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Time to Trade in my Size 18 Body - Murrieta, CA

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I am 40 years old. In a few months I will be...

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Murrieta Mom
WORTH IT$15,500

I am 40 years old. In a few months I will be celebrating my 20th wedding anniversary with my amazing husband. I have two teenaged boys who are my pride and joy! I own a successful business and employ some of the most supportive, wonderful people on earth. I truly am blessed in my life! We have gone through our hard times but honestly every challenge I have faced has led me to today. I have most everything under control but my weight!

I have recently lost 40lbs on the HCG protocol diet. This has been an easy diet for me because it makes sense to me and I have seen results with myself and my diet buddies! One gal has lost 80lbs since 2011 and looks like a new person. The other 60lbs and looks beautiful. We have all had results we can be proud of! The more I lose the flabbier I look and feel. My stomach has a zip code of it's own. I often wonder how I let myself gain so much to create this little monster. My breasts which were always perky are now trying to join my stomach down south. Last year I was sporting size 38d bra - filling it nicely with great shape but now each pound lost makes them look like empty sacks. My butt and thighs were where I had issue in the past but the stomach has just thrown me over the edge.

I started researching plastic surgery. This was my little secret. All the bodies looked amazing in their before pictures to me! Lol! I would wish for a little muffin top or slight tummy bulge. Two years ago I saw my PS for Botox and we talked about healthy weight loss and how you need to get close to your desired weight goal before having surgery. This made me realize surgery was years away for me. But with my weight loss and sagging body I started my quest again. This time I consulted with a surgeon from Newport Beach, Ca. Her photos showed women who were my size having amazing results. I expected her to tell me to lose 20+ lbs and then maybe I was a mommy makeover candidate. I am currently 218lbs. She said the opposite. She gave me the thumbs up for a two stage program. Tummy tuck and flank lipo followed by breast augmentation and thigh lipo. I was thrilled and shocked and excited! I was ready to get my body back! Being diligent I went for a second opinion and saw the nicest PS ever in La Jolla, Ca. She was willing to do a TT and BA followed by all over lipo in a second surgery. I actually scheduled my first surgery for March 6th. My amazing, supportive and adorable husband freaked out. He was on board (well kind of) with all of this but did not like my surgeon being 70 miles away. So to come full circle I went back to my Murrieta Botox doctor. I just knew he'd say cut 50lbs then he'd consider surgery. He's known in our area as a conservative doctor. Well he gave me the green light and I am scheduled for TT, BA and flank, thigh and knee lipo for February 24th!!! Worst part of all this was canceling with the La Jolla doctor - but I am very happy with my decision. My doctor is only 5 miles from my house. I'm excited and scared but I feel that this will enhance the healthy lifestyle I am now living. I will continue to diet and am ready to excersize! It's now time for me to look on the outside like I feel on the inside!

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David A. Newman, MD, FACS

David A. Newman, MD, FACS

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August 3, 2016
Just want you to know your review was my inspiration. I have had it saved in my bookmarks for years now and looked it over every time I thought about having this surgery. Well I finally did it and I just wanted to say thank you for posting your review and giving me the courage to persist! Hope your doing well
May 14, 2018
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UPDATED FROM Murrieta Mom
4 days pre

Friday will be here before I know it! Only worry...

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Friday will be here before I know it! Only worry is that I haven't picked my implant size and type. My ps recommends saline. I've heard such great things about silicone based on feel and look. His reasoning is that I have enough breast tissue for saline. I'd love your opinions of saline vs silicone. I trust him just would love to hear from gals who have implants or are getting them.

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February 21, 2012
i totally would do Saline... I went with that this time again. cos with Silicon its the size you pick you get. Like with Saline well if you want to go bigger you can he just pumps in more saline. Silicon your stuck with the size or else if you want bigger or smaller you have to do the operation all over. At least that is my understanding. My best wishes to you.
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February 21, 2012
That's my biggest concern...having the size right. Thanks for your opinion!
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February 26, 2012
Go with Silicone! Silicone are the Cadillac of boobies:) I had several friends remove their sillicon back in the day when they had the Silicone scare and replaced with Saline, THEY ALL HATED THE SALINE SO MUCH they went back and again replaced the saline with Silicone and took the risk. Saline feels awful and ripples. I personally have the gummy bear implants and will be getting a lift and implant exchange, I will be exchanging them for the same gummy bears, this is just maintenance. Good Luck:)
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February 21, 2012

Hi there and welcome to RealSelf!

Here's what some doctors have to say about saline versus silicone implants.

Also, here's a forum post about the different types of implants available and some pros and cons.

I hope this helps! Keep us posted.

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February 22, 2012
Thanks for the forum info Angiemcc. It helped. I'm trying to post photos but can't figure out how to do it. I was able to update my profile pic from my phone but now don't see area to upload before and after photos.
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February 26, 2012

It looks like you figured it out. Sadly, you can't upload from a phone/tablet yet. You have to do it from a computer. We're working on that feature though!

February 21, 2012
Hi Murrieta Momma!!!! Just read your posted and excited for the new you. I am not a "small" girl either, but look forward to losing my extra skin!!! Keep me posted on your outcome....... I am doing silicone implants and shooting to go from a 36B (very saggy) to a perky 36D. Do your research on the two items, they feel very different to the touch. Keep me posted....can wait to hear about your great results!!
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February 21, 2012
Thanks for your response AZKitty! When is your surgery? All my research says go with silicone. I really need to talk to my PS. His nurse called yesterday and said that I could change my mind right before surgery if I want for a mere $1,000! LOL! I am really leaning that way.
February 21, 2012
My surgery is 3-15-2012. The price of $1,000 is what I am paying for the silicone. They just feel more natural to me, but it a very personal choice. Let me know what you decide and keep me posted on your progress!!
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2 days pre

Two days before MM! I spoke to my nurse yesterday...

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Two days before MM! I spoke to my nurse yesterday and confirmed my desire for silicone implants. I haven't paid the extra $1,000 yet so I'm hoping I don't get talked out of it. : )

My EKG and bloodwork all came back normal so as of now all is well. Only issue that came up at my preop last thursday was my blood pressure was high. I had to go on BP medicine. On Monday it was still high so they doubled the dose. I go back Thursday for one last check. Hopefully that will not be an issue. I've read all the q&a's regarding surgery and high BP and feel comfortable.

So thankful for realself! Such a great place to share and learn. hopefully my story can help someone else like all your stories help me!

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February 22, 2012
Silicone it is!!! I bet you are glad that decision is done..... Now the waiting game begins.....Let's hope time flies and it is here before we know it!!!
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February 22, 2012
OMG AZKitty you can't even imagine! Friday is two days away!!!! I am so excited! Trying to get all my lose ends handled so I can heal with no worries.