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Hi everyone. I am writing this post because even...
JustgowithitJanuary 23, 2015 WORTH IT
Hi everyone. I am writing this post because even though some people do not agree with plastic surgery I know that I'm not alone when I say it's not even a question for me. I have been thinking about getting labiaplasty for about 10 years. I'm 25 years old and I finally got the courage today to talk to my doctor about it. To be clear, I am embarrassed about how I look HOWEVER I have never been treated like I was anything other then beautiful by my boyfriend. He makes me feel like I am perfect and I know that's how he sees me. That I just not how I feel "down there". That is not the only reason I am doing it though. I also am a very healthy girl who loves working out but working out isn't that easy when you have a larger labia. Its painful and all around uncomfortable. Wearing a thong is uncomfortable, wearing jeans is uncomfortable. I believe that when something starts affecting your life in multiple ways it's time to fix the problem whatever that may be. And for me the answer to my problem is labiaplasty. When I went to see my doctor today (I just moved and this was my first time meeting her) I was telling her about myself and she made me feel so comfortable that I got the guts to bring it up. I started to say that I found the man of my dreams and can't even have sex with him without being in pain and just fell a part. She immediately touched my knee and said "my daughter is going through the same exact thing and I am starting the process with her" I felt so relieved and proud of myself for finally admitting something was wrong after all of these years of hiding the pain due to embarrassment. By the end of the appointment she made an appointment for me to go to see the obgyn in her office and start coming up with a plan. I will be meeting with her February 11th and absolutely can not wait. I will find out more about the procedure, cost, if insurance helps at all etc. And for anyone going through this process or went through I'd love to hear your stories. And for all of you going through what I am know you're not alone. I intend to keep posting here about the process for anyone who is thinking about having the procedure done.
I really enjoyed reading your story, so glad you took the time to share. I'm thrilled that you were able to find a wonderful doctor to support you through this, I realize it's not the most comfortable thing to talk about. I remember feeling so embarrassed as well when I reached out to my doctor, and I was so relieved when she said she could help me, and that it was actually really common... I suddenly felt normal. So no reason to feel ashamed, you are certainly not alone. Here is a video that I thought you might find this interesting:
View popular Labiaplasty videos
Also, check this out:
LABIAPLASTY: "THE PERFECT VAGINA" MOVIE.
I remember feeling almost comforted after I watched this movie. I didn't realize just how many women felt this way about their private parts. I am happy to hear that your boyfriend treats you as you should be treated, beautiful no matter what. I look forward to your updates and hearing more details.