol!


I am also planning our trip to Mexico in May, 2012 - giving me enough time to recover and lose some of the swelling. We are also planning a trip to see "The Mouse" aka disneyland. My surgery is just 2 weeks after we return!

I know the next few weeks will just fly by!!!!

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August 25, 2011
Good fo ryou Cabo I am doing the same thing you know I took all labs to rule out any anemia and what not get that on trk now!
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August 28, 2011
So far everything is looking great - just impatient with the wait... Thanks everyone
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August 29, 2011
Ok Cabo i get the inpatient part I totally due... You got a little more prep time
September 3, 2011
You will do great Cabo, i felt anxious as the day got closer, but it will be over before you know it
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September 4, 2011
I am just getting anxious to get it over with - I realized it is 10 weeks til the surgery - wow! I started in May! Time has flown by...